Is Gauri doing this deliberately?

As you mention for the first point I thing gaury does not need to mention about that point. But I don't feel there is any conscious and sub conscious play behind background there is nothing like that. Gaury done this because she feel that when he have to take decision instead becoming ms or as per her thought finding job he asking money form her shopping , she even said after cutting called that sentence come out of this. Because she feel that he want to do nothing

Second incident about you mention that well he is there because of recommendation. Management will fix duty of every doctors according to there rules. And apart that there in professionalism they do no care whom is husband of whom. Form them it's a business that it.. may be its wrong to asking change on duty of first day it will create bad impression of jagat that he did not want to work according to hospital rules. Even I do feel that HR will never change there decision not according on someone recommendation to I actually surprise that hr give them job because just gaury asking to. When the said that they give job only ms. So this is going same here to. & she cant asked again remember she done earlier to asked for job if she did it again and what if they reveled in fron of jagya about job its creating havoc in her life. So she never took this chance again I guess

This incident you mention I think she does that because jagat is her assistant in front of other. They don't know that he is her husband. If she does no behave with him like or not asked him question for his absent mind. other will be surprise because of behavior or amused at that why she is favoring to him and this brought real truth in front of sng that he is her husband so may be for this she behave like this.

I feel like yesterday episode gaury do anything to herself deliberately. She is doing for helping like she wanted. I hope I answer with you all questions, plus jagat ego is too big even if she doesn't do anything. He will still feel insulted. & about sumitra challenge . i dont think gaury will forgive this challenge just like that. she still feel to threaten some ware because divorce is not happened what if he go back to his wife. even she feel scared about bade papa will reveled truth in front of jagat. ya but there something is sense of satisfaction as she almost taken jagat away from his family. she feel like a winner now so she just little careless to behave with jagat now

Note : i am not gaury fan neither her supporter but i just felt like explain so i did.

Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal

OK, so I'm a bit scared to open up this can of worms on here, and I will surely get flack from Gauri fans for this... but I just feel like Gauri's behaviour towards Jagat is just a little bit over-the-top. She's always making unnecessary cutting comments while acting like she has no clue that what she's saying could be hurtful to him. Now, I'm no advocate of Jagat's character or behaviour (I think he's selfish and lazy and hasn't grown up a jot in the past 17-18 years), but I can't help but feel that Gauri's remarks are quite often out of line. Even if she has poor interpersonal skills, someone of her intelligence should recognise the damaging effect that the things she's saying could have on her relationship with Jagat. So I can't help but wonder... is she doing this deliberately? i think atm she is flying high in sky because she has got work in SNG...

1) The kapde incident. OK, so she didn't realise that Jagat had an interview at SNG, and she had very little money left for the month. Fair enough. But did she really have to add, "Tumhe naye kapdon ki kya zaroorat hai, tum vaise bhi ghar pe baithe ho?". It couldn't possibly have escaped her notice that a line like that really sounds like she's rubbing his failure into his face, which is not a very supportive move from a spouse. well what gauri said was not wrong,but she could have handel it more maturally way...like when she went for shoping she should ahve gon with pighead and this way he would know she has money spend on her need which wsa necessary and then she apid for house rent too and yet whole month ahs to be passed as he not working...so only need tlaking and showing maturity and sensiblity...but lolzz expting this form both pighead and mata ji...lolzzz...yep shure

