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Chaar Singham😃

I liked today's episode...why...because everything seems back to square one...and hopefully so will your Singhani Gul's version of convenient passion and TRPs😛 (although I am emamoured by none)...for wasn't this whole thing about that😆😆
I don't like myself though...because a small corner in my mind is telling me to quit...and another small corner is telling me to get ready for another 4 months (yup thats what it took from February terrace MU to July 9 Monday Poolside hug😆😆) of mindless comedy, endless crying and pointless lessons of life.😆😆
But all was not bad...the crux of the problem is right there again...Didi ya Didi ki Saut...which frankly is getting repititive...That said, given my Hotel California status (yup you can never leave)😆😆...I plod on...So Chaar Singham fellas and felli😃...this is for you...and addressed to the three leads
So I called up the Captain😛😉, "Please bring me my wine"😛 (i.e Achhey Pati Shyamsey😛)
He said, "We haven't had that spirit here since nineteen sixty nine"😭🤣
And still those voices are calling from far away,😳 (Rani Sahibaa Rani Sahibaa)
Wake you up in the middle of the night...Just to hear them say...
Anjali...I dedicated few hours of heartfelt writing and responding to the serious, sensitive topic of abortion...and some wonderful people on this Forum responded to it that lent an understanding, maturity and dignity far beyond what I could have achieved.😊...So and thank you for the monologue...that was at least some attempt at an insight of your mind by the Chaar Singham Singhs😊
Dont worry, I am still in the patient zone when it comes to you...By nature it takes a lot for me to loose my grip...So while it was horrific to see you take up the scissors, I understand and empathise.
But there is one very curious think that you said...you want to kill the baby because no one respects its dad😲...fine...thats your prerogative and view...But wait...did you hear nothing...nothing of the "slam damm blame shame game" that happened on Friday...phew...aur maine kitne saare posts un episodes pe washte kiye
And then you follow it up with a request to Chotey (name is back in the game😛) to set everything right and bring Shyamster back all bright!😛...Anji darling for once just once think of who you call Chotay...kindly think that what must have happened for him to also share the same horrendous view about Shyam...for once think of the state your brother and his pretty wife are in
If this plea and dialogues was to bring Shyam back...then that may be a huge step forward for TRPs...but a huge ...I repeat HUGE step backwards in the name of regression...Does a woman only need a man to be all right?...Is a woman's existence dead if there is no man?...Should love be so blind, as to not face reality?...Should one never make an attempt to see a single fault in one's partner?...Are there no responsibilities a person should have apart from one's spouse?...
the tone this is taking is very disappointing and regressive... Think Anjie...for any credibility of your character's selfless and upright nature is slowly running out😳
Mirrors on the ceiling...The pink champagne on ice
And she said "We are all just prisoners here, ..of our own device"😳 (Jai ho SP heroine😆😆)
And in the master's chambers,...They gathered for the feast
They stab it with their steely knives (Raizaade kyun clulless aadhe😆😆)
But they just can't kill the beast😊
Now Khushiji...again immense patience for what happened...and why are you the sabki maatey Khushi😆😆...Yes there is the thing that you should have not gone to meet Anjie...but the writers that write you are aadat and "naari shakti jai ho" se majboor😆😆...Curious that they extend that belief only to your character and to none of the other women in the serial😳
Khushiji, one part of my mind tells me you should not have gone to Anjie...because sometimes its just about giving privacy to someone to deal with the blows life has dealt😳 ...and secondly sometimes...just sometimes one must accept the popular family sentiment and understand the gravity of the situation😳...put yourself in Anjali's shoes...would you want to see the very girl Anjali's husband lusted after to such an extent that he set about to kill her brother...no, isnt it😳...so give her some time...give yourself some time😊
But Khushiji ...another part of my mind tells me that you only did, yet again, an error of judgement...for as you rightly put it, your intention was pure and you only wanted to help Anjali...so no I am not upset with that good intention of yours😊👏👏
As for the resounding jhatkaa you received from your Arnavji...if I were you...I would let it pass...yes...I would let it pass, even though I would give him a real verbal lash sound-off😊...much has happened in a matter of one day + one night...and as he said, he saw the worst that he could see of his sister...so perhaps one needs to just recognise that everyone is highy emotionally strung in this situation
And secondly...love is for a lifetime...if we all leave our partners over ugly fights then ho chukaa...no I don't want you to take this lying down😊...not as a person ...but don't remember only the bad parts in the relationship ...please also remember the good ones as the pool side hug and his trust for you that was openly acknowledged😳

