Y Anandi cried @ divorce?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Imo Anandi is crying ki Bechara ab Jaggoo ki life long band bazaoing by Gauri is inevitable...LOLz

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Posted: 13 years ago
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My first pole option was entered wrongly in pole question...
Let it b... But i feel child marriage is the cause of her pain ...it caused such a havoc without her fault...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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none of the options mentioned are what I think so I did not choose one but had you put she is grieving for her broken marriage of 18 odd years then i would have picked that one but your options to me seemed biased
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Posted: 13 years ago
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a totally biased poll that migt as well have no choce!! if all is to be chosen is what u assume ot be then why the formality of even a poll? there was no other chocie given so i dnt choose!!
why anandi cried:
  1. the same reason jaggu did- u dndt see the tears in his eyes.face?
  2. she is leaving behind the identity she grew up with - annadi jagdish singh!! it is like when we have our nikah all girls ccry- even if love mariage while signing, it is coz ur leaving ur old identity n entering a new fold she is now just anandi- she feel incomplete unsure in the new envioronment- later she will heal enough to be happy being away from that identity but right now she is hurt scared vunerable
  3. the whole life flashed in front of her the good times the best friend the first love the first touch the bond all died in the flame after the phone call n the entrance of g and jagya in marriage it was at that she stopped new memories- it showed her safar from happy to good to love to end- g and j saath!! she cried over that
  4. self respect doesnt mean u force urself to stay angry n carry vengence- it is ok to break down cry and grieve- self respect is picknig up from it and she has doen so and will do so
  5. the look was of amamzement- what had started what was so good is now this- this is how we are ending it?
  6. she NEVER wanted him back once he chose g , she told him to be nice to her, but i guess even when she calls him she will just say that in future u should not drink and loses sense and destry ur futre live a good life with g do well, i find it not an acto f less slef respect- she truly truly loves him, she cared for him - so even if there is no love now she dsnt want him to fail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well ..on a funny note...i would like to choose option three😆

but honestly...i don't chose any option because as far as first option is concerned..i don't think its true.🤔..she has spent lots of time jagya n singh family infact she is a part of singh family because of him...so she somehow felt that may be after divorce she will not be a part of this family anymore...but sumitra cleared her doubt...then another reason of her crying is that however irrational n arrogant jagya had turned now but the truth is that they have spent some wonderful time together and memories of that times came again n again while she was ending this relationship...so its ok if she venting out her pain, love, frustration, anger etc which she got n developed from this relation...in a way it was good that she don't want to keep anything inside her heart or else she would never be able to move on in life in true senses...to start fresh n make a new relation it is necessary to clean all the mess old relation n memories have created in the heart...so in a way she washed out all her heart ache by crying

as far as second option is concerned...well i agree that i felt many times she was willing to forgive jagya even after jagya-gauri truth came out...but gradually she overcame this feeling...when jagya didn't stopped his nonsense n kept spitting out venom against her n even blamed her for his unborn child's death...that was the end of any possibility that anandi will ever forgive him ...n thats when she realised that jagya has went too far to come back n she lost all hopes...infact she was willing to throw him out of her life herself...remember that scene where she packed all the jagya's belonging n asked makhan to burn them or throw them.

and as i already mentioned that i can chose option three on funny not but not otherwise😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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None of the options.But on a lighter note I'd say she cried because she couldn't find reasons to laugh??
Seriously speaking I definitely don't think she cried because she had no self respect.
Edited by apjk - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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because she was hungry
Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes child marriage is the cause of their unhappiness. But what are cv trying to show? That there is little or no love in adult marriages(jagia-gauri), more love and understanding in child marriages. (anandi-jagia) Secondly by showing the failure of jagia gauri marriage they are praching us that the partners our parents choose for us are best (jagia-anandi) so go for arranged marriages. If you marry for love utr marriage will never succeed.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitasharma

Yes child marriage is the cause of their unhappiness. But what are cv trying to show? That there is little or no love in adult marriages(jagia-gauri), more love and understanding in child marriages. (anandi-jagia) Secondly by showing the failure of jagia gauri marriage they are praching us that the partners our parents choose for us are best (jagia-anandi) so go for arranged marriages. If you marry for love utr marriage will never succeed.


DOI NO!

Cvs are preaching if you are an idiot and become a mistress without thinking then your life will go in ruins

Cvs have shown two successful love marriagesin BV

Shyam and Sugna
Asha and Abhishekh

So no tthey are not saying love marriages don't last

and of course our King and Queen AnSH will be love marriage too : )))

So yeah they are just showing
Don't be greedy like Gauri
Don't be a cheater like jagya
and Don't be a stupid mistress like Gauri : )

thats all


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Posted: 13 years ago
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What is the cause of Anandi's plight n divorce now????
Anandi respects adult choice of Jagya irrespective of his nature...she even did never care the scheming of Gauri ...because Anandi knows well that she had 2 stand @ cross roads as a divorcee today just because of social evil...
She was made victim for NO FAULT OF HER...its unfortunate but she had 2 face it...
Its never losing SELFRESPECT n any such trash...

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