How old were you when you met your Arnav?

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Mousumi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#181

Yet to find my Arnav ji ! 😳

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Marybarton

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Posted: 13 years ago

#182

Originally posted by: anumber1
My story is kinda depressing.

I was blissfully happy with my ASR for a few years only to find out last summer that I was the Lavanya in the equation. 😭 I haven't seen him in a year but my family will be staying with his for a week around Eid. Not looking forward to that. Everyday = awkward turtle. Maybe he has a NK around to cheer me up?

Don't worry dear, you go and find yourself a better Arnav. Don't settle for less. Till then, it is perfectly okay to be single. There is nothing wrong with being on your own. It is the ultimate independence. A good partner makes you feel that independence together too. I have been told I have high standards for rejecting people. But there are some things that cannot be compromised. I am not looking for perfection but I will happily stay single rather than settle. Love my singledom too much to give it up for just anyone. Live by that and you won't feel awkward at all. 😃

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anumber1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#183

Originally posted by: Marybarton

Don't worry dear, you go and find yourself a better Arnav. Don't settle for less. Till then, it is perfectly okay to be single. There is nothing wrong with being on your own. It is the ultimate independence. A good partner makes you feel that independence together too. I have been told I have high standards for rejecting people. But there are some things that cannot be compromised. I am not looking for perfection but I will happily stay single rather than settle. Love my singledom too much to give it up for just anyone. Live by that and you won't feel awkward at all. 😃

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I've been single the past year and I quite like it. The independence, not being accountable to anyone. It was a nice change. The only reason I feel awkward is because I should have seen it coming. Actually, now that I think about it, he was more a Shyam than an Arnav. I'm glad I got to find out before I did something major and marry him bc that would have sucked big time. So def still looking for my Arnav but I'm no longer in any rush to find him (my mother on the other hand...lol well, every mother wants their daughter to settle down so I don't blame her for going all Mrs. Bennet on me). Really glad you opened this thread though. It was nice to read everyone's stories.

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gkoolans

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Posted: 13 years ago

#184

gosh! let's seee...

was 19, went to see the result of my interview in the college. he was standing there...looking tall and dark...and quite mysterious(-ve😛). i was so happy to have made in this list that I jumped up and down and hugged my cousin. after a few jumps he stepped forward and said 'itni khush...?i' 'abhi admission bhi nahi hua.' It was instant dislike from my side...but GOD! he is a persistent one... when we met again in college we became good friends...I was throughout my college time suspicious of him though...never wanted to tell me any secret...but at the same time wanted to spill every thing infront of him... it was quite irritating having to exercise such restrain... but that is all in the past ...have been married for six yrs now...every day is ... exciting..😃

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gkoolans

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Posted: 13 years ago

#185

Originally posted by: sammi5
I met my Arnav at 19, married him at 20, we had 39 beautiful years of marital bliss, two beautiful daughters then he moved to heaven to watch over us. My Arnav was a blessed soul, he lived each day as if it was his last, thank God he did because he had a short life but a full filled life. This is why this serial struck a cord with me, I had an ASR/Arnav in my life, he was authoritive but loving, he demonstrated love through his caring for his family, he was hugh on loyalty, he was handsome, he was tough but his smile melted my heart. He passed 9 years ago, he loved food, never let anyone around him want for anything, until today I leave a plate out for him everyday, before I put a mouthful of food in my mouth I put a bite out for him, when I see Arnav it is like watching my husband all over again this is why I am hooked to it. Thank you for this post, it gives us a chance to share and learn some about each other, our viral family, love you all.

thank you for sharing such a beautiful part of your life. has brought tears in my eyes. hugs

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Marybarton

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Posted: 13 years ago

#186

Originally posted by: gkoolans
gosh! let's seee...

was 19, went to see the result of my interview in the college. he was standing there...looking tall and dark...and quite mysterious(-ve😛). i was so happy to have made in this list that I jumped up and down and hugged my cousin. after a few jumps he stepped forward and said 'itni khush...?i' 'abhi admission bhi nahi hua.' It was instant dislike from my side...but GOD! he is a persistent one... when we met again in college we became good friends...I was throughout my college time suspicious of him though...never wanted to tell me any secret...but at the same time wanted to spill every thing infront of him... it was quite irritating having to exercise such restrain... but that is all in the past ...have been married for six yrs now...every day is ... exciting..😃

Aww that is really sweet. He tried to get your attention by annoying you. Boys start that in kindergarten and never let go 😆