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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well intially when I got to know that in future that Gopi will leave MM, my thoughts were that because she sees Ahem & Anitha together, she will leave MM devastated because she realises Ahem does not love her !!! But after Friday's episode, my take is that this will never be the reason she will leave MM !!!
Why ?
Because even when initially Ahem did not keep his part of being married , Gopi still kept her part, she filled her maang, she had her mangalsutra, she kept fasts for him, she was there for him when he cameback home everyday, she learnt about his likes & dislikes, she took care of his needs, she molded herself as per his liking but even then she knew he loved Anitha !!! So today Anitha back in their lives is nothing new for Gopi...she lived with this thought all thru & she will live thru this but it will not get her to leave her MM !!! When Ahem told her the truth that he can never love her & only Anitha is his love, then she had once decided that she will leave MM & asked her MIL but her MIL turned it down saying every couple has differences & you will learn to live with it !!! After winning the navratri competition, she remembered Ahem asking someone about Anitha & she felt bad'..as it tore her heart but then also she did not leave MM'is it because she loves Ahem more now than before '.no'.for her he is always been the same & her love for him has been deep from the time she had seen his photograph in the news paper !!! She just loves him...thats period !!!
Then
Is it seeing Ahem with Anitha , well seeing them on bed together should have done the trick of getting her out of MM, but instead she is standing next to Ahem supporting him in taking care of Anitha. Nothing can be worse than seeing your love, your husband in arms of another women but she has implicit trust on her husband & this will also not be the reason she will leave MM !!!
Then
Is it because she will realise Ahem loves Anitha !!! Well Anitha thinks she is married to Nilesh & Gopi is going to see Ahem taking care of Anitha as Nilesh & not as Ahem !!! So this will also not be the reason that she will leave MM !!!
Then
She also knows that Ahem respects their marriage & cares for her & wants to always see her happy ...so this will not be the reason that she will leave MM for she loves her family dearly & she believes in the sindoor which Nani had given her !!!
Then
Is it because Rashi will fill her mind with saying that Ahem jiju still loves Anitha'. She herself has seen his pain on the wedding day of Anitha so well she knows the truth anywayz though she may feel sad & will never hope for his love ever again but she will not leave MM for this reason !!!!
Then
Is it because of the past behavior of her Ahemji'.no'.Gopi forgives & forgets everything & only remembers the good & happy times !!!'..if she can do it Rashi,'.then her Ahemji is way beyond anyone'.so this is also not definitely a reason even if she remembers the past !!!
Then
The only reason she can leave MM is because she loves her Ahemji more than anyone or anything else in life !!! She will not leave MM being sad or devastated or feeling insecure or feeling she lost out on life'..she will leave happily to ensure that Ahem gets an opportunity to be with Anitha forever which her maaji had taken away from him & had her married to him instead. Yes she will feel sad, bad for leaving an wonderful family & Ahemji but it will bring happiness to her though her love was not fruitful but that her Ahemji will be finally happy with his love !!!
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This will be the reason Ahem will find it very hard to convince her of his love for her for she has not left MM with any reason of being unhappy in their relationship!!! When the 1st time Gopi left she was unhappy as she thought Ahem had finally accepted her after her support during kinjle's wedding, but after she heard the conversation between her MIL & husband she took the decision of leaving with a very heavy heart'.& when Ahem went the next day to pick her up she was very happy for she thought things were finally fine !!! But this time she will leave MM happily & it is only her decision, so Ahemji will have to fight against her to make her see the truth !!! And he will then realize how much she loves him dearly to leave him for his happiness & she still does not feel bitter about it !!!
Just my take on this topic 😊
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Vinder90 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You put it PERFECTLY, SPOT ON 👏

The only reason she can leave MM is because she loves her Ahemji more than anyone or anything else in life !!! She will not leave MM being sad or devastated or feeling insecure or feeling she lost out on life'..she will leave happily to ensure that Ahem gets an opportunity to be with Anitha forever which her maaji had taken away from him & had her married to him instead. Yes she will feel sad, bad for leaving an wonderful family & Ahemji but it will bring happiness to her though her love was not fruitful but that her Ahemji will be finally happy with his love !!!

