Originally posted by: bud2012
@rsvparam11 :
I feel he never got pissed off ,He is a Obidient Pet of Bhabo. His only intention is I cant/wont Hurt my Mother , By going Against her , She is My Supramacy in my Life . In that case of his this attitude , he should not have taken a Marriage , He should have been a Bread, Roti Winner for them Life Long .
If dat was his intention, do u think dat he was crazy to spend more money and see blood in his palm to take sandy to the prize distribution ceremony wen he knows dat his mom doesnt like sandy attending prize distribution ceremony????in dat bedroom incident y did he support sandy and faced his mother...wen sandy was getting thrown out of the house..y did he take the blame on his shoulders wen he knew his mother wudnt forgive him for hiding the truths..in the park y did he tell his mother dat sandy wudnt be the person who has filed case against her wen he doesnt ve any evidence 4r her innocence?????? y did he ask his mother though he doesnt ve any evidence for her innocence except his trust...ll she be ready to trust his trust???????
Whats the use of Wife / Marriage if u could not speak a Word , When u are about u speak. Is She a Baby feeding Machine and a Maid for his Haweli , Maid to his Mother . Wont u consider her Self-Respect , her Family Upbringing and Sanakaars . His Mother Teased her Family Upbringing and sanskaars Many times .It is Sandhya and Her SansKaars which Saved Bhabo to have a Life
marriage is husband & wife relationship...wife adjusting in her in-laws place & also some adjustments shud be made frm in-laws place also as relationship has to start frm 2 unknown persons and families...husband & wife relationship and their children...this is general...anything uncommon shud be discussed b4r marriage...bhabho asked sandy if she is ready to marry her son...she nodded her head and gave consent...after dat only marriage happend...sandy a top ranker in rajasthan doesnt how a marital life wud be???bhabho never said to be a baby feeding machine...in all the houses elders wud expect to see their grand children it's normal...of course she accused her of using contraceptive pills...but wat did sandy do...a foolish by not revealing the truth and giving a hint of her relationship with sooraj...did sooraj go and complain to his mother dat sandy is nt allowing him to touch her?????it was she who gave the hint and y did she not the evidence of her innocence while she was having at her hand...dont say it's her kindheartedness...its her foolishness...instead of being kindhearted to others let her be openhearted and feel the feelings her husband who is still luving her to the core...dont say dat sooraj has never spoken at any pt of time...he has spoken...at times he has remained silent...which is correct...u put urself in the shoes of sooraj n see...i ve seen in many houses son if he takes the side of wife & speak mother ll be angry...if he speaks the side of his mother wife ll get angry...so they both quarrel & one pt reconcile...one of thing...u mean to say only MIL has to work in the house and DIL has to sit leg on leg and order is it??????bhabho though a MIL she doesnt sit idle always she is shown doing one r the other work and she has never sat leg-on-leg and ordered her DILs only to work...even she works always...in a house every body who is healthy has to do one r other work as per their space and their strength...is this a mistake?????
Bhabo would have Exprired from this World if there is no Sandhya , She Protected the Family Head By saving her from BUll . Instead Appreciating her she said , Kaam Chori and Made a Issue of Menses between Men Folk. take Shoes of Sandhya and u are Supposed to Say a Reason for this Saving of Bull and Reason for Saving inspite of Menses . Then What will u say . Wat will be ur Answer ? Do u Find a Good Mother Image in her , A Sanity Person Shade in Bhabo.
Agreed dat sandy saved bhabho frm bull and she wud ve died if sandy wasnt there...and instead of appreciating her she made allegations of kaam chor...agree dat she was wrong in dat incident...just a question to u...just take a retrospection of ur life and let me know u were perfect in all the circumstances of ur life...never ever have done any mistake...bhabho passed allegations but wen she felt sandy is truthful she remained silent...i find a good mother image in her...do u remember in maasa's house she took blanket and went out to help sandy in dat night though she doesnt like her...and after dat cooking competition wen meenakshi was making sarcastic comments on her sandy dint know any thing...y did bhabho interfered in b/w and scolded meenakshi 4r putting salt on wound wen she knows the truth and told sandy to take rest in her room and ordered meenakshi to clean all the utensils and she herself went to the room and applied ointment to her hands...u may say she questioned sandy 4r sooraj's changed behaviour and again rebuked sandy is responsible for dis...of course anybody in dat situation wud feel dat only...and wen sandy was supposed to sit 4r the meetai ceremony she only draped her saree seeing injury in sandy's hand...i'm not telling bhabho is perfect...but not bad at heart as depicted...if she was bad...she still believes dat sandy is the one who has filed FIR against her..y dint she create fake evidence & prove dat in front of her son...she dint do dat becoz she is truthful...u said sandy saved bhabho correct...do u know onething even sooraj has saved sandy during diwali even she shud ve got injured and might ve lost sight...if u dont remember pls see previous episodes...not only saving her life...he has saved her honour also...recollect he prepared moong dhal ka halwa and showed it as sandy prepared it...
His Family is Full of Nasty Persons , And Suraj As Mother as Son . This was Prooved by having a False Opinion on Sandhya by his illusion , He concluded her Falsly that she is Expecting a Divorce by a NightMare .
agreed dat in his family nasty persons r there...u say D nightmare...put urself into sooraj's shoes and think...wat has sandy conveyed till now only negative and previous night instead of telling wat happend she just shouted at him...dat laptop incident...it's purely her mistake...did she support sooraj at any pt time...husband shud his wife and wife shud support her husband and wat support sandy has given to him...always hiding the facts frm him and putting him in a thick soup...her education details..he took her to park & almost begged her to say wat her prob is???she dint open her mouth...laptop incident - sooraj caught his bro redhanded and he wanted his bro to confess the same infront of his mother...who sandy to stop him and finally she blamed him dat bhabho believed mohit..s of course she ll believe her son only & not sandy..u say it was sooraj's foolishness to believe those Dpapers...agreed..do u think MU is only sandy's patented property??????dint she MU wen sooraj was reprimanding some mischieveous gals in his shop and believed dat he doesnt give any value to educating gals wen he is the one who is educating his sister...incase of sooraj...sandy has never given him any positive response to him until now...how can he nt believe dat it cud be true????????
