Arjun has been at fault all along!

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MAYURFAN001

@MAYURFAN001

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am a Biased Arvi fan, and love them together... However, I dont know why Arjun seems so shocked about the engagement announcement.. This was meant to happen.. I mean he had verbally committed to OVI before leaving Canada. A verbal commitment is still a commitment in itself without the exchange of rings.. Exchange of rings before friends and family is a gesture of acceptance before everyone, but then when you verbally commit to that person, you are still ethically committed!!

When he falls for Purvi, he is basically cheating on OVI.. He keeps his commitment to OVI a secret from Purvi. so he has wronged PURVI too.. He tries to tell OVI, but I dont think he did enough.!!

Now, how is the entire family to be blamed for Arjun's engagement?? The family did not just surprise Arjun.. They only acted on Arjun's decision!!

So Today.. we are going to witness a Drama unfold where Purvi is going to be shattered.. The only person responsible for this is Arjun himself!!! He even lets OVI slip the engagement ring onto her finger!

So.. no matter how much I love ARVI onscreen.. but if I knew a ARJUN in real life.. I wld probably be a bit weary of him!!.

SO NOW.. it really depends on what ARJUN wld do NEXT to redeem himself!!!

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Hema Persad

@debeangel

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Posted: 13 years ago

Oh god they fell in love. Arjun fell in love, Purvi fell in love. they will get through it.

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purethought

@purethought

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post.

I am actually really trying to empathise with Arjun .. but somewhere in my heart, he has himself to blame. He even allows Ovi to put the ring on him. I just don't know what's going to happen next. I do like Arjun, but that respect I had for him has waned a bit.

He has got to get out fo this mess and more than ever needs to assure Purvi he loves her and break the engagement asap. But I think purvi will be out of reach after the enagagement. I think he has lost Purvi for some time to come.

Actually, to put it firmly. He too deserves to see Purvi getting engaged to someone else in front of his eyes. I think that' way he'll know what it is to feel betrayed. Purvi also needs more admirers in the office and around so that Arjun can squirm, while Purvi can enjoy the attention.

However, after he gets his just desserts, I would love to see ARVI back together.

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ampliphy

@ampliphy

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

I can't bring myself to be mad at him or put full blame on him. Situations and timing of events has unfolded unfortunately for him.

He told Ovi that he wanted to end things but she wasn't listening (she only hears what she wants to hear and sees waht she wants to see anyway). he did that long before he confessed his love or even kissed ovi. he trie to do the right thing, if no one hears him what can he do?

He never told his father about purvi because he didn't know if she loved him back. When he knew she loved him back he was ready to shout it to the world but his dad wouldn't listen and he decided he would do it in a grand way.

Arjun knows that ovi didn't hear him that is why he was still attempting to contact her and cancel that "contract" before signing the Purvi contract. But she's unreachable. he has no idea that she's there and escalating the engagement.

Now when he gets to the party he's probably going to go absolute puppydog happy when purvi walks in and is ready to call all attention on them to announce their relationship but before he can speak manav calls attetnion and ovi walks out. I can understand the shock to see her and people will be talking so fast he can't get a word in to stop it.

as teh engagement is taking place he is staring in shock and love at purvi. I think the poor guy is having an out of body experience. He doesnt' realize the ring is in hand or on his hand. My hope is when h finally snaps out of it (which will be when purvi breaks eye contact and walks/runs away) he will turn in to old arjun that puts his foot down and stops things.

I do think that purvi will need some time to process the whole situation. Arjun will have some mega making up to do. But i think she will for give him. But i also think he will end up being her only support as Archana will be on ovi's side and we know soluchana will probably disown her the minute she finds out they are together.

Arjuns ultimate goal after clearing everything with Purvi will be keeping purvi happy and i'm sure he will work extra hard to get her back in good with the family. I can't wait for that time.

Sorry or the long post. :)

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: MAYURFAN001
I am a Biased Arvi fan, and love them together... However, I dont know why Arjun seems so shocked about the engagement announcement.. This was meant to happen.. I mean he had verbally committed to OVI before leaving Canada. A verbal commitment is still a commitment in itself without the exchange of rings.. Exchange of rings before friends and family is a gesture of acceptance before everyone, but then when you verbally commit to that person, you are still ethically committed!!

When he falls for Purvi, he is basically cheating on OVI.. He keeps his commitment to OVI a secret from Purvi. so he has wronged PURVI too.. He tries to tell OVI, but I dont think he did enough.!!

Now, how is the entire family to be blamed for Arjun's engagement?? The family did not just surprise Arjun.. They only acted on Arjun's decision!!

So Today.. we are going to witness a Drama unfold where Purvi is going to be shattered.. The only person responsible for this is Arjun himself!!! He even lets OVI slip the engagement ring onto her finger!

So.. no matter how much I love ARVI onscreen.. but if I knew a ARJUN in real life.. I wld probably be a bit weary of him!!.

SO NOW.. it really depends on what ARJUN wld do NEXT to redeem himself!!!

mayur excellent post👏i m not saying arjun's fault he did intentionally but ekta creat the situation in such a way all blame arjun first.arjun should tell purvi when they went to tea stall then at least purvi understand his situation.then he tried to say it to ovi but he should try more.now situation according to ekta i think will b worst for ARVI even for archu.