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1. His ultra insensitivity towards Nidhi.. nayi naveli dulhan hai.. 1-month old couple hai.. and the passion and pyaar is already missing like its not 1 month bt its 10 yrs into thr mrg! He is crsly turning out to b a budha-boring man tht no girl like Nidhi wud ever like to marry and to top it all he is spineless and brainless and a blind friend!
2. Nidhi is belittled not only as a wife, as a doctor, as a woman, but also as a human.. by her own husband.. who needs Mallu mata!
3. His super high and very sensitive male ego.. ! mera ghar.. mere baba.. meri soulmate.. meri life.. meri wife.. is there anything in tht house for Nidhi..! Nidhi doesnt have even rite on her own self! slave to mallu, puppet in Ashu's hands.. and unconsidered even by her nana! Thr r never her problems.. thrs always Ashu's problems.. his worries tht need to b taken care of... Nobody even cares wat she is going thru.. wat a mental torture it is for her.. both BB and Ashu claim tht thy understand wat she is going thru, but never support or even consider her feelings before supporting mallu... I dont understand how can thy b so insensitive and numb to her feelings.. jst coz she doesnt express or do nautanki like mallu? jst coz she is simple and really child at heart who forgives and forgets all their unjust actions and words easily? for once i support DB.. screeching she mite b.. bt she luves her granddaughter.. and i agree with her 100% now tht Ashu was indeed a bad choice for Nidhi!
4. Wat has he ever done for Nidhi.. except for running after her and marrying her.. wat substantial and worthwhile has he done for Nidhi tht wud really make a girlfriend and a wife take pride in him? Nidhi has changed his life so much, bt i cant find a single thing tht he has changed in Nidhi's life positively! Nidhi has always fought lone battles in spite of having a 42-yr-old mature man as her boyfriend!
5. Wen Mallu was insulting Nidhi abt being jst an "intern" did it ever occur to him tht a gud doctor is sitting home doing nothing.. wen Nidhi was losing confidence in her own capabilities as a doctor .. did he come forward and encouraged her or even spoke two words softly and tenderly! all he was thinking abt was how it wud affect his dearest Mallu and how it wud void his life of two most imp ppl! huh such a selfish being!
6. The biggest question tht i m still unable to find answer.. y did he ever marry Nidhi.. wen clearly Mallu was a better choice for him.. even baba approved of Mallu.. his love for Nidhi now it seems it was more of physical attraction rather thn true luv.. coz clearly Mallu is his better "soulmate" Nidhi is jst thr to make him feel younger!😡 the man he is, he cannot have betrayed Nidhi after comitting.. it wud b so hurting his own ego and self-worth.. so he had to marry her.. and now tht she is his wife, he cannot let her go.. for the same reason.. his ego and self-worth .. he wants everything in life in his own terms other ppl can go to hell if thy want!
7. The thing tht i m still angry on Ashu tht he never reprimanded his best friend for all the wrongs she did to Nidhi tht he very well knew..rite infront of his eyes.. starting from throwing Nidhi out of his hospital and ruining her career... not once he said no Mallika watever u did is wrong.. and unacceptable as friend.. even wen Mallu herself accepted her mistakes, he never said to her.. tht he is disappointed by her behaviour.. he didnt expect her friend to stoop so low.. and tht from now on he hopes mallu wud turn better for him to forgive.. had he done jst tht Mallu wud'nt have found this courage to hurt Nidhi further! I feel he has betrayed Mallu too by letting her hang by his side for so long.. if anyone is to blamed for Mallu's this condition after mallu herself, thn its Ashu!
For all the nice ppl in his life.. a true friend as Armaan or true luv as Nidhi, he deserves not thm bt Mallu! i dont understand Armaan's or Nidhi's blind luv for such a person as he!
Ashu has built a fake world around him and he luvs to dwell in it.. and so he deserves Mallu.. and not Nidhi.. Nidhi has some real sensitive emotional ppl around her who truly luv her and really care abt her.. rite from her baba, CS, dadi bua, angie, shyama aunty, solanki, Rangnath, and even Rohan..
Ashu has all selfish ppl in his life.. Mallu who has jst bt one obession Ashu even if it hurts him she wants him.. Baba.. who abondoned him for his own reasons.. the only ppl tht truly care abt him, Armaan.. Nidhi.. Rangnath... he takes thm all for granted as if he is doing a favor on thm by letting thm love and respect him! never i have seen him caring for Armaan or concerned abt him.. his bestest and truest of friend.. i can bet he feels more for mallu thn Armaan! So i feel he deserves a decietful friend like mallu and not true friend like Armaan!
Nidhi is so misplaced in Ashu's selfish fake world!
I had never hated mallu.. coz she is wat she is.. she is evil and she wud remain so.. bt Ashu turning such spineless guy.. At the start of this show, i wud've never imagined tht i wud writing such a post on my once fav character! i think thn i had made a sane choice.. i had always luved Nidhi more thn Ashu!😳
