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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

is cold shoulder ko main kya naam doon..😭😆

Sapney dekhna bandh karo... indigoblues 😆😉😃
Jokes apart, I don't want to be caught spamming.
But from what I see floating around, ME is not about Khushi leaving RM but he birthday!?😕😲
Well, Is track ko kya naam doon?!
Celebration ya redemption!? 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: canadiandesi

Sapney dekhna bandh karo... indigoblues 😆😉😃
Jokes apart, I don't want to be caught spamming.
But from what I see floating around, ME is not about Khushi leaving RM but he birthday!?😕😲
Well, Is track ko kya naam doon?!
Celebration ya redemption!? 😡


Birthday?😕 No idea..my net's been screwing up for the past few days...whenever I think I'm sick of IPK my net works absolutely fine..the moment an interesting or heart-wrenching moment comes up..it goes thup..😆
Yeah, I know spamming is not allowed..but I'm still bumping the post...seriously, I got at least 200 views on another less popular forum..😆
I guess the birthday will be the final straw..just imagine..I'm pretty sure Anjali will throw a fit if Khushi tries to be happy while Hubby dearest is beghar..😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fancy seeing you here..:) grt post by the way..!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -happilyunknown

Fancy seeing you here..:) grt post by the way..!


thanks!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Indigoblues what an amazing post...

I totally agree with what you said. My mom who has worked with disabled children all her life prescribes tough love for them. It is essential to build a healthy self image for them to be treated at par with their siblings and peers.


But yes Raizada's do not get it. I have been wondering for a long time now, ok what happened with Anjali was devastating but that is exactly y the family needs to toughen up ignore her pleas for isolation and make her see reality. If they had done tat before she wud not be thinking of killing her child based on some twisted logic.

I understand Anjali is traumatized past but does tat excuse her from all responsibility???

Isnt khushi equally traumatized that too on different levels; losing parents as child, being forced to get engaged to a leech, being betrayed by a leech, forced into marriage,disowned by her family, reminded of being an orphan, molested by a leech, kidnaped & physically assualted by a kidnapper and now finally blamed for her very existing...

I want to ask people who has suffered more Anjali or Khushi??

Coming to u know Arnav's regressive attitude inspite of an education abroad. I think u bring up a very valid point. Having studied in USA and now working here trust me the number of regressive MCP men I have met are beyond count. I have seen men for whom a woman expressing her opinions openly boldly automatically becomes a high headed too modernized B****...


Edited by memyselfandrshi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You're right..but you know what.. thats how we, the people in general, work. And now that they're blatantly showing it on TV, people would believe that's the way things re supposed to be. Instead of beating stigmas, the show is getting more twined in them. IRONY!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree with you. Just because a person, especially a child, has had tragedies in their life does not mean that they should be treated so specially that they can get away with anything. I mean, if they are treated that way, of COURSE they are going to think that they can get everything they want in life without really having to work for it and get away with anything bad that they do just because they have a "troubled past." I really think that Arnav and Anjali need to take some lessons about dealing with adversity from Khushi. She has had so much happen to her: her parents died in a car accident when she was only eight, she was not fully accepted by the family she was taken into and was always feeling like the odd one out, and then meeting Arnav and, consequently Shyam, brought a landslide of more problems into her life. But regardless of this, she still holds her head up high and knows that she needs to work for the things she wants to achieve in life and take responsibility for anything that she has done wrong. And, along with that, she always puts the happiness of others before her own. I have no doubt that if Anjali asked her to leave RM so that she (Anjali) could be happy and not be reminded of her husband, Khushi would do it without a second thought, sacrificing her own happiness to make sure that Anjali was happy. And she knows that if Anjali is happy, then Arnav will be happy, and the happiness of others is all that she really wants. I'm not saying that Anjali and Arnav are horrible people or anything, but the way that Khushi has handled everything that life has thrown at her, all the tests that her Devi Maiyya has given her, and still manages to be such a good person without any grudges against the world or God for giving her such a horrible life.
Edited by WiseGirl - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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that was a bang on post..
i was thoroughly disappointed when arnav said that why khushi came into their lives and shyam would have never done such a thing he hadnt seen her.. That's so stupid. Why does the society blame the woman always for the mistakes a man does. Arnav has done many mistakes in khushi's matters, first reacting late on friday's epi and today it's simply pathetic.. be it a hero, but just like villians they too dont have respect for women.. We love angry-young-men but definitely not chauvinists.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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"DAMMIT PEOPLE REPLY, I'M NOT GOING TO DRIVE YOU AWAY AND SAY 'TUM MERE TOPIC PAR KYUN AAYE?'🤣"

ASR istyle...

Just love your analysis,
If you are in trauma for whatever happened in your life for 10-15 years back, that does not give you the right to behave like that.
If this is the case this people need medical treatment .. now the sad part is this thing is showing in a TV show.


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