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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Gayathri_MSK
Hi Jay...

Wonderful Analysis. What should I say, you said everything clearly by walking a mile in siddhi's way. I am completely convinced with your perception. I just stop thinking opposite to siddhi.

But only one point i would like to point, Yes Siddhi is 100% right from her own way, as well kunal tooo 100% right from his own way by keeping his ideas hidden without sharing to her. This is the major problem between them... Lack of Communication.

I atleast expect, this case would help them to clear the missing links in their relation.
As you said, until kunal doesnt share his mind, she will keep trying somthing to get him out of risk. Hope so CV's atleast now make them perfect couple.

Yes I too hope that this case show us beginning of open communication. That is one factor missing from this perfect couple. I feel right now Kunal is the one who should initiate in this matter as given Siddhi's character and current state of mind; it would be miracle to expect her to do that.

besides Kunal is the one in better position in current situation as he has more control of himself.

But this situation that they face is just too powerful for anyone of them to control, especially Siddhi. So Kunal can take the lead and Siddhi providing support will give us A-team, somethign everyone is hoping for. Hope CVs listen to us.

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: shweta_r
Jay - I agree with your analysis except for one point... why did Siddhi threaten to leave home and go away??? She can scold, shout, fight with her husband but why threaten to leave? That was irrational...

To the point - "2 things Siddhi fears most is - losing Kunal and Kunal getting hurt"

Would Kunal not get hurt if she leaves him and goes away forever...???

I am pretty sure Siddhi never wanted to leave house. She threatening to leave the house is her way to show her anger and how much she is upset with Kunal. She did mention this in their conversation, "kunal you get angry at me and shout when I want to leave the house, well can't I be upset too and show my anger".

Siddhi was extremely angry and upset with Kunal taking the blame and just to show how much she's upset; she goes to last resort of leaving the house and gets into fight. she did shout, scold and fight with him; but her initial action shows her level of anger.

Yes it doesn't make sense how that would solve her 2 fears, but again she just wanted to show her level of anger. Siddhi knew Kunal is not going to let this happen and this way she has upper hand here and show him how much upset she is. Kunal usually gives silent treatment to start with and later shouts.

Now can Siddhi have passed her message just by shouting, scolding andfightingwith him without the threat; I don't know. The threat is her method to express her anger, not saying it was ideal to do so; but again what can be an ideal way to show your anger.

I guess such threat is common for wives (please not being judgmental), as my mother uses that for stupidest fight she has with my father and brother.

I am not saying it was ideal, it is her method and may be we can understand.

actually what I didn't like was Siddhi saying, "hamar rishta ab khtama" or somethign like that on Thursday. I think CVs were just trying to mess with us there.Everythingelse, I can understand.

Edited by jay_bpm - 13 years ago

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Padmini

@d.padmini

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

I with you jay...I don't bash Sidhi..I find he to cute , and innocent to be bashed, that is why though what she does irritates me at times but like Kunnu I also love her so much that I end up supporting her more often than not...
more over what ever she does, she does with good intentions and because of her unconditional love for Kunal

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: d.padmini
I with you jay...I don't bash Sidhi..I find he to cute , and innocent to be bashed, that is why though what she does irritates me at times but like Kunnu I also love her so much that I end up supporting her more often than not...
more over what ever she does, she does with good intentions and because of her unconditional love for Kunal

Yes padmini, it's called complex and mature emotions or relationship where someone sure annoys you at times, but you still can't help bit love them so much. We saw that with Kunal saying hey Ram, but still can't let her go.

Also as irritating Siddhi may be, we can see where she's coming from and it only adds it to our care for her as Kunal did. It was very realistic for me, don't know about others.

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Mages

@Mages

Elite

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

i agree with you completely...no mattter what siddhi does its reflects how much she loves kunal n can't even imagine to loose him...all her strange behaviour is bcz of her insecurity for loosing kunal...she loves him to death n she can go any extend for him...thats true love...

my heart pour out for her when she told kunal...what if anything happen...have you think abt it...she cried...she loves him so much...n kunal understand her mental state...n the hug was very needed yaar...

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Mages
i agree with you completely...no mattter what siddhi does its reflects how much she loves kunal n can't even imagine to loose him...all her strange behaviour is bcz of her insecurity for loosing kunal...she loves him to death n she can go any extend for him...thats true love...

my heart pour out for her when she told kunal...what if anything happen...have you think abt it...she cried...she loves him so much...n kunal understand her mental state...n the hug was very needed yaar...

@red - yes mages- just thought something might happen to Kunal was killing her. The pain, intensity, fear and vulnerability was just so damn good; I don't have words for it. How can anyone be mad at her??

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stuti

@stuti123

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

great post Jay ..you explained siddhi 's current behaviour so aptly ..couldnt agree with you more on this..

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Aaditi Sharma

@Adishams

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Jay I agree with you and I have looked at the situation from Siddhi's point of view and I can see where she's coming from. I mean she threatened to leave on Friday cos she couldn't bear seeing Kunal going to Jail and away from her. She can't bear a second away from him becuase they are so closely connected and as Kunal put it they are inseprable. So I guess you are right anyone in her shoes would act erratically. I know she never means what she says in anger cos she wants Kunal to react but I hope she doesn't make any mistakes through her emotional surges that jepordises Kunal's case so that she loses him forever.

Take deep breaths Siddhi and think. Think like a true lawyer! Go to Kunal and ask what plan he's up to??? Understand him, trust him and see what you can do to help.😊

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