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Posted: 13 years ago
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๐Ÿ˜‰Hey, while going through the topics, I didnt find anything related to babies , or motherhood or parenting!! So lets take some time out and discuss our little sweet monsters , what do they do, what they eat, what they like to have , what are their favorite books, share your stories here , about"motherhood a total bliss "!! lets do some baby talks, because all your experiences of while growing up a child can help each of us!!๐Ÿ˜Š

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not a mother, but I've seen my two cousins grow up since they came into this world... the older one's 5 years old now and the young baby is 1 year and 2 weeks old ๐Ÿ˜ƒ they stay in my building, and the young baby is mostly with me until he has to eat or until he doesnt let me study.
IDK what they eat...their mother makes some baby food ๐Ÿ˜† ..the younger baby wants to eat everything I eat! ๐Ÿ˜† I am not a mother, although I do change his diapers, feed him incase I'm eating something(rice, fruits), put him to sleep and play music in the background. and I play with him most of the times :P So, not a mother, I'm just his sister. ๐Ÿ˜†
This baby and I are very close ๐Ÿ˜ณ ..he's just started walking a month ago, and doesnt talk or even utter baby-words.. I tell him to say a few words like "mama", "akka", NO! He never speaks! ๐Ÿ˜ณ .he just looks at me with his beautiful innocent eyes โค๏ธ
He loves and enjoys music.. if I play a soulful song, he listens with full concentration, if the song is jumpy and rythmic too, he listens with full concentration... It's beautiful watching him when he's listening to songs.
I'll come back later and post what all he does, etc ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey this is debate mansion so discussion should be something in the line of whether babies are adorable little things or monster devils incarnate ๐Ÿ˜† unless you want the thread locked as irrelevant in DM ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kareenakocchar

๐Ÿ˜‰Hey, while going through the topics, I didnt find anything related to babies , or motherhood or parenting!! So lets take some time out and discuss our little sweet monsters , what do they do, what they eat, what they like to have , what are their favorite books, share your stories here , about"motherhood a total bliss "!! lets do some baby talks, because all your experiences of while growing up a child can help each of us!!๐Ÿ˜Š



I am not a mother, but I have a little toddler who is 2 y.o that I take care of ๐Ÿ˜ƒ. Well he's my neighbor's son and he's over at our house almost always. I usually come back from work and spend my entire evening with him, going to the park, playing, running around in the backyard etc. I even made him a play room in our house, and everyone in the house is very fond of him. He's like the jaan of our house because well we all are adults ๐Ÿ˜›, so I guess we need a baby around lol.

Yes, as Angel mentioned, even my baby loves music. He dances to Indian music ๐Ÿ˜† hahaha and he loves it when I put the headphones on his head. And when he is dancing he expects everyone to look at him and clap ๐Ÿ˜†.

As for food, I always try to bring him a chocolate but I realize it's bad for him so I sometimes even make home made desserts for him (he obviously loves sweets). He isn't Indian, but he loves Indian food since we feed him Indian foods (roti etc.). He's very naught though and loves running around in the backyard. Other then that, hmmm I bought him a bubble gun recently and seems like that's his new fav toy hehehe. He's also very famous amongst my friends and colleagues, and I think I have a picture of him everywhere from photo frames to phone background, and almost everywhere. I sometimes think I'm too attached to this baby whose not even my own baby! lol I can only imagine when I have my own. That being said, I love babies but I however think as adorable as they are, they are little monsters! My baby makes me have a work out session even on days I don't hit the gym ๐Ÿ˜†.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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^^ Aww, ash, so adorable ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
OK, so, I'll continue with talk about my beautiful baby ๐Ÿ˜› ..and beware, my post is gonna be too long ;)
He jumps, screams and runs to me when he sees me...and TBH, sometimes I get tears seeing such a beautiful tiny little pure innocent creature having so much love for me.
He finds everything amusing, he plays with his feet, his hands, everything and anything that comes in contact with him ๐Ÿ˜ณ ...and, he falls down with a single slight touch, when he's standing... he's very delicate and I love the way he FALLS down on his butt ๐Ÿ˜› I made videos of him falling on his butt ๐Ÿ˜†
Two days ago, he discovered the ceiling FAN! we have two celing fans in our hall...and he kept looking at one fan and another fan...and keeps looking at them until he finds another thing to distract him ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜•
Oh, and he never plays with the toys we buy for him, he plays(figets rather) with them for sometime, and throws 'em away.. ๐Ÿ˜† However, he's very much attached to one of my deo bottle.. he LITERALLY rolls on the ground and cries if I take it away while he's playing, i find it adorable ๐Ÿคฃ and he puts whatever-object-he-comes-across in his mouth ๐Ÿ˜† .. anything, he first touches, squeezes, figets with whatever comes to his hand, and then it HAS TO go into his mouth ๐Ÿ˜†
I love it when I put him to sleep.. I think watching a sleeping baby breathe is one of the most beautiful things the existance has to offer.
And, as dramatic/theatrical as it may sound... this baby makes me very emotional, the beauty, playfullness, purity, innocence, love, receptiveness in him makes me cry. I dont understand why babies are so beautiful, and this one's not even my own baby! .. I can just sit there and watch him play, walk and crawl about, sleep. โค๏ธ
And I wonder when I'll become a mother! ๐Ÿ˜†
PS --- Can anyone tell me why this baby is not speaking?? He listens to me, I know he understands words too, but why is he so stubborn? ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Do not happen to be a mother, but i can say with closed eyes that experiencing motherhood is a bliss. Motherhood is a life changing experience, opens up new doors of hope and expectations for many. It's a feeling which cannot be expressed verbally. I have a friend who recently gave birth to a baby boy. She is always talking about her newly experiences and how different it is. There is always a beautiful glow on her face. Seeing her transition into motherhood is sublime.

