Vidhi's behavior

I was thinking why Vidhi's behaves the way she does and something in the Kheer episode stuck me as strange. gay arti asks Vidhi's to go sit by Pankaj Vidhi's moved towards him hesitates and moves back to stand next to Gayatri at that time Gayatri and her husband exchange glances of triumph is it possible that they have instilled in her that she cannot show any outward display of emotion towards her husband the Schindia rule and they have brainwashed her so much that she unconsciously follows it both in public and private. Another reason I thought that was the way Suraj Schindia tells Gayatri to train Nayi Arita just like she trained Vidhi. The Cv are probably going that route so when cute scenes are created for arya because of the kids Gayatri may not like the intimacy. Maybe that was one of the bone of contention they had with the Arpita too that Yash was too smitten by her. Any comments are welcome