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Let's move back...move back to the day we entered this forum...did we thought that this forum will give us tears...sadness...depression ????...did we thought that some of our fellow friends will be hurt because of us unintentionally or intentionally ??...Did we thought that this forum will be divided into two groups ???...did we thought that any member who will visit this forum will just get to see fights here ???...The first impression of our forum to anyone will be horrible...Do we ever thought that one day some of us will get so much depressed , stressed that they will leave the forum...And the answer is NO ...NO we never thought that and no one from us wanted that...Everyone in this forum is blessed with a good heart which do dhak dhak for unity...but no one listens to our poor heart .
So what we wanted...We wanted a forum to discuss...friends on which we can rely upon...healthy discussions ...and the most important the feeling of happiness...didn't we ??...where is happiness ????...its just sadness / depression all around...who thought before being a part of the forum that after being a part of it...if we will look back into our memories...we will get worse memories with just some beautiful ones...who thought this forum where we come to discuss...a show...whose leads are INSHI...will become a source of stress for us...Don't we enough stress in our own life that we made this forum a source of stress ???...yes no one can deny that guys...we made it whatever it is today...because members make a forum...than you can give million explanations like ...irritation forced us to speak...or seed were sown and the fruits have to be served or whatever . Think for a second ...wasn't there actually no way to handle things ??????...there were always ways but out of anger and frustration...we never bothered to see those ways .
it's easy to question mods for one and everything...but question yourself...have you seen a forum like our one before...have you ????...
now's lets come to our beloved show...we all claimed we love this show...the only reason for joining the forum ...right ?????...and now after being a viewer for 7 months...we can';t connect to characters even...we can't think of reasons beyond their actions...we sit with a magnifying glass to look at the mistakes / bloopers and give a blind eye to good thing in it . Imagine we are giving so precious time from our personal life to this forum discussing what ???...how hd is the worst show ???...how heroine is characterless ??? how hero is not hero ????...and mind you...the examples are nothing...this forum even crossed all this ...is our time that useless guys ?????? I have listened when we love something...we slowly start liking everything about it ..it's in our eyes...but we are special...the opposite happened with our forum...we start hating everything about it ???????...what kind of love we had ??...did we ever loved this show ?????...because love is a big word and that can't vanish this easily...i know it's a show and everyone have a right to discuss the negatives too...because criticism is made for the improvement . But there is way ...a dignified way to present criticism . A thread ...just one thread should me made and discussions should have been done there...even the rules of our forum says so . But our forum has million threads criticizing the same thing with awful headings everyday .
ok leave whatever happened...however happened...what we went through...what shouldn't have happened...can't we forget and begin with a absolute new start...lets avoid negativity in this forum...the dignified criticisms should be answered peacefully...and the useless bashing posts should be answered with sweetness . Yes with sweetness...try to give explanations instead of fighting back and throwing tomatoes because that will increase the person anger and he will end up making more awful posts ...or if a fight is started in thread ...try to pt water on it and not diesel please because that will only spark the fire and will never end it .. let's make the persons who think that hd is the worst show ever...to rethink over their thinking . ... Let's try to lessen the burden on our mods shoulders...what say guys ??????
and we have ways through which we can do that...think and say...don't we have ????...its just our frustration has subdued our love for hd ...i feel it's the time to clean the clouds of frustration from our minds...and let our love come out...
guys just for one week...try for me ...for our forum sake...for our friends sake...for our happiness sake...lets make a criticism thread where we all can put our criticisms...and the rest of the forum should be positive...all positive ...fresh topics...what say ???...it will lighten our moods and our sadness will be faded too...but this step can be taken if u all are with me in this ?????Are you with me guys ?????
Imagine when our beloved actors...rati and sumit visit this forum ...what they see is just criticisms...no appreciation for their hard work...nothing good...even they are human beings...think what they must have felt . And we call ourselves their fans guys...is fan word ki izzat to hamein rakhni hi chahiye . They should at least get the deserve appreciation...criticisms are important but appreciation is the best source of encouragement guys . ...
i am searching the forum i wanted from day one...my only dream these days is our unity...u can't imagine how mad i have been because of all this...it troubles me ...sadness me and i know you all feel the same to see fights fights and just fights here ...answer guys...answer me ...will my dream never be fulfilled ??????...will we keep on fighting like this ???
these tears are mine tears and they will only stop when we people will be united...when there be no fights on this forum...when opening this forum will bring happiness / a smile on my face and when this forum will not serve me sadness and depression . Will anyone here care about this ??? Will my search for the forum ever end ????? i see open eye dreams where we get united and we have used music in threads ..with every song i listen on fm...i connect to this forum more than hd now a day...i wanted to say this to all you...yes i am demanding ...i want the whole forum as my friends...will my wishes be ever fulfilled guys ?????...only you all can answer this...
" We Still Have The Power To Change The Conditions...Impossible word itself says I am Possible.."
Kumkum Bhagya
