An apology and A Confirmation!

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Debolina Saha

@-Deblina-

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Hi Guys look..as Silambu says I am a spokeswoman,is just not like that..Like u I am too a mad about Kunal and as Samir also..I told u I don't have his number my Di has his number and that to my cousin di.So in order to ask the answer that is SIilambu requested me to ask him 10 adjectives about Sinal and what Advice he will give Keerti so that she can get success..so I asked my di can I talk to him at that point he seems shy..and moreover I was busy presenting Presentations in exhibition..

Apology:-

I didn't knew anything and I do not know anything..Sorry if u had misunderstand me I was not wanting to discuss his private life..as I don't know only about his private life I am only his fan that's it..no spokeswoman and all that..I too came to know about the official news from his fanclub when the "big.fan"posted it..so did I afterwards as I thought its true and simultaneously I thought its a discussed topic as after that many posted congratulation post in his fanclub..and Parichay Dev Team has closed a previous one that also I didn't see at first but I saw the"big.fan"posted it..so as I ..

And its not possible for me to check every post at a time..then how wud I know that this discussed topic is closed before..and as soon as I saw I was going to write that Paichay Dev team close my post..But then I saw Silambu requesting it..even I pressed the like..as I too wanted..

Guys what I want to tell its not that everyday I talk to Samir soni..like that he is really a private person even I don't get so much time to visit Parichay forum as I am busy presenting presentations to meetings and all exhibitions..

Confirmation:-

And about that which I told that Parichay Dev team don't close it I wud soon posting Samir's message is if I get some stuff from the net as I thought he might told to media..so incase I wud post his interview..pls just forget this misunderstanding that I have his number,my cousin di has the number..she is a assitant director and has many journalist friend..and I am too young really I am too young of all my IF friends even I feel shy to talk with THE SAMIR SONI as he is very senior to me..

I hope all who visit this forum read this and after that Parichay Dev team can close this topic if want...

Thank you to read such a long..Sorry once again..

Edited by -Deblina- - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

Deblina, you don't have to apologize for anything as your intentions were not to hurt anyone but to get a confirmation from the actor if it was true. This is what I understood from reading your post.

Why I requested Parichay team to close the topic

1) We have no right to discuss about personal and private life of actors or even seek clarification from the actors even if we have the means to do so . This particular subject was hightly hypersensitive and could turn into a big embarrasement if we got the story wrong.

2) Any confirmation of any personal matters should not come through you. It must be announced by the actors themselves to the public through the preferred choice of their communication media, be it television or newspaper, as this would be final statement of truth from them. Leave it to the actors to make the necessary announcement if there is any by themselves . We don't have to do that for them. Its not our job.

3) Actors are public figures. Statements , annoucements about their personal matters, coming from them is more professional as this would be more credible and true.

4) No actor would choose to divulge their personal life to the public through a phone call, no matter how well you know them, knowing what kind of damage or unwanted attention it can bring to their family and loved ones . They would never take such risks. Besides, who and why should we belive you anyway? Harsh and cruel it may sound. But that's the fact and the truth.

5) Respect the privacy of the actors as they too have a need to have their own space and time just like everyone else.

Deblina, my request to close this particular topic was to put a stop to it before it got out of control. We should know our limits as fans and members, and should work within the boundaries.

Lastly, my post was not to embarass or mock you but to caution you, not to do it as the story is not yours to tell but only the person concerned, provided if there is anything to announce at all, even confirmation.

So, no hard feelings and nothing personal against you.

Take care and have a nice evening ahead.

Edited by Silambu - 13 years ago

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Debolina Saha

@-Deblina-

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Same as here no hard feelings no close connections to celebrities Silambu I understand ur every statement and believe I am with u..but U r getting me all wrong..Ok lets just stop this topic..we wud not talk about celebrities private life anymore..as this is not allowed here I very well know ..and this post is not to embarrass u at all..because I can't embarrass anybody but if u think I have done anything wrong posting this post then sorry as against the forum I am innocent as I have not discussed about any celebrity's personal life as I have previously told that before postingg this post I haven't Parichay Dev team has closed a topic alike this..and the points which u have post I very well know..and I respect every actor's privacy a lot..Sorry that I posted this but it was only to end the misunderstanding that's all..

Take Care..have a good Day..Silambu..and I am agreed with ur every conceptions a lot..