Anandi's reaction

Dadisa shows anandi photos of the prospective grooms.

Anandi looks shocked. 'dadisa, yeh kya hai? How did you even think about it?'

Dadisa,'Is mein bura kya hai? Dont you want somebody to take care of you?'
Dadisa expects what Anandi will say as all of you.

Anandi says, 'aap sab hai na. All of you are there to take care of me.'

Dadisa.'We may not live that long.'

Anandi almost starts crying.'Dont say that dadisa. You will live forever. And in any case nandu will be there to take care of me'.

Dadisa gets impatient,'Anandi, I know all these things. I am talking about jeevansaathi.'

Anandi says,'I have enough memories and that will last me a lifetime'.

Dadisa threatens.'I am ordering you to remarry. Otherwise I will die an unahappy person.'

Anandi again looks shocked and nods head in agreement so sadly as though somebody asked her to jump off a cliff.

The bakra who may marry Anandi will have no anand because Anandi will always be stiff with him as though he has committed a crime in marrying her. She will cry for days, be angry and upset thinking about her first marriage.

arrey kyon befaltu mein anandi ko kyon badnaam kar rahe ho .koi zaroori nahi jaisa pichhli baar hua is baar bhi waisa hi ho

Originally posted by: surabhi01

arrey kyon befaltu mein anandi ko kyon badnaam kar rahe ho .koi zaroori nahi jaisa pichhli baar hua is baar bhi waisa hi ho

Because I think anandi wont accept remarriage easily.

You can take a horse to the river but not make it drink water if it does not want to.

If they marry off Anandi without her happily agreeing, it will be like doing injustice to the other party. A Suraj Sandhya situation. Bucket and Water.😉

nahi woh karegi. dadisa ne aisa koi tareeka socha hoga ki anandi maan jaaye .

Anadi is unpredictable. When jagya married and came to haveli she is the one who supported his marriage saying bal vivah is the culprit. She supported Phooli and Asha marriage too. She might already moved on and decided to start her new life. When dadisa asked her about marriage she may agree happily but with one condition i.e she still want to serve village people. I really wish she agrees to marriage happily in fact she fell in love before marriage.😊

Originally posted by: Bdoll

Anadi is unpredictable. When jagya married and came to haveli she is the one who supported his marriage saying bal vivah is the culprit. She supported Phooli and Asha marriage too. She might already moved on and decided to start her new life. When dadisa asked her about marriage she may agree happily but with one condition i.e she still want to serve village people. I really wish she agrees to marriage happily in fact she fell in love before marriage.😊

You are an optimist. Anandi may agree for marriage after a lot of convincing and that too reluctantly.
When it comes to others, she is happy to support them. But when it comes to herself, she is in denial.

It's actually very difficult for people to emotionally overcome the effect of the first marriage, especially if it has been a traumatic one. Not everyone can walk out of a marriage as if it was just a joke and start another marriage afresh. A divorcee couple's relationship is much more delicate and they need to really handle their relationship with love, care, respect and mutual understanding. It's very very different from a first marriage relationship and needs a lot more effort to build up. There are a lot more doubts, a lot many bitter memories, a lot more apprehensions to begin with.Things are much more complicated for women and especially if the woman has been subjected to abuse and severe pain.

If Anandi is reluctant or scared or unhappy to start another relationship, that's how most divorced women think before jumping into another marriage. Not everyone moves from one man to another with ease, wiping out one's past cleanly before moving on to the next man. It might not be an issue in this day and age when girls have multiple boyfriends or when so many have one-night stands in a drunken bash and yet carry no guilt about it, but Anandi is a completely different one. She has loved only Jagya and Jagya alone and has never even been exposed to another man. It's a little too much to expect that she will start sleeping around or become the Elizabeth Taylor of Jetsar all of a sudden😆

Similarly every "bakra/bakri" who decides to get married to a divorced/divorcee knows that things will be pretty different and not like a first time marriage. They don't expect their wives to be fresh virgins and they know that their spouses' past life is bound to be a part of the marriage deal

But its already like 7 years till they both living seperately. So its really time to move on.

How do you know she won't. She hasn't dated anybody yet, she hasn't been exposed to any other male friends and all the male figures around her are either liek her father or like her elder brother. So how do you know how she will behave in a new marriage? Sugna too took a long time to accept Shyam completely. But finally she is happy and in love with Shyam. So Shyam too must have been a bakhra since he also knowingly married a grieving Sugna that too carrying Pratap's child. So how does the prospective groom become a bakhra, just because he is meant for an abandoned wife?

That way every man who dares to marry a widow or divorcee is a bakhra since the chances are their wives are not able to completely erase their past lives from their minds. So widow or divorcee remarriage should be totally banned, so that every man gets a fresh, young girls and nobody ends up being a bakhra😆.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Dadisa shows anandi photos of the prospective grooms.

Anandi looks shocked. 'dadisa, yeh kya hai? How did you even think about it?'

Dadisa,'Is mein bura kya hai? Dont you want somebody to take care of you?'
Dadisa expects what Anandi will say as all of you.

Anandi says, 'aap sab hai na. All of you are there to take care of me.'

Dadisa.'We may not live that long.'

Anandi almost starts crying.'Dont say that dadisa. You will live forever. And in any case nandu will be there to take care of me'.

Dadisa gets impatient,'Anandi, I know all these things. I am talking about jeevansaathi.'

Anandi says,'I have enough memories and that will last me a lifetime'.

Dadisa threatens.'I am ordering you to remarry. Otherwise I will die an unahappy person.'

Anandi again looks shocked and nods head in agreement so sadly as though somebody asked her to jump off a cliff.

The bakra who may marry Anandi will have no anand because Anandi will always be stiff with him as though he has committed a crime in marrying her. She will cry for days, be angry and upset thinking about her first marriage.