Up ahead in the distance, I saw a shimmering light
My head grew heavy and my sight grew dim...I had to stop for the night
There she stood in the doorway...I heard the mission bell
And I was thinking to myself,
"This could be Heaven or this could be Hell"😳...(What say ASR love is heaven or hell😳)
Then she lit up a candle and she showed me the way...
There were voices down the corridor...I thought I heard them say...

And now ASR, I dont know about Khushi but I am irritated😳...this is simply out of line and not done😳...Ok granted that you have gone through much and seen your sister take her life...But one horror does not give us a right to commit another horror...what the hell made you say she is at fault ...Forgot Shyamster...that was one hell of a regressive dialogue and thought there Chaar Singham...this same conversation could have been done sternly without the blame shame woman is always wrong game
Its easy to say one looses equilibrium...but quite frankly thats what separates creatures from humanity😳
But ASR...just as I understand the CV's mess with Khushi's characterboard...they mess with yours too...
And just as I empathise with Didi and Khushi...I empathise with you...I really do...because I too can get viscious once in a while😳...yup...and then...You were in a hostage situation for days😳...not me...you had to see your sister go to pieces just because you took a right stand of supporting your wife😳 ...not me...So if Di and Khushi are under Trauma...so are you😳
No brother, no family member should go through the horror of seeing another family member attempt to take their life...especially if its the only family member your spent your life with😳...Loved the predicament of who do you console and choose...your sister...or your life...loved the bedroom scene...heartbreaking😭😭
And as if on cue, loved the last part...you realise...you repent...you rush back to Khushi at a frenetic speed...its the classic tussle your character has between do you choose your sisters life (merely exist)...or your own (by living)...And once again ASR, based on what I have seen ...you have chosen your own (Khushi)😳
Now go get back to her...and this time...dont ever let her go😃
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And now for JWMRK... Chaar Singham, thanks to your serial...the following is my plight
Last thing I remember, I was...running for the door😆
I had to find the passage back...To the place I was before
"Relax, " said the night man
,..."We are programmed to receive.😳
You can check-out any time you like,😃
But you can never leave! "🤣
🤣🤣
PS: Daljeet Bhanot and Barun Sobti...outstanding👏👏👏👏...today the hospital and bedroom scenes were a class apart⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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DB and asr really rocked today. love their part a lot...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post dear.
I think that the MU in Arnav Khushi lives is like the guest who can never leave --- it stays and keeps popping up around the Raizada house in different avatars
Between Arnav-Anjali
Between Khushi-Anjali
Between Payal-Akash
Between Naani-Khushi
The MU booth keeps haunting shanti van... the only way that it will go away is for Arnav to exorcise it with his words -- words of caring and apology to Khushi and her family and the full truth to the family.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reena544

DB and asr really rocked today. love their part a lot...

yup I loved them too😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Res!

EDIT - loved the episode today!!
Everyone is flawed!
Anjali is so attached to her bubble that i think that she missed the purpose of the entire showdown in the living room as well as the revelation. She wants to rewind and restart. She is behaving like a whiny child whose toy was taken away and she feels that a pleading request soaked in tears after a major meltdown will be able to bring her toy back.

Loved Daljeet today. Loved her meltdown. She is worried about how the others will perceive the child and the father...nothing about how she feels. She is still clutching on to the fragments of burst bubble. She needs to realize that once the bubble bursts, there is nothing left.

