Originally posted by: vibz88
I dont understand why people are upset that ahem still has tears for anita.
1 he loved anita passionately.we say he never loved anita he oly loves gopi that s wrong. He loved anita but that was different. It was college type romance with a passion ,intense while his feelings for gopi are based on small things more real..
Good one.. He is human and if he did not have those tears I would have been surprised.. Love whether past or not will not be forgotten. You do not have to hate someone to love some one else😊
He moved on in life for his mom. He was not happy for a long time in his marriage. Now he s content in what fate offered him. He sees his past happy and in a bridal outfit. Is it to wrong to feel bad? Wont ur ego get hurt? The woman i dumped is happy while i was not for a long time? Cant people be selfish in thinking like that? No one is perfect we all have negative emotions. We are jealous of others at some part of time. I would be really sad if the person i dumped is happy with someone else and i am still hanging. If ahem and gopi were one then anita would not have effected him but what s wrong in shedding a few tears?
Nothing wrong. When the past haunts you and that too a bitter past then these tears are valid.. His guilt, the buried feelings of the past came up in one big shock and added to it was the fact that Anitha was getting married. I cannot say if Ahem was jealous but he was overwhelmed and extremely guilty and pained
2 i read a post which said ahem does not love gopi but he is used to her and people were hurt by that statement. Just remove ur blindfold in real love is when you get used to a person. You are so dependent on that person that you cant lead a perfect life if that person is absent. So if you are used to a person what s the big deal?? That s the way love is real if we remove the rose coloured glasses
Well Vibz.. That is love broken down to day to day happenings.. Love is not roses and gifts all day. It is the small needs and duties.. If that is using your spouse then yes.. Love is using the other person. In a marriage especially an arranged marriage, it takes all such small cares and needs that make the person come closer to your heart. You miss them first for their work and the care they show you.. But in deep you miss the person and you associate them to what they do for you. I tell my mom I miss her cooking.. So does it mean that I use my mom as a cook? 😊 I love her.. But I miss the things she does
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