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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

There have been many comments on the forum which says that to oppose Child Marriage, people support Gauri-Jagya's relationship. Some people even agree that Anandi has to suffer even more to oppose child marriage but at the same time Jagya-Gauri should be shown living together and happy because of True Love.

But what Jagya did was even worse than Child Marriage... He actually cheated his first wife, committed bigamy and lived with a Mistress. And on top of that emotionally hurt Anandi's self esteem.

And don't tell me Jagya had the right to choose his life partner but then why did he cheat Anandi and insult her every now and then. No one can defend Jagya's actions and the right word for it is "Infidelity"

And Pizza Madam/Mistress is an equal partner in crime. Admitted that before anyone could defend her saying she was fooled by Jagya into marriage but then when she went to the haveli she got a clear picture from Anandi and the Singhs. Still she chose to stay in that relationship and many people are actually supporting it and calling it real?????????

Gauri actually supported Infidelity even though she herself is a women. If Gauri had taught Jagya a lesson then Jagya wouldn't have dared to that to any other girl. It doesn't matter if it was True Love or not, Jagya cheated his wife that was a fact she knew very well and also one of the reasons of her insecurity

Choosing:

Infidelity:Supporting Jagya-Gauri relationship

Child Marriage:Supporting Jagya-Anandi relationship

None: Supporting Anandi-Shiv relationship and J-G separation

And I seriously have a question for all G fans. Jagya was the one who cheated even Gauri and at that time they called him a cheater, etc. But now that he is all sweet with Gauri, they support him and want him to stay with Gauri forever?????????Why double standards. How come all G fans automatically started liking bigamist Jagya????

And plz explain why u picked a particular option

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Posted: 13 years ago

I will also love to add for Gauri fans, that we all hate child marriage as much as we love Anandi. But then why we are not able to support Jagiya's logic of child marriage. Because his second marriage is based on infidelity. If Jagiya had called for annulement of marriage after 18 without any consummation, we all would have whole-heartedly supported him.

That is why even Gauri is condemened because she has come in between an adult union. She should have resisted the idea because a third person is involved. It hurts a lot to see your love becoming someone else. (Its indeed traumatic! The way Anandi reacted running to the terrace screaming, became a zombie is not an exaggeration. It even happens to men but in case of female infidelity there is often violence, murder).

I reackon that many gauri fans on the forum are either unmarried or uninvolved. Thats why they are not able to understand the hurt such thing causes. And if it doesn't hurt then Gauri fans should stop supporting her insecurity. After all its nothing serious. Madam Gauri can find someone else. Marriage is all a joke.

Even if Jagiya fell out of love he should have resisted this idea. Atleast for the sake of selfless love thatAnandi gave him. I am sure if someone does so much for you, an attachment does develop. Moreover, Anandi was not his friend but wife. You can't walk out of marriage like this. Further, on what basis he walked out, she is an uneducated villager. Disgusting!

And she is uneducated only because dadisa never wanted her to study. She tried to conform to the values of his family and perhaps paid for it.

I can never support J-G because it is not only Jagiya but also Anandi who is a victim. Why should only she suffer? Marriage was also imposed on her but she never left its boundaries. Jagiya absence could have given her a good reason to do so. But she remained loyal to him. This is what a good partner means.

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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1
I will also love to add for the Gauri fans, we all hate child marriage as much as we love Anandi. But then why we are not able to support Jagiya's logic of child marriage. Because his second marriage is based on infidelity. If Jagiya had called for annulement of marriage after 18 without any consummation, we all would have whole-heartedly supported the entire thing.

That is why even Gauri is condemened because she has come in between an adult union. She should have resisted the idea because a third person is involved. It hurts a lot to see your love becoming someone else. (Its indeed traumatic! The way Anandi reacted running to the terrace screaming, became a zombie is not an exaggeration. It happens even to men but in case of female infidelity there is often violence, murder).

I reackon that many gauri fans on the forum are either unmarried or uninvolved. Thats why they are not able to understand the hurt such thing causes. And if it doesn't hurt then Gauri fans should stop supporting her insecurity. After all its nothing serious. Madam Gauri can find someone else.

