i am not so good with words and more than that i dotn have enough time to sit and pen down my thoughts. today i have found some time so i can reflect on some aspects.
gauri supporters seem to not understand why we hate her so much when it is infact jagiya's fault.
definitely it is jagiya's fault for he is two timing creature who dsnt deserve any sympathy at all.
i would like to refelect on how and why gauri i so hated by us.
gauri knew jagiya is married to a village girl. and she also knew the mentality of villages since she had belonged to one herself. so far so good. she chose to ignore her accepting jagiya would wreck havoc in the life of a woman who is by no means as priviledged as herself. agreed the marriage was over since jagiya did not find her atta and haldi smeared wife as SEXY anymore. but what about gauri?
did she have no respect fo herself that she went ahead with a man already shared in bed with another woman? a second hand maal? she infact cheapened herself by selling herself so short.
jagiya slept with anandi and then got to sleep with super hot gauri. and who is to blam fo rit?
man is polygamous by nature ... if not for the society and its strict dictates god knows how many wud have stayed loyal to their wives.
but what if the other woman started sympathising and identifying with the hapless wife. wudnt she turn out to be a benefactor and a friend to the wife?
if gauri had declined jagiya and refused to serve herself as a piece of meat for jagiya to feast on, she wuld have commanded my respect much more than anandi.
but she chose to digrace herself first and fore most. what to sy about her.
thats the reason i hate gauri ... since i am a female i would like to see females sympathsing with females. if all did 95% of crimes against women would end.
Edited by vasu.avantika - 13 years ago