And By Standing on NMare - he Prooved As a Husband he is Weak in giving Happiness to Wife .
by standing on Nmare...he is not proved to be a weak husband...but he is a selfless strong husband and selfless son...wat do u expect sooraj to do...shud he chop his throat at the feet of sandy & make her happy...he has done more than expected...pls see the episodes properly...ur only concern is he doesnt react wen his mother shouts????if u had such a mother/father then u wud ve understood wat is the pain & repercussion in reacting to parents esp wen they r angry/tensed??
Take the Yesterday Episode He Confronted For Chavi Marriage Proposal , He Questioned what is Lacking ? Is he not Fit for Chavi ? Why Dint he Showed the Same Boldness at Necklace Issue ? Why dint he Posed same Questions ? Have u seen Sandy giving Jewellery to Ankur ?
yes he confronted his mother for chavvi's marriage...becoz she gave him all the information...in necklace case...he dint speak...correct did u see the level of tense in bhabho...if it was ur mother wat u wud ve done...reacted is it???later wen he caught the real culprit...s the real culprit was nt brought in front of bhabho but atleast not like sandy in laptop case...he saved sandy frm this allegation of theft and also he went to a jewel shop to get one more necklace with the same design...look always confrontation doesnt work in all the circumstances...sometimes silence is required...
Why dnt he Posed the Same questions at Jail Issue ? Why dnt he Cleared this MU like in Dilip Rishta ?
pls see the episodes again...he dint pose questions...he proclaimed strongly dat he trusts his wife and she is innocent...if he has to clear dat MU...ur fav heroine sandy has to give him the info dat she was the one who relieved bhabho frm jail and unfortunately sooraj doesnt ve any magical powers to know who actually relieved his mom frm jail...In dilip rishta...chavi took him out and spoke to him he helped her...if sandy also speaks to him and gives him info wen asked he is ready to help her out...now dont say dat she is ready to talk him now becoz she dint open her mouth wen he gave her a chance to talk...he dint give her a chance only once...all the times she has nt supported him...if u were in sooraj's place wat u were able to do?????
So this Man considered Apna Bhayi-Behan Rishta For Chavi and Sandy a DIL -MIL Releation , , He Took Self-Defence by Being Silent For All the time at Sandy Accusals coz He need to Answer for his Mother Khoon Questions --This Prooved he is Spineless Husband.
if this man had considered only bhai behan ka rishta...just by observing frm his shop his wife sandy...who has done nothing to him as a wife and the same is agreed by sandy...has done more than required to her...in dat meetai ka rasam she was uncomfortable to eat so many sweets...he took frm her plate and ate...rt frm dat level till the bed room story he has rescued her...if sandy is still in dat house it is becoz of him only...do u want me to enumerate those...market place, bus, disclosure of her education, for ur kind info he was not silent in FIR case and as I said earlier he proclaimed dat she is innocent and the same he said to his mother also...it's sandy who is nt supporting him in any matters...she either hides the facts, r stop him frm reporting the truth to his mother and finally shouts at him for the hell she created around her...
She Self Has to Offend , Win for a Never Winning War .--- This Prooved ,An Inefficent Husband at times He ought to Help
she has to do all this becoz of her own mistakes with 1 - 2 exceptions...who told her to hide facts frm him...she is so keen in informing abt the money given to mohit to bhabho...just a question is bhabho her husband?????is she married to bhabho?????she shud ve first told dis to sooraj and poor chap he gets to know everything a big bombardment happens and by the time other crooks in da house wud ve misused sandy's negligence and carelessness...he has to help sandy but...she has to help him at first place...sooraj has done so many things to sandy wat has sandy done to sooraj????she has shown least int in him rt frm the beginning...know dat she was married at bro compulsion...so 4r dat this so-called principled lady has to spoil the life of an innocent person like sooraj????she got to know the facts first y dint she disclose them and leave rathi's house if she felt dat is nt her cup of tea...after sooraj doing so many things wat did she tell him...not to expect any thing frm her she is different...y she dint know dis b4r marriage...y did sooraj marry???first place y did sandy marry wen she wasnt interested and putting herself into trouble and spoiling sooraj's life...no smoke; no fire;...if bhabho is shouting at sandy...it is she who is at fault with some exceptions...đđŒ
As a Son He is Best đđŒ . If there are MILs they will Love him an wish to have son like him a very Obidient and Moms son.
a correction is required...as a son he is best...correct but nt 4r MILs...4r mothers...4r a MIL a guy is said to son-in-law nt son...s a guy is son for his mother and nt for his wife...his wife a guy is said to be husband...of course always a son is to be obedient 4r his mother in right matters...dat is wat he is doing...i wonder y did he take the pain of injuring himself to make his wife happy against his mom's wishes and also really getting angry y did he trust & support his wife wen all the members of his family including bhabasa passed allegation dat she was one who filed FIR against his mother...y did he support her in each & every step in dat house...& he is doing all these and he knows he wont get anything frm her i.e., any marital pleasure...she has shown least int in him...she has nt taken care of him at any pt of time as a wife except as a humanity she helped him in his shop...his mother has made the life of his useless wife miserable...he shud ve killed his mother and becum an ideal husband...dat wife doesnt give anything to him and doesnt support him in any way...đđŒ
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