Arnav: Lashes out again with the crudest dialogues. But he is caught between the one he is responsible for, and the one he loves. But the regret comes almost immediately and that's a big change from the past. Besides, how many times to married couples or in relationship couples have a "why did i marry you" moment? It is how you get past that. He is a flawed character, and he knows his short comings. And the awareness does not change this inherent trait but it definitely helps him to make up for it. It doesn't make saying the things he said okay, but that is for the partner to decide whether they can put up with it.

Khushi: She has a "i need to fix it now" attitude and she is short sighted. With all the good intentions, not every situation can be fixed, not every situation has a quick fix, and sometimes even if there is a fix, you need the right glue. This is a flaw in her character. And they need to show some reflection on that either on her own, or pointed our by someone else. It doesn't necessarily change the behavior, but self awareness is always good.

Baki ... i am loving the story telling...as far as screenplay...gotti and i have issues.

Great post, JW


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post! I would only like to say that although I didn't expect Anji blatantly asking Chote to bring back her creepiest hubby..it would be great to see Anji closing the door on Shyam not ASR! That would be a perfect closure at least for her! Although her trying to kill a almost 3rd trimester fetus is nothing less than a murder attempt!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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"You can check out anytime you like - but you can never leave !! "
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Fabulous Post !! Been travelling and missed a lot of IF and epis in the past 2 weeks. I am trying to get my mind around the epi today and you covered it all pretty well. Anjali truly, truly needs to grow up. It is so mind boggling that she's willing to abort an innocent child, yet yearns to embrace the cheating creepwa back in her life !! Makes me truly wonder if her disabiity is only physical.
Kushi shud quit trying to be the savior and healer of the Raizada's. Let them figure it out - for once. Its ok to allow them all to grow up and sort out their issues. Take a break Kushi. You've done nothing but carry everyone's burdens since we have met you.
Arnav ..well, he's so gorgeous. 😊 But, oh yeah..that was NOT cool dude. He's the yoyo once agin. Teetering between his feelings for Kushi and Di. Balancing love and duty. Always running around in circles - very little movement forward. With your Di, you too have some growing up to do. Your Di is NOT the smartest or the brightest thing around.. nor are the rest of your family members. THink for youself.
I am waiting to see how the marriage, rain scene etc will come together in the ME so soon after Arnav's harsh words to Kushi. Its not enough to just save Arnav from the kidnappers.. She truly needs to be her own hero and save her self respect and dignity.
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loved your title 👍🏼
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Back again two in a raw what is this world coming to...
I loved the epi today...
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we want real we got real...the woman broke and khushi tipped that...
impulsive...do gooder ...who does not think things thru...idealistic advice...and again all for baby what of the mother I ask ya...but true to to Khushi's charactor...
Anjie broke...yes she did...and true to form tooo early for her to grasp yes hubby is all that is foul...hubby is the one who did that to my chotey...and khushi...la did da...it will come but before that is the disbelief...then the dawning then the grief...then the self loathing the anger...and just may be ...reconciliation that that is in the past...some it will take a year ...yet others...it may never...
this woman wrapped her self around a thali and puja for the wll eing of her marriage...it is now in tatters...so well played...
ASR...saw his sister break...almost kill herself...and have her plead to him to make it right...he was cornered, tired (physically mentally), apprehensive, at a loss, an many more extremes...this is a man that bundles all other emotions in one convenient one...anger...lashes out at the ones nearest to him and most vulnarable...and then mami gave him fodder and he did...
he was angry...he lashed out...i understand no qualifications...in anger there is noe...there is regret later...and the best of us cannot do anything about that regret...
will we repeat most often we do...it is like the drunk the hangover and the lure to the bottle...
was it regressive...may be...but when one is angry does one care...
now for the regret and we saw the start of it...they played out that visual montage really welll past to present...the two woman that rock his world...for harmony he needs them both in balance..that is far off...
