My love for chote Anandi & Jagya! - Page 2

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Infidelity and betrayal are not results of child marriage only. They can happen even in normal marriages. Actually this type of betrayal is more common in normal marriages.

Further grown up Jagya was happy for a while with his childhood bride. Nothing to do with child marriage in his case. It is only a bahana to eat outside food.

They are showing how their likes may more than likely change when the children grow up. Jogia was happy and infatuated for a month or two but then he changed over time. His preferences and likes changed because he did not have his own choice as a child that's what they're trying to show. When one is tied into such a pavitra bandhan before they can even understand the meaning of it these things are bound to happen.

sanya to phir jagya ko achanak se anandi se kyon problem hone lagi .use kyon acchanak se yeh khayal aaya ki meri shaadi jubardasti karaai gayi. jub tuk woh gauri se nahi milaa tha tub tuk use anandi se koi problem nahi thi upar se bhesh badal badal kur anandi se milne jaata tha. koi agar kisi ko saccha pyar kare aur badle mein use dokha milta hai to use succhee pyaar karne wale ko kitni takleef hoti hai tum nahi samajh saktin.jagya ne anandi ke bhavnao ke saath khela hai.use agar se kisi baat pe problem thi to anandi se discuss karta phir bhi agar problem solve nahi hoti to anandi se divorce lekar kisi bhi shaadi karta.pur jis tarah se jagya ne doosri shaadi ki hai usse main sehmat nahi hoon.

And further Jagya said so many lies about Anandi to his friends. A person who genuinely believes that child marriage is bad would have discussed with his wife first because she was also the party and innocent one at that. He would not have shouted at her, humilated her, told lies about his new love and generally behaved like a selfish brute rather than an enlightened one. His love for Gauri was rather an attraction for glamour. He also kept her in dark about Anandi for so many years.

This topic of child marriage was used by Jagya and Gauri to cover up their dark deeds of deceit and selfishness.

aur waise bhi jagya ko child marriage se kya takleef thi accha khaasa bana banaya khana milta tha cricket khelta tha dadisa use paise deti thin.ghar mein usse ek kaam nahi karwaya jaata tha.maje se aish karta tha aur upar se usko doctory padhne ke liye bheja gaya.mujhe nahi lagta ki child marriage ka kuprabhav jagya pur pada ho.aur jub bhi child marriage log girl ki taraf jyaada emotional hote hain kyon woh ladki apna sub kuchh chod ke sasural mein aati hai phir unse chhoti umr mein kaam karaya jaata hai unhe padhne nahi diya jaata unhe khelne nahi diya jaata unki marji dabaa di jaati hai.ladkon ki taraf kaun emotional hota hai agar unki child marriage ho bhi gayi child marriage hone bavjood bhi ladke maje karten hain

jee nahi extra marital affair hur jagah nahi hota .mera papa dada nana maama chhacha tau mausa yahaan tuk ki jis jis shehar mein rahi hoon wahaan ke padosi ka bhi kisi ka bhi extra martial affair nahi chala.mere nana aur dada ne doosri shaadi ki thi pur pehli biwi ke death ke baad .extra marital affair hota hai pur sub jagah nahi.aap do chaar logon ko dekh kur yeh nahi keh sakte ki marital affair hur jagah hote hain

maine kaha na extra marital affair hote hain pur hur jagah nahi .pur tumne do chaar ko dekh kur keh diya ki extra marital affair hur jagah hote hain.kyon kya tum poori duniya ke ek ek person se personaly mil kar aa rahe ho jo tum itne confident ho ke keh rahe ho ki extra marital affair hur jagah hote hain.aur waise bhi koi bhi baat chhupti nahi hur chheej samne aa jaati hai

I agree with surabhi i hav never seen or heard of ema in my family i do hear some examples tht so n so had ema n got married agaib but those r very rare examples in actual life ema is not so common besides i dont understand how do people get time for ema with such busy lifes its difficult to manage one family pata nahi log dooseri family kaha se basa lete hain
i have never seen or heard of ema in my office also.i feel ema is only possible if u have too much free time and money [:P] [;)]

Originally posted by: TabassumR

Well there was a novelty when they were kids and now as grownups it is like other shows with complicated love stories :) Even though both of it showed things that were just wrong. Young BV: child marriage, so wrong. Old BV: remarrying without divorce, again wrong.

But I feel other than the leads, the other characters too have changed. And I liked most of them in the young BV days better. For eg, I do feel that the dadisa character, who was evil when BV had the youngsters, was my favourite. She is great in her nicer avatar, but she was excellent when she used to terrify the young Anandi. But then everyone has to grow up!!