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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its so bad :/ Its sick what goes around in this world..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Omg that's so sad these thngs r incrsng day by day i hope gumrah helps teenagers in realizng the consequences of such mistakes
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Posted: 13 years ago
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shit i am 16 too never thought of dng such things it not d time we r just 16 world is much diff dan we think wat it is at dis age i wish all teenagers watch dis nd stop being crazy nd stupid dey r really acting dumb
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Posted: 13 years ago
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see.. I am not against those kiddos sleeping with each other, I didn't but that doesn't mean they shouldn't also.. but while sleeping with someone or losing their virginity, they should realise and know what they actually are doing and if they really really trust the person. and arpit and anjali case was stupid.. the girl was old enough to understand that she shouldn't let him make any video of them. I don't think I would even want my husband to film us in such intimate situation..just because you never know and there is no use of doing something like that?.. westernization? well girls in india used to have kids at the age of 13 or 14 in former days. what I think the main problem is, that kids in india need mroe clarification, they have to be taught all the stuff and they need to know about birth control, you can't stop someone from sleeping having intercourse but you can teach them how to avoid having diseases at least. but people in india see it differently, they think teaching them about it will make them have it. no offense but that is what I have seen till now.. and learnt from my cousins
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The societies very corrupted these days teen's end up doin alot of things unknowingly...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i really don't know what to say.. simply i am sick of hearing the same news again and again.. only the names change.. don't they learn from others mistake? parents should be able to tell their children about what's good and what's not! today's generation knows no self control.. i mean who is stupid enough to do things like letting someone take videos of their intimate moments? that's just too much.. i know i sound harsh but even after knowing what may happen who puts themselves to that situation?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysticlover

i really don't know what to say.. simply i am sick of hearing the same news again and again.. only the names change.. don't they learn from others mistake? parents should be able to tell their children about what's good and what's not! today's generation knows no self control.. i mean who is stupid enough to do things like letting someone take videos of their intimate moments? that's just too much.. i know i sound harsh but even after knowing what may happen who puts themselves to that situation?

ditto ditto and ditto archu. how and why do they agree to these kind of things.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't think it's right to blame it on westernisation. i was brought up in India and then shifted to Australia as a teenager. So I have seen both the sides of the world.

I'll be honest, I think my friends in India are more wild compared to my friends in Australia. I have no idea why that's the case. Maybe it's the media in India that encourages teenagers to be wild, without properly educating them of the consequences. In Australia, from year 7 or even before that, people start educating you about safe sex, drugs, harmful effects of everything. And most importantly, to say "no" when you are uncomfortable. And this education continues on till Year 12, with them reinforcing everything that they teach you, so it stays with you for life.

For some reason "sex" is treated sort of a taboo in families, or not talked about freely. I was never educated about it from my parents, and actually found out about it from friends, or the sex-ed I got later when I shifted to Australia. I think if parents played a role in teaching the kids about safe sex practice and other things, it could make a lot of difference in the way people have an understanding of it.

E.g. Driving rashly. In Australia we had so many official people who used to come and educate us about drink+driving, or speeding and the dangerous consequences. I think the fact that I was reminded of what could happen if I did something stupid on the road has what's made me a more cautious and safe driver. Obviously this doesn't hold true for everyone, since you will always find idiots on the road driving rashly. But at least you are educated, and so the next time you think about speeding, or drink+driving, you will think twice about the dangerous, deadly consequences.

Coming to this mms scandal, I think it's a lesson to all girls in this entire world. No matter how much you trust the guy or are in love with him. Never EVER give him any intimate photos or let him record you. You never know where such things can end up!
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