I have 3 year old cousin brother, who happen to call me his 'best friend' lol. He is a little munchkin, very mischievous. He loves testing my patience and gets into many incidents where i am left pulling my hair out, and then shows me the puppy eyes and gives me a peck indicating his apologies, being the sucker i am i can't help but give in. ๐Ÿ˜† Whenever i am babysitting him, we usually spend our time together by playing on the X-box/wii, going out, or by simply grooving. (he loves the gummy bears) ๐Ÿ˜†

I find it absolutely fascinating how alert an infants brain is. They are very intelligent in processing their thoughts, it's amazing! The amount of things they do leave you gawked and many a times i find myself in situations where i'm left thinking - what just happened? lol.

Have any of you been in situations with babies, where you so badly want them to call you by your name, but they refuse to do so and instead they come up with their own little nicknames for you ๐Ÿ˜† I find that very exciting lol. Through the past years i have been addressed by several names - it's cute and gives me a feeling of close attachment to the baby.



Posted: 13 years ago
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Babies! Cute little monsters. They have the power to make you go 'awww' one minute and the next minute 'argh!'. All babies are mini versions of 'Jekyll and Hyde'.

I'm a mother of a now 11 year old girl (damn when did she grow up so fast) and have gone through all the ups and downs. I became a mother very early in my 20s and it changed me completely. Can't even remember my life before it. After becoming a mother the focus shifts from yourself to the baby and it needs. Believe me...taking a shower becomes a luxury. Eating...you are fortunate if you ever get the time to cook and even more lucky if you get to eat it. Changing clothes...only when it's necessary. Combing hair...are you kiddding me?! Mirrors...avoid them for the coming 6 months unless you want to be scarred for life. Sleep...what's that? Forget about it! Doesn't exist for a very long time. Maternal bliss? Who ever thought of that deserves a kick in the rear end. ๐Ÿ˜† Your brain is mostly a mush and at times you walk around like a zombie.
Not a very rosy picture I have painted up, huh? However this is reality and we rarely talk about it as it's something bad. Mothers are supposed to be superhumans with 8 arms managing everything without uttering a single complain. Sorry I'm not one of them and I no longer feel guilty about it (took me years to get here).
My experience may sound horrible but despite so much hard work I would do it again because it's worth it (now I'm having certain ads playing in my head regarding 'I'm worth it!' ). A child brings a lot of joy too. Their smile, their innocence, their curiousity and when they look into your eyes...it turns you into a goo. As they grow older and begins to accomplish big things you are ready to burst with pride.
My dear 11 year old is soon to become a teenager and I have some very challenging years ahead...actually it has already begun. Pray for me and my sanity please! ๐Ÿ˜†
To end my topic...whatever anyone tells you about motherhood listen to it with a pinch of salt. Everyone's experience is different. What may have worked for others may not work for you and vice versa. Advices are good but trust your guts becuase you are the mother and knows your baby best.
PS. I hope I didn't scare of all mothers to be. ๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe

Babies! Cute little monsters.



agree..but it's awesome experience.u'll be full of positive energy.

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