Anandi's Behaviour is Realistic

Finally, she is behaving as a normal human would after going through such terrible pain. Often, women of such strong internal moral standards as Anandi will initially view men as the enemy. I agree that unnecessary rudeness is never a good thing, but this is only a natural psychological defense mechanism to prevent herself from getting hurt again and from feeling powerless. Even the most balanced of women do become hypersensitive to harmless comments like how Anandi was today. They show "attitude" to men because of a deep-rooted fear of being called a flirt/characterless girl, since their honour means so much to them. In some cases, this is intensified if the woman feels a latent attraction/interest in a man, and does not want to feel that way, no matter how deserving and good he is. (Remember Suguna's initial behaviour towards Shyam?) The basis for such behaviour is broken trust and suppressed pain and loneliness. It takes a huge amount of courage to open yourself up again and trust people after such betrayal and pain. Can't wait for that day for Anandi! 😊

I agree. When Shiv said that she should jog no matter whether there are ups and downs and she took offense, it was understandable. It is leading to her yelling at him about helping her because her husband left her. She has overheard Heth Singh's comments, Shiv will soon find out, hence she is very sensitive at Shiv's comments because she thinks he finds her to be weak.

Originally posted by: eshabasuthakur

Finally, she is behaving as a normal human would after going through such terrible pain. Often, women of such strong internal moral standards as Anandi will initially view men as the enemy. I agree that unnecessary rudeness is never a good thing, but this is only a natural psychological defense mechanism to prevent herself from getting hurt again and from feeling powerless. Even the most balanced of women do become hypersensitive to harmless comments like how Anandi was today. They show "attitude" to men because of a deep-rooted fear of being called a flirt/characterless girl, since their honour means so much to them. In some cases, this is intensified if the woman feels a latent attraction/interest in a man, and does not want to feel that way, no matter how deserving and good he is. (Remember Suguna's initial behaviour towards Shyam?) The basis for such behaviour is broken trust and suppressed pain and loneliness. It takes a huge amount of courage to open yourself up again and trust people after such betrayal and pain. Can't wait for that day for Anandi! 😊

@ eshabasuthakur... so nicely explained the psychology of women.. Completely agree!!!

agree but she controls did not storm on him like gauri she is balanced attitude

i know that is how women begave in such a situation.