2) The hospital incident, part 1. Jagat wanted to request for a transfer immediately, and she refused saying that he'd only just joined and that it doesn't look good. Surely someone as educated as her knows that any HR department would understand a husband not wanting to work under his wife (especially in a country like India where a lot of people are still of the purane khayalaat that the wife should be subordinate to her husband) and re-assign him immediately (in the interests of the hospital, if not for the comfort of the two of them... awkwardness between a couple in a professional environment must have some impact on productivity 😕). Also, if she felt it would be weird for him to ask to be transferred as a newbie, surely she could have asked on behalf of both of them!? Her superiors seem very impressed with her, and I'm sure they'd've been understanding and swiftly executed a transfer. As such, I can't help but feel that she WANTS Jagat to be working under her. Perhaps some kind of subconscious psychological revenge tactic for what she went through at the hands of the Singhs in her childhood... well what you are saying might be coorect,but sorry to say..and its hurting me badly yet i cant disagre with gauri...already pighead was creating nusence(yet she is also as much responsible for the condition for pighead behaviour,but will keep that aside atm to answer your q) and he wsa relly in need of job..even more then he need breath to be alive...and already she has beged her seniors to give job to pighead...and now again going and saying not to appoint him under her but to another dr... no if i put myself on gauri situation i wont be confortable going again and begig the HR again...or DEAN...it will be quit hard to do so...and on other hands...atm pighead need a job..he cant bring in his ego..and he has to report to any dr. where ever he work..if he is so much worried about it then he should ahve listen to gauri and rather then wasting time or doing kich -kich about hsi job and all he should have done MS and decide to do it..where ever he will work he will have the same prob. ...and gauri said right..he wil need to report to dr. then reporting her is why taking at ego..nah..here guri dint said that to insult pighead...she was simply being pratical and knows atm if pighead leaves job they both will be in trouble..atm its not sensible to be about thinking it as egotism and huby and wife thing..atm he should be hapy even if soem day he late and all gauri can cover for him and he can divert more time in study to complete his MS and then think automtcily he will eb recurit in SNG only as he already working..other got to givr interview and all he wont need to...

3) The hospital incident, part 2. "Dr Jagat, maine kuch poochha aapse. Shayad aapka dhyan kahin aur tha". OK, I get it, you want to be professional, and maintaining a balance in this situation is pretty difficult (hence why you should have asked for a transfer for your husband immediately). But there wasn't a flicker of emotion on her face at behaving that way. It was like she very quickly accepted that he was her junior and was already beginning to enjoy lording it over him (that's how I saw it, at least). Though I'm not sure if that feeling is conscious or subconscious on her part... again, this smacks of a subconscious psychological revenge strategy to me.lolzzz..whatelse can be expected of gauri..she was always insensetive...and she will be...lolzzz..she showed so much maturity earlier not to let pighead go and talk to HR or DEAN...but when pighead understood what she said and lolzzz...now she is least bother...i cant belive so easily she forgot what pighead is going through..how tough dr. she been or perfectinist yet she shudnt forget pighead is going throught critical stage and he dosent want to work under her and yet she behaving like this...that was reduculus...yes i can undertand her reson ke dosnt want to show any one he is her wife and as wife she has be lenient but inside she knew he huby and his state of mind...but axpect mata to understand pighead delima or emotions...lolzzz...its like lion having rae meat in fornt of him and yet one trying to deny him form eating...hahahhaa..hohoohohohoh..now wont that be a miracle...

I'm aware that this doesn't quite make sense given that Gauri wants to beat Sumitra's challenge and it's therefore in her interests to save her relationship at all costs. However, she is a very strong and career-oriented personality. I think now that she doesn't have to fight anyone for rights over Jagat, she's less interested in proving her love to him and the rest of the world. Therefore, her inherent selfishness is coming to the surface. She does not feel that he will leave her when he has nothing to go back to, and subconsciously, she may still harbour vengeful feelings against him and his family. Either that or she has a really poor understanding of human psychology and doesn't understand that her comments might hurt him. Either way, he is very much second to her career at present in terms of her priorities (not saying that this is wrong, just analysing her thinking). Therefore, while she does care about his feelings, she doesn't make the effort to really understand them. When she first got the job at SNG, she went out partying with her friends and didn't offer him any comfort despite him being visibly upset. Either she has bad interpersonal skills/a really low emotional quotient, or she just doesn't care about him as much as she thinks she does, and is starting to realise this subconsciously? If this is the case, eventually Sumitra's challenge will not mean anything to her because she will no longer have an interest in Jagat, and may only continue to toy with him out of a desire to 'win' the challenge for the sake of her unresolved childhood desire for revenge against the Singhs.

