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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi soapwatcher 1 , I beg to differ as well 😉. I had mentioned that Ovi was wrong ,that does not mean she is a self-fish girl.Being wrong and being selfish is different. She is wrong coz she is concerned about her aaji getting hurt and also her Baba if her aaji sees the happenings in India but wants to go coz she wants to see Arjun and be there for him(Thanks to DK call).Savita tagged herself into this and Ovi was helpless.The poor girl thinks Arjun is missing her badly and wants to be there for him. She tried her best to avoid Savita but she could not.Being selfish is if she did not even try to stop Savita and did not even think about her aaji and Baba getting hurt even once,which is not the case,she tired but could not win over her aaji and she was thinking throughout what might happen even in airport .There is that suttle difference according to me.
She is a 20 year old love stuck girl who tried whatever she could but just could not stop her Aaji.Between Savita vs Ovi , Ovi has basically has no chance ,when her parents have not won against Savita what can Ovi do ,she will naturally agree but she was all the way thinking about her Aaji and her Baba confrontration which means she was helpless but not selfish.Her daughter side wanted to avoid the mess but her love for Arjun over took it.For me Ovi was wrong but not selfish.
If Ovi can be stated Selfish then there are various incidents that could show others inlcuding Arjun to be Selfish. I see all three Ovi,Arjun and Purvi have done their part of being wrong in various incidents where circumstances have shown them to be selfish but in real they were just wrong.Life is a experience and they will learn as they go by. So putting the blame on Ovi being selfish is bit unfair according to me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

If Arjun is supported to pursue his love for Purvi, than why not Ovi coming to India for her love Arjun? WHy does she needs to drop it for Manav???

Ridiculous excuse...One one side fans support Arjun and Purvi following their dreams or LOVE...But Ovi or Tej should not? WTH

Dabulls, nothing wrong in Ovi going all out to get the man of her dreams, did not say that was selfish at all. She is not going to succeed but that is neither here not there in this instance. Not heeding her dad's plans which could go awry with Savita's arrival is what I think is selfish. Why does she need to drop her plans for Manav? He is her dad and she owes him that much, she has been telling him to get rid of that aurath and this is the only way he can comply with his children's demands. The man has become a mere puppet in the hands of his mom and children, poor Manav 😊
Sans Manav's live-in plans with Archana, I think Ovi should try every trick in the book (not Punni's evil kind of tricks, of course) to make Arjun understand that his is just an infatuation for Purvi, and she, Ovi, is his real love. Arjun will prove her otherwise and poor Ovi will be left out in the cold. But do hope someone nice gets to rescue her.
As for Tej, love Teju, what she did was wrong, lying to her grandma, her dad, etc but the girl is lovable and full of mischief.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Hi soapwatcher 1 , I beg to differ as well 😉. I had mentioned that Ovi was wrong ,that does not mean she is a self-fish girl.Being wrong and being selfish is different. She is wrong coz she is concerned about her aaji getting hurt and also her Baba if her aaji sees the happenings in India but wants to go coz she wants to see Arjun and be there for him(Thanks to DK call).Savita tagged herself into this and Ovi was helpless.The poor girl thinks Arjun is missing her badly and wants to be there for him. She tried her best to avoid Savita but she could not.Being selfish is if she did not even try to stop Savita and did not even think about her aaji and Baba getting hurt even once,which is not the case,she tired but could not win over her aaji and she was thinking throughout what might happen even in airport .There is that suttle difference according to me.

She is a 20 year old love stuck girl who tried whatever she could but just could not stop her Aaji.Between Savita vs Ovi , Ovi has basically has no chance ,when her parents have not won against Savita what can Ovi do ,she will naturally agree but she was all the way thinking about her Aaji and her Baba confrontration which means she was helpless but not selfish.Her daughter side wanted to avoid the mess but her love for Arjun over took it.For me Ovi was wrong but not selfish.
If Ovi can be stated Selfish then there are various incidents that could show others inlcuding Arjun to be Selfish. I see all three Ovi,Arjun and Purvi have done their part of being wrong in various incidents where circumstances have shown them to be selfish but in real they were just wrong.Life is a experience and they will learn as they go by. So putting the blame on Ovi being selfish is bit unfair according to me.

I will take "wrong" in place of selfish then😉 Let us agree to disagree :)
I am totally with you on Arjun being selfish as well. He is, no doubt about it. Being selfish though does not make any of them necessarily bad, Ovi, Teju or Arjun except perhaps, Sachin.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@soapwatcher 1 yup agree to disagree 😉 by the way you call me Jai 😉

And lets hope everything works out for Ovi,Arjun n Purvi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What saddens me is Arjun knows the fact that Manav-Archana are couple..Purvi is Archana's adopted daughter..So Ovi-Purvi are children of two parents...Purvi is not aware of OVi but Arjun does...He should know by loving Purvi what will happen to Ovi and two families..
He will be creating a huge mess...Someone will get hurt no matter what...Sad turn of events upcoming..
SW1 Ovi has worried abt Manav too..She wants to surprise Arjun..If Arjun is not worried about bigger mess than what Ovi is doing is much minor..
Butting up girl against her adopted sister a huge problem...Hurtful to all..It happens and is possible but messy situation...I am sure even DK will have something to say to his son..😳
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Archana is not a lawyer and Sachin is a professional lawyer who is supporting forged documents ...No excuse for this ... That boy deserves to loose his liscense ...