Even if Jagiya fell out of love he should have resisted such an idea. Atleast for the sake of selfless love Anandi gave him. I am sure if someone does so much for you, an attachment does develop. Moreover, Anandi was not his friend but wife. You can't walk out of marriage like this. Further, on what basis he walked out, she is uneducated villager. Disgusting!
And she is uneducated only because dadisa never wanted her to study. She tried to conform to the values of his family and perhaps paid for it.

I can never support J-G because it is not only Jagiya but also Anandi who is a victim. Why should only she suffer? Marriage was also imposed on her she never left its boundaries. Jagiya absence could have given her a good reason to do so. But she remained loyal to him. This is what a good partner means.

@red, completely agree with u. Women like Gauri actually encourage cheaters like Jagat that Infidelity is ok. I feel Gauri is as much responsible for this mess as Jagat and even one or two steps more. Because she did that after knowing everything and being a women she couldn't understand Anandi's feelings.

I would also like to ask the 2 people who voted for infidelity, do u seriously support it????????? r u ok that a husband leaves his wife for someone else and plays with her emotions. That is indeed very surprising

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Posted: 13 years ago

🤣. I can't even believe that 2 people have supported infidelity. All right guys have guts and put forth your arguments. You will allow your husband/ wife to go with her person 🤣🤣. Waiting for refutations 😈

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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1
🤣. I can't even believe that 2 people have supported infidelity. All right guys have guts and put forth your arguments. You will allow your husband/ wife to go with her person 🤣🤣. Waiting for refutations 😈

Now I am seriously confused with my own reality. No wonder some people think Gauri is real. And if someone thinks Infidelity is fully justified/not ethically wrong then how can they find anything wrong with Gauri.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1
🤣. I can't even believe that 2 people have supported infidelity. All right guys have guts and put forth your arguments. You will allow your husband/ wife to go with her person 🤣🤣. Waiting for refutations 😈

2 votes = Jagat+Gauri 🥱

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Posted: 13 years ago

I voted for None.

Child marriages and infidelity are not comparable. Child marriage is/was a custom. But infidelity is a crime. So far, the CV's have showed how child marriages ruins lives of people involved in it. Now i hope they focus on Jagat and Gauri's miseries. This is as imp as ShivAn's track.Hence, i want J and G to appear on the screen😈.

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Posted: 13 years ago

i will support both oops sorry dono mein kisi ko support nahi karoongi pur kyon nahi support karoongi yeh mut poochna kyonki yeh dono kyon galat hain mujhe iska jawaab dete dete khud boriyat hone lagi hai

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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
i will support both oops sorry dono mein kisi ko support nahi karoongi pur kyon nahi support karoongi yeh mut poochna kyonki yeh dono kyon galat hain mujhe iska jawaab dete dete khud boriyat hone lagi hai

Lol. I knew G fans would pick infidelity thts why I was asking them to give their reasons. I see none of them have answered my question, so they themselves know if too that it is very difficult to support Gauri now.

I want "All The Real People" on this forum to answer why they support Infidelity 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

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cozzz...if jagat and guri really loved they would have known the meaning of love...but non was their...and jagat did nuthing but lied to her at evry step and took as much advantage of anandi...and he degraded to such extent he lost his sence of thinking and understanding...he bacame henpeked husband...and didnt even was ashamed for blackmiling his own parents and for what ...money...to build his dream he shattered the dream of evry one who cared about him most and loved him most...

lolzzz...for man leving his wife like she is shit of paper or dustbin..use her when ever require is quit easy and too easy for another woman to have affair with a man who has respnsbility towards other ... and stops the person from completing duties and all is nto only a crime ... its a shame...and on other hand what a wife goes into..how she asembels her strength and stands up evry day and faces the world when she herself is lost ...no no one in this world can even think of knowing the pain the wife goes into..her trumaa...her empty nights...her day coloourlesss...her festivals all sad and fill with painfull memeories...no no one can ever imagin...

plzzz...dont comment on this part...i know and can so v.well understand the pain of anandi(even if it is in sserial)she deserve hapiness...and she is lucky she got chance to be happy again...people are out their who are bearing pain and still leaving ...and on top of that they dosent have family support like anandi has...this is the only part where this serial can be differenciate with actual life and serial...thats why this is serial and we are actual life😭

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