Regarding Twitter N SA imp**

Alright hi guys im technicaly on vacation but still comin on here and there to check in.

Ive heard about the latest news about the two dulhans an possible dulhan switch an what not. So as a fan thats concerned about how one of her fav shows is going, i took to twitter!

Boy o boy was it a mistake and vecause of the rxperience i went through i have a serious request to forum members.

Guys shristi arya doesnt seem to like our constant budgering her over the storyline on her account and occasionaly its taken out on the fans in turn with us being bashed left and right. Now i can understand why vecause she is te writer and whatever she wants for her show she would know and with our constand bombarding, anyone can get agitated.

So as a request because ms arya has some begative thoughts for us here on IF, i request everyone to please not bombard her constanty for storyline reveals as well as crticisms because obviously she is unable to take them and in turn we here on Ig aregettin bashed (being called trolls).

Anyways obviously i cant force u or be strict no DT can because its another site but we can request only because the turmoil happening on Twitter is sadly being expressed on te forum and the show. I am going through several posts and i see there are SA basiings going on now as well and bashing overall has increased on this forum.


Its a really touchy time for te show and forum because of the rumors of how ending and the current storyline and constantly bein bashes by the creatives of show in return of some criticism.

So DT requests forum members cooperation. Please try not to be ruse on other sites because ultimately its coming to the forum and try to keep bashing away from the forum. I know its difficult bexause even im gettig a little testy but we have to to keep peace in the forum and to follow If rules.

Sadly With all the blubbering happening out on twitter and faceook, IF is being looked down upon because creatives ad writers are thinking negatively of our members.

So for these reasons we highly request the bashig and bombarding stop on other sites so that our forum and site isnt negatively affected. Obv cant force u but thi is a sincere request.

Rosh

Dek Dt

U know what i think is we should stop giving her bhaav by stopping all twitting and all, i mean its really no USE! Like u said, our sincere request is being crushed and we are bashed, its better, we for once should give her the cold shoulder!

GALS ITS REALLY NO USE! She does what she thinks is right and its just wasting our time!

We shud request her buh in a polite gentle way..m shure she wont mind it:}though even i reacted a bit n spammed her at twitter today aftr hearin d marriage news thingy buh its ok..buh well ya she shudnt think bad of IF MEMBERS:}nyche toipic

I will reply to your request/ post in detail but there is one thing I want to say for now. Will take into account both sides but for now:

If someone (a creative) cannot respect their show's fans, people will say and will comment in the way they want too... and with praise comes criticism... sometimes MASSIVE criticism. I don't think anybody has any personal vendettas or intention of bashing SA... I think its the negative criticism that she CAN'T take.

The show is going downhill with continuous crap tracks. If she has chosen twitter as the way to interact with fans than they will interact with her and this is what they are doing. The thing is that people are not connecting with her tracks and are venting out their frustrations, and she is unable to understand that and as a writer myself, I am thoroughly disappointed with her cause that means she can't handle feedback and feedback is not always GOOD.

I am a writer and believe me, I get inputs from readers all the time. Although my works are small scale in the form of One Shots and Fan Fics but they are still something. Readers comment and also PM me asking and ACTUALLY telling me what they want to see or what they wish to see, and they leave the framework of the story on me...hence I know what they want, and also know how to stretch a story with and adequate dose of mirch masala/ romance that audience daily wants, and I don't say NO... This is my story and I'm going to do whatever I please. This is not the way to go and even if you only want to incorporate only your thoughts in your story than do so... but make sure that your thoughts get conveyed to the intended people in the proper fashion. Otherwise the story is a FLOP. You don't just write/ make a show only for creative satisfaction, you WANT people to read it or see it otherwise you won't put your thoughts out for people to read or see, you'd keep them to yourself.


