Could Bhabho ever be a real mother to Sandhya?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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There have been instances where Bhabho has helped Sandhya when she truly needed it. Like the second day of marriage, when Sandy couldn't tie the sari, and Bhabho helped her. She praised her for turning on the camera. There have been several other occasion too ( though I cant recall). Even today, she got mad at Suraj for leaving her at the competition. And, in the SBS, they showed Bhabho applying medicine to her burned hand.

So do you think that after Bhabho gets to know the truth (after everything is revealed), she could like a real mother? Would she ever be able to treat her as her own daughter? Or would she hold a grudge against Sandy forever?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know it seems a bit far fetched...but I honestly believe the time will come eventually when Bhabo accepts her as a Bahu and then eventually as a daughter.
We've already seen Sandhya tug at Bhabo's stiff heartstrings. And today...even Daisa...was amazed by Suraj's ill-treatment of Sandhya.
Of course Daisa's concern wasn't genuine...she never misses the opportunity to give a taana.
But there was in Bhabo's expression and rebuke to Suraj...a certain something. She couldn't believe her son would do such an injustice. The fact that she will even consider it an injustice is the first crack in Bhabo's hard exterior...it will be a very minor crack...but a crack none the less.
Of course if you look up the word stubborn in the dictionary it'll have Bhabo's picture there...so it will happen very gradually...but yes it will happen...especially when as you said...the truths come out.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: FairyLights_3

There have been instances where Bhabho has helped Sandhya when she truly needed it. Like the second day of marriage, when Sandy couldn't tie the sari, and Bhabho helped her. She praised her for turning on the camera. There have been several other occasion too ( though I cant recall). Even today, she got mad at Suraj for leaving her at the competition. And, in the SBS, they showed Bhabho applying medicine to her burned hand.


So do you think that after Bhabho gets to know the truth (after everything is revealed), she could like a real mother? Would she ever be able to treat her as her own daughter? Or would she hold a grudge against Sandy forever?


I think Bhabo is basically not cruel and mean, it is only she loves her son Suraj very much. Remember at one time she was very nice to Sandhya, right after she came out of prison. She need to know who was one behind her going to prison is very important, that is one of her reason of her distrust of Sandhya.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

I know it seems a bit far fetched...but I honestly believe the time will come eventually when Bhabo accepts her as a Bahu and then eventually as a daughter.

We've already seen Sandhya tug at Bhabo's stiff heartstrings. And today...even Daisa...was amazed by Suraj's ill-treatment of Sandhya.
Of course Daisa's concern wasn't genuine...she never misses the opportunity to give a taana.
But there was in Bhabo's expression and rebuke to Suraj...a certain something. She couldn't believe her son would do such an injustice. The fact that she will even consider it an injustice is the first crack in Bhabo's hard exterior...it will be a very minor crack...but a crack none the less.
Of course if you look up the word stubborn in the dictionary it'll have Bhabo's picture there...so it will happen very gradually...but yes it will happen...especially when as you said...the truths come out.


Exactly. If she told off Suraj for leaving her there, I can see that in the future she will support Sandy when injustice is done to her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: just4fun


I think Bhabo is basically not cruel and mean, it is only she loves her son Suraj very much. Remember at one time she was very nice to Sandhya, right after she came out of prison. She need to know who was one behind her going to prison is very important, that is one of her reason of her distrust of Sandhya.


Yeah, she does love Suraj the most out of all her children, and she even sees that Suraj loves Sandy, which is why she hasn't told her to leave the house.
Secondly, the whole police report truth needs to come out fast and Meena is the one who needs to be punished. If Bhabho can forgive Meena for burning the godown, then why not Sandy for hiding the truth of her education? Bhabho even said that she can see the truth in Sandy's eyes when Sandy saved Bhabho from the bull.
Hopefully she might even apologize to Sandy for wrongly accusing her for the police report and for the theft accusation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do think in the future she could be a mother, and like everyone said the first step was her getting mad at Suraj for leaving Sandy at the competition. She has a heart deep inside, it's just covered over with hurt, mistrust and pride.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with all Bhabho is human after all and basically she is not a bad person although her experiences and upbringing has formed her thinking in that way...
She is a product of her surroundings and past experiences and in future with Suraj and Sandhya's good influences she will get better in her thinking and behaviour esp as Sandhya's polited and decent ways will rub off on her some day...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That will be the end for this serial.PH is cashing on high trp coz of saas bahu torture drama ...don't think they will show her completely changed till the last day.would love to see her softning towards Sandy without knowing the real truth...later on if they can bring out Meenakshi's truth will be good for her to go to next level as a mother.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: westindian

I do think in the future she could be a mother, and like everyone said the first step was her getting mad at Suraj for leaving Sandy at the competition. She has a heart deep inside, it's just covered over with hurt, mistrust and pride.


The only people she should be trusting and having pride in is Sandy and Suraj.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Juna04

Agree with all Bhabho is human after all and basically she is not a bad person although her experiences and upbringing has formed her thinking in that way...

She is a product of her surroundings and past experiences and in future with Suraj and Sandhya's good influences she will get better in her thinking and behaviour esp as Sandhya's polited and decent ways will rub off on her some day...


Hopefully that day will come soon...

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