So what do people think? Is Gauri doing this deliberately, or am I just reading too much into things, and is this just the CVs' way of creating more drama and tension between GaGa? And if she IS doing it deliberately, why is she doing so? Is her behaviour conscious or subconscious?well not leting pighead go and change depertment and all was good decison in my POV but lolzzz after the way she addresed him where is your mind and all was not good...even if she thought not to descremante btwen him and other dr. yet that was quit stupidity..sheer nonsence thing to do..she is showing like upperhaded way and lolzz when in home she will feel the heat...whateva your rules or thinking in proffesional level and maintaining it is never wrong but when it comes to close one and you knwo very well the kind of tutrmoil that close one is then one should bend the rule...jsut being little polite and consideration wont hurt her profesional level..but atm she here the boss...lolzz..w8 and be at home..their pighead will who you who is bosss 😆 😆 so yes she did it delibratly yet if she was thinking of as in profesional level...now ready to get some home profesional level huby therepy too ⭐️

Sorry if that seems a bit muddled... I wanted it to be an organised post, but it ended up coming out as a slightly random stream of consciousness!

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

👏. Its a good post and ananlysis 😳.

I think relationship is a work of both the individuals. Sometimes Jagiya should compromise and sometimes Gauri. I didn't like the way Gauri handled that kapda situation. She rubbed his failure insensitively on his face. She could have said no but at the same refrained from making such a comments. It can hurt other person a lot and start bitterness in a relationship. Its almost like saying that you don't respect the other person come may what.

But in the hosital its a tricky situation. As far as part 1 is concerened Hr position has been debated from so many angles in ego factor. You may find useful points by Aksvats and Tinoo. I agree with Tinoo that Jagiya at this point should maintain patience. It's only for short time.

As far as hospital part 2 is concerned. She is a senoir doctor (?) to Jagat and has got other doctors under her. She must be in a habit of maintaining authoritative tone with them 😊. Now if she starts behaving with J sweetly,she may have to do the same with other juniors too or take accusations of favouritism. Here it is Jagiya's responsibity to understand and compromise.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Hi Avantika, I don't mean to cross over your point, but really does being senior mean being commanding? Why does one have to be authoritative over juniors? After all, everyone is working towards one noble cause of saving people's lives, then why do seniors have to be commanding?

I feel G is flying high due to her so called success and is deliberately showing off, being less sensitive to others. Honestly, she has no experience in handling other members.

Originally posted by: shalluuu

gauri is doing what jagat deserve if she will not give reply of jagat tauntrums seriously i will start to hate her. Are you saying this beacuse you are an Anandi fan?


i dont know why people say if gauri wil not behave politely with jagat her relations will in well...what is the need to show politeness (!!!!!!)...arey koi to usey bhi jawab dene wala hona chaiye...like what he did with anandi...uski politness k hi to usne fayda hua

If Gauri was doing this deliberately, I would be with her. She wants to teach Jagiya a lesson for misbehaving with her and Anandi. But nowhere is that intention. The truth is that she is his wife and thus we are analysing that relationship from husband-wife perspective. Is it right for the woman or man to behave like this? Certainly not because it will lead to bitterness and breakdown of a relationship. You tell me you are engaged then think would it be good to behave like that to your spouse/ fiance/ boyfriend?

The difference between A-J and G-J is that of love. If J had truly valued her he would have understood importance of that forgiveness and politeness. The break up of that realtionship is not Anandi's behaviour but break-up of this relationship will be Gauri's behaviour - lies, deceit, hurting his pride etc. 😆

And madam gauri is not fully innocent! She also has misbehaved with Anandi a lot. I cannot approve of her behaviour.

usey gawar samjh kr gauri se shaadi ki...now he want gauri to be her servant but creatives are making him gauri servant...😊