We belong to the 21st century. We ARE A VERBAL AUDIENCE. If we like something we say it, if we don't like something... we also SAY IT. That's how this generation is, and you have to learn to work in the system and go with the flow. If people are constantly telling you bad stuff about your show... than that does not mean they are being mean with you on a personal level. C'mon, they don't even know you as a person. One should learn to keep personal and professional separately. They are critiquing you on a professional level, and always remember that it's the audience that only has the right to judge. If so many people are being negative, that just means that they are highly disappointed with your work and are trying in their way to help you improve, its how you choose to see it. If you want to see it as 'bashing' or people harassing you than go ahead and think like that... but it would be more professional if you BELIEVE that people are 'not bashing you... they are critiquing you'.

Think in the manner that you are still in the process of learning and nobody can actually say with certainty what will click with the audience and your audience/ followers are only trying to help you get there.

Like I said above about being a verbal audience. DEK is not only SA's baby but ours too and our baby is not being raised the way we'd hope it would (constant decline in the Trps are the biggest evidence of it) and this is why we are constantly telling you to IMPROVE. Think of DEK's fans as part of YOUR FAMILY. If you don't like how something is being done in your family, you VOICE it out and that is what we are doing.

As a creative you should learn how to be able to incorporate others ideas with keeping your own ideas/ individuality intact and come up with a blend of emotions that satisfy all genres of emotions... cause eventually your endgame is... Entertainment, right?



Will continue more

SA deservz dis bashng,critizm n all dat...she deservz every bit of it...cuz she never respected show fans...wat d hell z she thinkg of herself...she alwayz show her so called attitude to dek fans... She z too rude dat she didnot even know hw to talk with fans...show alwayz run cuz of fans not cuz of ones attitude...her ego z more more more more den her height...

i absolutely agree with u rosh on this part...bcoz I-F is open platform plus its a popular forum..people look upon this place...recently there is constant negativity happening on every nook of the show...it impacts all-over ...give a negative affect to the show...people who want to watch the show like to watch the show...if see a so much negativity won't able to survive...
sorry today little felt like that...so much sense of negativity to touched suddenly in whole forum...when there was so much positivity ...i understand it was disappointment suddenly happening...
it give a negative impact of members only for the show...as if so much negativity is there than why to watch .if so much disappointing...
i know i'm too disappointed right now...people & me too want to take out frustation that we don't need to c what we like...& what she is trying is not working for the show...constantly bugging by fans is going to happen...one in a while its f9 to tell her where they r going wrong...but to tell her in such negative remarks is also not right way to say it...i had read how some people write to her in total negative way...
its openly discussing here gaves negative view for our forum only...sad part is that...

Guys this isnt anout whose right whose wrong and who deserves what. This is about te negatiity thats affecting the forum and forum members as well as te status of IF. Its all being impacted indirectly by all thats goin on with the show and the controversies on twitter. So please dont post about blame games and what not. We just request that if ur going to criticzw because of chnaces it will be taken incorrectly and what not its better to nt post and cause a mountain out of a molehill. Idkk again this is all a rwquest because we cant force u or have any control over whats rlwritten or done on other sites. But bcause its affecting this forum and IF we have to reuqest u guys keep in mind (and im remindig myself this) If rules an regs as well as forum rules and regs before posting stuff on twitter and facebook.

much needed post Rosh.
Just the other day, people were twitting about AK on her account and she kind of seemed fed up of it.
I really think people should stop talking with her, if she wants to put up revelations than she can. Also, as fans I don't think any of us could tolerate the bashing and being called trolls, I mean WE are the people that have tried to support the show at its roughest times. And we have expectations from it too.
Anyways, just a req to fellow fans to stop talking with her, cuz the more we interact the more we think we have the liberty to criticize, which she obviously can't take.

i agree with the fans and SA to a certain extent, but i don't understand if she is getting bashed on twitter where do IF members come into that or the IF forum?? and the way she called us trolls was so unfair :( its only a handful of members that may bash certain characters, the storyline etc but why is everyone being called a troll and given accusations of spreading negativity :/ this shows that she cant take constructive criticism, she needs to understand that if so many people are bashing the storyline etc then the story must be going around in circles.. whatever happens we all have to be patient and stay positive :)

guys jus cuz sbs has sed sumthin dat doesnt mean dat v noe d future track...jus let her take her tym itz nt fair guys reali...