division of labour vs taking for granted

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tinoo

@tinoo

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

I want to know in gauri's case -- is she right in expecting division of labour from a househusband, or is she better off hiring a maid and not expecting jagat to do stuff simply because he is at home. is she sort of taking him for granted?

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Payal

@payalibm

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

🤣 ekk tou they dont have money...and who will support her financially...jagu dada...or badary papa or bhairo 😆 naah! i have better anandi huh! nah more better SNG Hospital... 🤣 🤣 🤣

2nd and most important thing 👍🏼 - if jagu dada sudenly one morning wakes and sees his wife gauri 🥱 dosent work for him,cook for him or do house hold work for him😭 and see this maid😳 is doing all 👏and he now falls head over heels in love❤️ ❤️ for this maid 😍 then... 🤣 🤣 🤣

hamaree gauri mata kaa keya hogaa❓ 😭 😭 how we will do the jughead's raata 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

woh to granted le hi rahi hai .is gauri ko ek din jara sa garam khana nahi mil paya to jagya ke khaane ko indirect bura keh diya ki canteen mein khaaloongi kyonki canteen ka khaana sabse saaf suthra aur healthy milta hai aur jagya tum kitna oily bekaar khana banate ho .kyon jagya ji aur banao khana gauri ke liye aaj tumhare khaane ko bura kaha hai kul naa jaane tumhare kis cheej ko bura kahegi .jagya just be prepare for this.pur chalo apne khaane ki buraai sunkur jagya ke under naukri karne ki iccha to jaagi

Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

When has Gauri not taken anyone for granted ?

She assumed Bhairon had to provide for her thru life, coz her parents chose to sell her to DS and make her the Singh family liability all that time back 😆. That's why she yelled out Bhairon coz she thought he was just bailing out by stopping her "rightful" "apne balbute par" funds 🤣.

Coming to Jagya - finally - well - J was always very helpful and loving with her when they started living in. He used to be super helpful in the kitchen and all jobs. All she had to do was say - "Jaga- a - t" and give him a cutesy, tired, I'm-so-helpless-smile, and he would call an auto for her, fetch her laundry, pack her food, get her breakfast - in short do a whole lot of stuff for her.

But now she is working and assumes - J shud be thankful she is earning and keeping him and hence shud show his appreciation by running the home smoothly - and is unwilling to see and understand J's current frame of mind. Her taunts are very unfair, selfish, demeaning and uncaring.

Am glad Jagya gave back as good as he got. Yes, he was lazy yesterday, but he did make it up by being concerned about her breakfast today. She could have let it slide and accepted it and things wud have been fine tonite. But no - she works in S&G and their canteen is superior and she has access to it - and thankyou for your concern - not reqd !.

G is misbehaving. J's feeling low but he still shows he cares, G is all ego.

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

Its not the content...its the delivery. Expecting a partner to help out is just, mistreating him cuz he is a lazybone is wrong🤣

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

And now, we hae the perfect springboard for Gauri-lovers to jump up and say - see ! she is working so hard and earning and Jagya is a keep !

They will totally not remember when all these years Bhairon was her god father, and Jagya never even knew and never once told her - I(or my Bapusa) will take care of you dear - you just study !

But now she is working, so she can demand garam garam khana ? She was getting garam garam khana even when Jagya and she were doing the same internship hours too !! Itna hi garam chahiye - to bulao apni maa ko !!

Now her nastiness is going to come out uncluttered by any Jetsar taint. J will get to gee Gauri in all her nasty glory. the loving side is already gone - the ego is beginning to become so evident and soon her granting favors side (ehsaan jatana) will be there morning to night. She is showing attitude about "Apna paisa" in just her first week of work - but when she planned to grab DS and Bhairo's hard worked for funds - then she never saw their lifetime of work in building that capital and caring for it !!

But it is Jagya who fell for her so he is going to have to bear her too 😆 - Jagya is at best an idiot who just can't see the facts and is easily led by a pretty face. He and all his kind - truely deserve the Gauri's of the world OTHERWISE how will they ever know the true worth of the Anandis 👍🏼

Edited by hooked - 13 years ago

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TheFictionFreak

@TheFictionFreak

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Well said hooked 👏. Finally J started using his brain. He realised that she wants every thing jaldi jaldi and he is just her stepping stone. And looks like G forgot those days when they used to have stale sandwiches during their night shifts.

Edited by swetha_ch - 13 years ago

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

I still do not htink he has realized anything.

He likes his punching bags and now gauri is one.

How quickly he changed his mind frame from Anandi being the one who brought ruins to him to gauri who brought ruins now.

Point being, he does not care as long as he is not in the hot seat. Its always about what he feels and likes.

gauri is not wrong in wanting him to get his a$$ up and moving but naturally she does not want to take on the burden alone as well..

what ever at this time with what gauri wants I do nto think she is wrong BUT, I do not think jagat is wrong either.. rather BOTH are losers and can be in their loser villa with their sacha pyar!

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with Suchi - Jagat has realized nothing...he's just trying to pass the blame katora, but Gauri is passing it back to him. It will take a LOT more for either of them to realize anything.

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Supriya

@Miss.Supriya

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

better off hiring a maid, coz he is an indian male and indian males dont like working at home, cooking is a different matter but taking care of a house involves lots of other responsibilites as well and a male cannot fulfill all those responsibilites of a house. he has a ego and it will hurt him.

so lol if he wants her hubby to stick wid her n not run away her the only option she is left wd is to get a maid n lol if no money to hire a maid she needs to make time for it but expecting all work to be done by her hubby impossible he wont his ego will b badly hurt and its not a one day job its an everyday job

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