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"Move on"
These two words must seem to be small, but they're meaning can have a huge effect when they arrive in the form of reality in a person's life. As easy as it is to say it, moving on is the hardest part in a person's life. Something that everyone experiences at one point or another, in one way or another, but not everybody has the strength to go through it. Princess Manyata is now going through this phase of her life. A stage where she has to muster all the strength that she can to leave behind that part of her life that she once cherished with all her heart. When going through such a tough phase, one always needs the support, guidance and love of someone. That support, guidance and love would come in the form of Yuvraaj Udayveer Singh in her life. She is unaware ot it at the moment, but it's only Uday who, at this point in her life, can help her move on and leave behind those memories to make new ones, with him. Today marked the end of Akash in her life. That moment right before the ring slipped into her finger, she saw the last of the man whom she once loved. Her heart gave her a signal in the form of his imagination that it's time to move on. And now when that ring would take it's place in her finger, it would come as a proof that she has let go off her past. Yes. it would be hard, really hard, because this is a war between her past and present. But eventually, the past will fade away, because it always does. And she would live in her present with the man that she has been betrothed to almost all her life. She did not seem high-spirited or ecstatic during such an important day of her life, because she is still fighting a battle within her, a battle of her heart and her mind. But the battle is not between her love for Akash and her love for Uday. The battle is between right and wrong. She wants to love Uday, but it's clearly evident that the reason she can't bring herself to do that is because she wants to know if it's morally right to fall in love with a person who took the life of another human, and that person being the supposed love of her life. In her heart, she forgave him for his actions a long time ago, but she's confused and scared about the fact that even after what she did, her heart still evoked feelings for that man, a man who killed her lover. Is it right for her to have felt something for that person and wrong of her to not have felt any loss or grief at the death of the man she once claimed to love? The day she has an answer to that question will be the day her inner conflict ends and she can love and accept Uday with all her heart.
There is a very famous dialogue from the movie "A Walk To Remember" which I think aptly describes the relationship between Uday and Manyata.
These two words must seem to be small, but they're meaning can have a huge effect when they arrive in the form of reality in a person's life. As easy as it is to say it, moving on is the hardest part in a person's life. Something that everyone experiences at one point or another, in one way or another, but not everybody has the strength to go through it. Princess Manyata is now going through this phase of her life. A stage where she has to muster all the strength that she can to leave behind that part of her life that she once cherished with all her heart. When going through such a tough phase, one always needs the support, guidance and love of someone. That support, guidance and love would come in the form of Yuvraaj Udayveer Singh in her life. She is unaware ot it at the moment, but it's only Uday who, at this point in her life, can help her move on and leave behind those memories to make new ones, with him. Today marked the end of Akash in her life. That moment right before the ring slipped into her finger, she saw the last of the man whom she once loved. Her heart gave her a signal in the form of his imagination that it's time to move on. And now when that ring would take it's place in her finger, it would come as a proof that she has let go off her past. Yes. it would be hard, really hard, because this is a war between her past and present. But eventually, the past will fade away, because it always does. And she would live in her present with the man that she has been betrothed to almost all her life. She did not seem high-spirited or ecstatic during such an important day of her life, because she is still fighting a battle within her, a battle of her heart and her mind. But the battle is not between her love for Akash and her love for Uday. The battle is between right and wrong. She wants to love Uday, but it's clearly evident that the reason she can't bring herself to do that is because she wants to know if it's morally right to fall in love with a person who took the life of another human, and that person being the supposed love of her life. In her heart, she forgave him for his actions a long time ago, but she's confused and scared about the fact that even after what she did, her heart still evoked feelings for that man, a man who killed her lover. Is it right for her to have felt something for that person and wrong of her to not have felt any loss or grief at the death of the man she once claimed to love? The day she has an answer to that question will be the day her inner conflict ends and she can love and accept Uday with all her heart.
There is a very famous dialogue from the movie "A Walk To Remember" which I think aptly describes the relationship between Uday and Manyata.
"Love is like the wind. You can't see it, but you can feel it"
Such is the case with our Yuvraaj and Yuvraani. They're love is like the wind, it can't be seen, but it can only be felt. From afar, they might seem as enemies, but a closer look would picture the reality of the unexplainable bond and feelings that they share. This wind of their love sometimes takes the form of a light, gentle breeze, or takes the form of a strong, vicious storm. Either way, it's always love. It can either conquer everything, or destroy everything. Manyata can deny it all she wants, but you give the right to a person to effect you or hurt you with his/her actions only when you love that person. The reason Uday's actions have hurt her so much is because unknowingly she has fallen in love with him. And she wants to give her heart every reason to hate him for that. Be it right or wrong. But she has proven to be unsuccessful. As she herself has decided to move on in her life. And Uday wants them to be together when taking that step. She might not understand the love he has for her right now, but sooner or later she will. The day she comes face to face with her past would be the day her heart would've made her final decision. Unless she doesn't encounter her past, she can never live in her present. To hold on to new things, you have to let go off the old things. This time when she makes her decision, she will hold on to her present Uday, and let go off her past Akash. Their fates were binded together 16 years ago with God's will. They got separated, but met again. They day Uday was going to be promised to someone else, Manyata came back in his life. Destiny played it's role. Now it's their turn to follow the path that destiny in leading them to. And nothing or no one can alter the decision of destiny!
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