The bad girl and the bad boy

I watched cocktail yesterday and it got me thinking.

Why is that in indian films and tv serials the bad boy first is with the bad girl. The girl whom his mother will never approve of. Then falls in love/marry s the good girl his mom approves of . The girl who does not show her waist the girl who s goody goody that butter wont melt in her mouth...

He suddenly realizes that the time he spent with the bad girl was never love but he is head over heels in love with the good girl who transforms him.

Why is it that the reformed bad boy deserves a happy ending with the good girl?? Why does nt he deserve to be punished like the bad girl always is?? Should we just reward him with a happy ending just because the dharti pe bojh changed???

The bad girls always get punished. Why??? Cant someone fall in love with a bad girl? Cant someone stick to that bad girl even though their mom disapproves?? Cant someone marry that bad girl ?? Cant someone give that bad girl a chance to sober down?? Cant that bad girl be reformed??

Saathiya is no exception.

Pl share your views on this. .

I had left the forum but i could'nt stop posting on your topic. This is my point exactly , i totally agree...why does the bad girl always stays alone and why does the boy fall in love with a sati savitri types nd then realize he never loved the previous gal ??😕 Like ahem-anita and gopi in sns.

I agree wit ur views. Let it b daily soaps or films, dey all share a common core.

It is always the case in our society..."bad" girls can never redeem themselves given the society's dubious moral standards...girls aren't supposed to commit any mistake, and if they do then they are tainted for ever..."fallen" women are easy targets for sadists, a lot of cruelty is passed of as tradition...No tradition that infringes on the human rights of a woman is worth preserving.

Oh gawd, is this why I'm not married yet?

Originally posted by: RaJiforever

I had left the forum but i could'nt stop posting on your topic. This is my point exactly , i totally agree...why does the bad girl always stays alone and why does the boy fall in love with a sati savitri types nd then realize he never loved the previous gal ??😕Like ahem-anita and gopi in sns.

PS: i loved dippy in cocktail !!😆

i liked both the girls. The movie was fun but the ending sucked big time. I know it was the anita ahem gopi triangle . The poor anita she s termed obsessed etc and suddenly one hadsa ie the accident/kitchen fire transforms her and she lets the bad boy and good girl unite 🤢. I hope u will be back by next week:-)

not only that vibz, the story is set in london to show that things like this can happen only out side india, the desi spirit does not alow this relationship here. and the bad girl is always from goa or a christian
the creatives are always so narrow minded.
as for the movie, the bad girl atleast tries to change for her love.

Good post partner..👏

why bad boy gets good wife and is happy ...because initial bad boy is always a hero in the later chapters...

Why bad girl is always bad 😕 because a heroine or a female lead should always be goody good...with no single negative trait all her life... A bad girl is shown as a bad girl for the rest of her life..

SNS is no exception .. or may be it is an exception or can be an exception to some extent...

I am still hoping for KinWal track to open up...

we know the effect of Gopism on Ahemji and how Ahem is changed by his sweet little wife...

similarly, i am hoping for Kinjal to change or reform with Dhavalism .. Kinjal's attitude.. hatred.. disrespect everything can be curbed only by Dhavalism with his love.. so this can prove that if one person in a couple is good .. the goodness can change the other person too... but only in the due course of time...

Great questions raised by your post!!!

Its easy to tell who is good or who is bad while you are watching a movie, but its so difficult in real life. Or is it just me? 😕

@Vibz

your siggy Ek tha student perfectly explains my emotions.. 🤣