Lavanya and Nitish issue..

DEAR FRIENDS...

Lav is a category who thinks what she does is right, but will point out it is wrong when others did/do the same thing she does...for eg living separately from family...for her it is right and for T or sudha they are bad DILs...her mom does/talks all right, making DIL starve is right... If Nitish mom, if she asks her not to go out when is preggy and take care of health, intolerable MIL. Her husband should listen to her but not her parents, same time wants money from his parents, if they dont give they are so mean and intolerable for her. Her mom will not even provide food, but hide them, but her mom is theivathin theivam acc to her...🤢

For her mom DILs should be slaves and for her MIL should be a slave...what a kodumai attitute she got.
She has to listen to her mom - only her mom and get into some unsolvable problem and should understand who was right and who was wrong. At that time there should be no one to help her and she need to get a severe punishment for her arrogant behaviour and ill treating her husband and his family.
At some point her useless behaviour towards T and Sudha are because she is Jealous of them. Her J Towards T, because she thinks TA's care(athu ellam ippo enga?) towards T. And towards Sudha is bcos of the business mind and how she is successful in that. Lav wants both these from Nitish - over care as well allow her to take over the business which she is over confident that she can handle. When second was objected by NIt mom/dad and by Nitish she thought they dont care for her and hence her behaviour. She wants everything the way she wants it to be, if not people are arrogant towards her. She compares her SILs and puts sand on her own head. She thought if C became TA's wife, she might get the business from Nitish as C might dance to her mom's words and hence such cross mind attitude.
Aagamotham like GP once said and like Jaya said in today's comment Lav has to only pattu thirunthufy. Nitish shoudl help her well for the downfall...😛

So Separate family with Nitish will make her hyper and try to dominate Nitish but ultimately those things would let her down and she is going to learn her lessons hard. Only after such hard lessons she will slowly realise how far she went, but none would be there to help her then.

There are some reasons, why Laav and Nitish thanikudithanam won't work. The first point is Laav doesn't want to live with Nitish's parents and could not get along with them. But in the thani kudithanam, she will not stop communicating with her mom. She will still be influenced by her mom, which caused all sorts of problems in the marriage. If only they want thani kudithanam, one thing Nitish has to make a condition is he will only live by his own income as a driver or anyway and get nothing from his dad. Will Laav agree for this condition? Interestingly GP agreed for thanikudithanam for Nit and Laav. Laav replied arrogantly to GP on that day. And logically is this the time for going to thanikudithanam? Can Nitish manage Laav's pregnancy all alone? He will definitely need his mom's help. Can Nit be confident of laav's capability to be a mom at this stage? It doesn't seem Laav is going to agree for living with Nit even in thani kudithanam because she and her mom believe they are going to get a huge amount of compensation. As some of you said, if the home and the money were earned by Nitish, she could definitely ask for compensation. But from what is belonging to his dad, she could neither ask for money nor ask for a place in the home. Nitish may better off starting business again, after disposing off Laav. But it seems he is working with his dad these days.