I know Archana supported bigamy when her husband got engaged in front of her but she paid a heavy price for this ...
Now sachin's turn to pay the price ...he should loose his liscense , he doesn't deserves to be a lawyer.

Tanya, Agreed 200%. I don't know when Sachin will pay the price. Savita never did, and now Punni is also getting away with her evilness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Main thing bother me about Ovi is she knew the consequences to coming India with Savita, and she still continued with her plan. And as soapwathcher said it is not a selfless act. I agree that she is Arjun's childhood friend and deeply in love with him. But being so close to Arjun how come she failed to recognize that something is not right? When Arjun tried to tell her two times that he wants to discuss something serious about their relationship, why she could not figure out that Arjun voice did not have the love tune. Arjun don't call her, and still she is thinking that Arjun is missing her? I remembered when Purvi was engage to Vinay and Arjun called Ovi two times in a short period of time, she immediately said to Arjun, Are you missing me baby? Now Arjun is not calling her so why she thinks that Arjun is missing her? I don't mind her one sided love for Arjun but her plan to come to India with Savita, bothered me. She could not tell Manav but she even did not check with Teju about it.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ovi did not plan to come to India with Savita...
It is Savita who planned to tag along with OVI...Lets get the facts right..
Ovi not understanding Arjun and what he was trying to tell her twice? She has some info from DK that Arjun is in love with her and wants to admit...So Ovi thinks that is what Arjun wants to talk abt so she wants to go to India and surprise..
This is how I saw the show...
Big Hoopla about Savita going to India with Ovi and she is selfish but no one blames Arjun for falling for Ovi's adoptive sister...Is that not hurtful to rest of the family including Ovi? Unfair and lopsided favoritism IMHO..
Disclaimer : All my posts are not implying that Arjun does not have right to fall in love...He sure does just like Ovi has...
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

What saddens me is Arjun knows the fact that Manav-Archana are couple..Purvi is Archana's adopted daughter..So Ovi-Purvi are children of two parents...Purvi is not aware of OVi but Arjun does...He should know by loving Purvi what will happen to Ovi and two families..

He will be creating a huge mess...Someone will get hurt no matter what...Sad turn of events upcoming..
SW1 Ovi has worried abt Manav too..She wants to surprise Arjun..If Arjun is not worried about bigger mess than what Ovi is doing is much minor..
Butting up girl against her adopted sister a huge problem...Hurtful to all..It happens and is possible but messy situation...I am sure even DK will have something to say to his son..😳

@red - Ovi is Manav's daughter and so has to care more for him than Arjun.
@blue - that is not what I meant😆 not butting Ovi against Purvi but assuming both don't know the other exists or at least Ovi is just aware of Purvi as some girl Arjun is interested in, she has every right to make him see sense (from her point of view). No relationship is worth giving up without a try, if it doesn't work after all the effort, then it is time to move on.
On the aside, Archana and Manav never did that, didn't give their relationship a try, they were just ready to believe the worst of each other in spite of the fact that they are still in love.
@pink - totally in agreement with you. Arjun is the only one amongst them that knows Purvi and Ovi are sisters. Also, he is aware of the state of affairs between the two parents and if he used his sense, he would see that his chakkars will only cause more confusion and hurt within this family. But he is in love and cannot see reason; that is his excuse which we ARVI fans will gladly buy😉
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

I dont think Ovi is a selfish girl. She did think twice and very well knew that what will happen when Savita might enter India.Even in the airport she was thinking the same.The mistake from her part is her one-sided love for Arjun.It would be unfair to say that her 18 years of feelings locked in her heart is just mere infatuation.The girl too has feelings and Arjun respects that I guess.

She just cant think beyond Arjun.The poor girl all she thinks is Arjun.She is unfortunately obessed over him.For the past 18 years she knows him very well.Though the feeling was never mutual ,she always was so concerned about Arjun and hence some where down the line Arjun knew t and decided to agree for her happiness I guess.But love can just happen and it has happened to him but then there is a equal responsibility to make sure that you clear out with a person who has stood by you for the past 18 years in all ur happiness and sorrow.Its very important that Arjun plans his approach.Ovi was ready to jeopardize everything for him.She is not a devi to understand things.She is just a 20 year love stuck immature girl.Cant expect matured things from here.Moreover as even Tej indicated she is emotionally weak meaning has very weak heart.Some personality traits gets automatically induced from your parents and thats true for Ovi.She has a weak emotional heart like Archu and is a foolish and love stuck like Archu was in her young age.I would love to see Archu-Ovi bond.The poor girl will need her mother more when she comes to know the bitter truth.I think Archu will be the person who will bring Ovi out of the mess and Manav might be the person to help Purvi to follow her dreams.
When Arjun can be so obsessed over Purvi and without thinking of any thing he is going ahead and doing what his heart says ,same applies for Ovi.Ovi was wrong in taking the step to come India knowing Savita is tagging along but God had other plans ,saved her in time good for her and for all.(That drunk idiot Damo knows everything he should have done something but as usual good for nothing).
Arjun is yet to clarify details and major damaka is there for Manav and Archana .I feel bad for both the girls. Both Ovi and Purvi are going to get shock of their life.How Arjun handles the situation is going to be interesting.

Very good analysis...I agree with you. people are being too hard on Ovi just because they want to see Arjun with Purvi

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