Even i feel the same

Oh and for him realising how much Gopi loves him, I think a memory of Gopi confession during their first Holi might be coming into play lol

And the word Holi itself might trigger his own 2nd Holi SD memories
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you are right navya...the only reason gopi will leave MM will be for ahem...if she thinks he will be happy with anitha...in her mind she will think that she is giving him the one thing that she was responsible for him losing...but the way the track has been handled so far...i dont think she will leave...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Are you sure gopi is leaving ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I didn't know that it was confirmed she was leaving but I thought it started cos somebody saw a insert on a dabh segment asking the question will Gopi leave home ? But I still don't think she will at the moment she is supporting her husband which wud be the tym she shuld leave , anita only wants nilesh now gopi understands that anita heart belongs to nilesh therefore she will only find comfort in his presence gopi herself went thru a similar situation when she was in threatre she wanted the man who held her heart. She knows that anita only be back to normal if she is with nilesh cos wasn't she brought back from coma by the ahem the man she loves more than any thing . Gopi understands the human heart better than mosy and puts great value on relationships , she sees her guilt ridden husband. Who needs to put things right for anita , she also knows that nobody besides the Modis believe in her husbands innocence so she will have to work extra hard to give her husband his dignity back and anita her justice .
She is aware that her mil is worried abt abt her and ahems marriage , the modis hard earned honour has being tarnished so when everything hangs in the balance and it is clear that only she can salvaged the situation y will she leave , knowing gopi it is not in her character to abandon anybody in need let alone her loved ones.anita is now responding to gopi , has we saw her turn to gopi for reassurance so she will stay and work on mending the relationship of anita and nilesh.sns is always different so I can't see them repeating the typical wronged wife or like last tym the sacrifical wife act . Ahem will realize the value of gopi while he watches her work selflessly to restore what everybody lost by that situation inthe room and the guilt and shame of his treatment of her in the first year of their marriage will knock him to his knees that's when his repentence will come into play.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: taniks

I didn't know that it was confirmed she was leaving but I thought it started cos somebody saw a insert on a dabh segment asking the question will Gopi leave home ? But I still don't think she will at the moment she is supporting her husband which wud be the tym she shuld leave , anita only wants nilesh now gopi understands that anita heart belongs to nilesh therefore she will only find comfort in his presence gopi herself went thru a similar situation when she was in threatre she wanted the man who held her heart. She knows that anita only be back to normal if she is with nilesh cos wasn't she brought back from coma by the ahem the man she loves more than any thing . Gopi understands the human heart better than mosy and puts great value on relationships , she sees her guilt ridden husband. Who needs to put things right for anita , she also knows that nobody besides the Modis believe in her husbands innocence so she will have to work extra hard to give her husband his dignity back and anita her justice .
She is aware that her mil is worried abt abt her and ahems marriage , the modis hard earned honour has being tarnished so when everything hangs in the balance and it is clear that only she can salvaged the situation y will she leave , knowing gopi it is not in her character to abandon anybody in need let alone her loved ones.anita is now responding to gopi , has we saw her turn to gopi for reassurance so she will stay and work on mending the relationship of anita and nilesh.sns is always different so I can't see them repeating the typical wronged wife or like last tym the sacrifical wife act . Ahem will realize the value of gopi while he watches her work selflessly to restore what everybody lost by that situation inthe room and the guilt and shame of his treatment of her in the first year of their marriage will knock him to his knees that's when his repentence will come into play.

@taniks...I don't know how gopi does ...but I am married I don't think I would be that undstnding , like hope gopi is ...I love my hubby and trust him , but to see something like this with your owns eyes is too much.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent take on this subject.😊

However, I'm still not fully convinced she will leave MM, but I think if she does leave it will be because she would rather sacrifice her happiness for his and so would leave so he can be with Anita.

She will think he loves Anita and being Gopi she will not talk with him but will cry to her kanaji, pull her palu on her head, pack her bag and leave to be a servant for Urmi/Kinjal.😔

He will realize he loves her and come back to get her and there we will have our love track.❤️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont think Gopi will leave MB.I want Gopi to be strong and go to Ahem and ask him if he wants her in his life or not that will be the day Ahem will realize what is wrong
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She would leave as she cannot tolerate a second woman with ahemji... I dont think she would leave in a sacrifice mode - like letting him be happy with his ex, but rather in a non-tolerant mode...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANJ4

@taniks...I don't know how gopi does ...but I am married I don't think I would be that undstnding , like hope gopi is ...I love my hubby and trust him , but to see something like this with your owns eyes is too much.

True, blind trust is always dangerous...human mind is unpredictable in love

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