it will be interesting to see how they take this...and the relationship...how it moves forward..that it will is a given ...is this not what it is all about...but how is the treat and i hope they make it sweet...with real conversations...and more more feeling...a mature relationship to blossom...rather than the occassional come hither looks with the coy turn and run heroine...
and as a clsoing note...i like that all of them have flaws to a fault...makes them real
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi JW...
I liked today's episode. I was very happy watching the first part because I wanted to see Anjali's monologue and we got it today. Her reason for not wanting the baby is valid IMO. However, the second part in the bedroom convo, I am still a little confused about her thought process. Not that I am expecting rational thinking at this point but it left me thinking. I could understand what she must be going thru when she said, we were fine and happy yday what happened now, whose evil eye got to us? I was like awww... poor thing. Her or any person in that situation will think that way and her asking her chotey to fix everything is also valid but I didnt understand why she said what happened to all the others at RM and why are they glum? Her wanting her so-called perfect life is okay I think given her denial and all but did she completely skip out on Shyam being accused (even though not proved) of kidnapping Arnav and even trying to kill him? that part I didnt get at all... otehrwise, I could totally emphatize with her today.
Arnav... what can I say... when I was reading the LU today morning, I was like... how much can a guy take, house full of women with unstable mind and men that are mentally absent most of the time, picking up broken pieces and trying to support everyone while putting himself thru hell... someone just stab him and put him out of misery... well, not literally but you get the drill, it is painful to watch him these days.
Yesterday, he put Kh to bed and she didnt want him to leave and today he put Anjali to bed and she didnt want him to leave. Does he have anything left to give? he is emotionally exhausted... all out of energy. We all know that he didnt mean the words that came out of him by the poolside today but like you said, its not done. However, it didnt leave a bitter taste with me. Khushi knows what ASR is and his temper and mood swings, he is in character. IMO, by taking out his frustration on Khushi, he is acting seeking her support in getting through this tough time. He has only two people that he truly trusts and confides in... Anjali and Khushi. He cant fall back on Anjali now, its only Khushi that he can turn to. He completely lost it when he thought she is not understanding his predicament. Khushi on the other hand, wants to help him and provide emotional support but in her own way, the way which she thinks is right... thats where they differ and thats the area in their relationship they need to work on. I guess even though they trust each other now... its seems it is a work in progress. One more point to his benefit, he spent 15 days thinking he might die any minute, then in the last day or two, he thought he lost Khushi, then he had to save her life, he then had to go thru the ordeal of family drama at RM and now save the sister from possibly killing herself and if he had a tongue slip and hurt Khushi... I cant help but say... big deal, sh*t happens!
Khushi is a fighter and problem solver. It doesnt matter if its her problem or not. She wants to make the world a better place. She is naive that way. I agree with you, I cant really blame her for going to Anjali and trying to comfort her but also think that Anjali needs time and space too. She never shared her confused feelings about Arnav with anyone at Gupta house. Even after Diwali episode, she cried inside the closed doors... maybe she should have left Anjali to cry by herself.
Arnav;s mom's letter is an userguide for ASR's personality. If Arnav-Khushi are meant to be, Khushi has to follow those instructions (even before coming across that letter). There is no way around it. As for Arnav, he has to put of with Khushi's antics and keep a first-aid kit ready to nurse her wounds :)
I did feel bad for Khushi today. yday, she thought she was gonna lose Arnav forever, then she thought she was gonna die, only to be rescued by Arnav himself. Then she was scared if anyone would believe her or if Arnav would trust her or not. Then, she saw that he is her supportt system, for better or for worse, they are a Team. A day later, she is hit by lightening when he said, meeting her is the biggest mistake of his life... well, thats got to hurt! She needs a hug and Im hoping Arnav would give it to her 😃
Only one complaint about the current track: we would have enjoyed the getting back home alive, so lets live in the moment for a minute dragged for a week. They always drag the nafrat part and fast forward the mohabbat part... too bad!
I hope I made some sense out of a confusing episode.

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