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@NeelimaSJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: sumiswap

Yes, it was shown in a very dilchasp way because Megha is a very dilchasp character 😊 with so many layers to her.
And this dilchasp aspect adds to the beauty of Megha's falling in love.
Every other telly show claims to be a love story, but this is really one in the true sense. Nothing Mills n boonish about it but real. Real emotions which we can relate to. I have never enjoyed a love story as much as this.

Yes it is very real and that's why we all feel so connected to NBT. As stupid as it may sound sometimes I feel I a part of NBT.

They've had the courage to show a man who is self righteous, brave but at the same time is clumsy with disheveled looks. They have shown Megha as a determined and courageous lady with a subservient nature. Such conflicts can only be in real human beings and that is shown perfectly in NBT.

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@Hit.It.Miss

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Posted: 13 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: NeelimaSJ

Yes it is very real and that's why we all feel so connected to NBT. As stupid as it may sound sometimes I feel I a part of NBT.

They've had the courage to show a man who is self righteous, brave but at the same time is clumsy with disheveled looks. They have have show Megha as a determined and courageous lady with a subservient nature. Such conflicts can only be in real human beings and that is shown perfectly in NBT.

I love Neelu how you have described the above in bold 😍

I do love NBT for the very same reasons

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Swati

@swavai2

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Posted: 13 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: Fari-
Swati, ok, but all this only makes one question rise up in my mind in BIG and BOLD which arises from the following points, please bear with me:

All the above thoughts, soceity is responsible for that state-of-mind, ok?

Soceity here is Indu, ok?

The problem is with society, not with Megha's thoughts, ok?

If Megha goes to a psycholigist, he treats her, guides her, counsels her, but then she returns back with a healthy mind?

She comes back to the same society?

How does that solve the problem?

How would that be a solution for long-term?

What difference does it make to the root of the problem which is soceity, not Megha's mind?

If society is the problem and that is Indu, then she needs to get a psycholigist's counsel isntead of Megha?

All those are questions and points, troubling me.

Plz Swati, do come back and explain to me the logic behind all this.

the big and bold question in my mind is

WHY MEGHA?

The problem is with society, not with Megha's thoughts, ok?

Problem is with society as well as Megha's thinking. It is possible to enable a person to think more rationally and not to feel guilty about one's desires or decisions to be happy. To change the society it takes different efforts but since every person is a part of society it is prudent to change the individual, as and when the need arise.

If society is the problem and that is Indu, then she needs to get a psycholigist's counsel isntead of Megha?

Indu is not going to be very happy or very unhappy due to MM coming together or otherwise, compared to the impact it would have on Megha and Mohan and two kids, the rest of their life.

Indu's irrational belief based on societal traditional value system is only giving a guilt to Megha. It is perhaps giving Indu a false sense of pride, for she being Mohan's mother who is an eligible bachelor in love with this widow with two kids. And by keeping Megha away from Mohan Indu saved her son's life from a major problem. Indu is only going to get this false ego by her belief.

But Megha is going to be severely affected. Now that she loves Mohan and has accepted that such a feeling has been growing in her mind since the Rashmi days. Megha is getting only negative and unhealthy emotions if she sticks to this irrational belief. And therefore, it is Megha who needs help.

It is possible that Indu and her likes may go on a big time sulking, blaming trips, if they discover MM and the likes find happiness in togetherness. But in this case Indu being Mohan's mother and Mohan being someone who would argue, pursue his thoughts and actions makes one believe that he would figure out things with Indu.

I think it is escapism to shut the doors of love in order to not hurt the mother of a son second time in Megha's life. We don't know anything about why does Saroj think of Megaha as someone who took her son away to Bhopal?

As if Saroj would never want her son to really grow in his career. And he was studying in Bhopal anyways, I am sure even before meeting Megha.

So why the sole blame of taking away Amar from Saroj is falling on Megha? Why she has to carry the burden of it much after Amar has died?

Now based on this core situation of troubled relation between Megha and Saroj for all these years, Megha is now ruining her chance for love in her future life. But now she knows that Saroj has changed.

And to be very frank, if Saroj really had so much hatred towards her, do you think she would allow Megha to have this decent and respectful life in Vyas family post Amar?

Even with the presence of Ved, who is a strong support of Megha, I can't see Saroj behaving as good as she does with Megha if Saroj really hated Megha for separating Amar from her.

Therefore, in such a situation Megha being scared of repeating the same mistake, is acceptable.

What is not acceptable is Megha resorting to shutting the doors to avoid this one possible mistake and ending up making the biggest mistake of her life - that of denying herself, her kids and Mohan an opportunity to lead a life with love and togetherness.

I hope I made some sense here.

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@kkkap00r

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Posted: 13 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: NeelimaSJ

Yes it is very real and that's why we all feel so connected to NBT. As stupid as it may sound sometimes I feel I a part of NBT.

They've had the courage to show a man who is self righteous, brave but at the same time is clumsy with disheveled looks. They have have show Megha as a determined and courageous lady with a subservient nature. Such conflicts can only be in real human beings and that is shown perfectly in NBT.

The realistic story and everyone character putting in his/her best in the show is definitely one of the reasons why this is such a great show.

The other reason why it feels so real is because it doesn't show people who talk about deals worth crores, it doesn't have women wearing heavy jewellery (even though shown as middle class), it doesn't have those big havelis... i.e. it doesn't have anything superficial about it.

Fantastic cast, fantastic story ...and good common sense used by CV's over all and above all.

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Neelima

@NeelimaSJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: kkkap00r

The realistic story and everyone character putting in his/her best in the show is definitely one of the reasons why this is such a great show.

The other reason why it feels so real is because it doesn't show people who talk about deals worth crores, it doesn't have women wearing heavy jewellery (even though shown as middle class), it doesn't have those big havelis... i.e. it doesn't have anything superficial about it.

Fantastic cast, fantastic story ...and good common sense used by CV's over all and above all.

@Bold - Agreed! That is such a big relief . Nothing is OTT. Of course I have selective memory 😆 Don't think I'll forget "khoon bhari maang" anytime soon. But I'll let it go as a minor glitch on the part of CV's 😆

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