What a pain!!!

What a pain. I can't watch Ananti's tear. Gouri damage both jag, Ananti's life. Good people affected always by others. I don't like the divorce. In our culture, not easy to accept divorce. Why Ananti move to another life? Jagatise must realize his mistake. He must cut the wrong relationship with Gouri. Then only Gouri can realize the Ananti pain. Ananti can't accept another man in her life easily. Because she loves him from childhood. Why Gouri will try another guy? Already she had married a married man. It's very easy for Gouri . Gouri please try another selfish man. Otherwise, it provides wrong message to youngsters. 🤔

Good people?? Jagath shouldn't be included with "good people'" if it wasn't gauri it would have been some other girl. Men or women from a very young age are taught a limit not to cross after marriage espeacially in our culture. Anandhi was the only innocent and good person out of the three. I am so glad they are breaking off, let's just pray Jagath doesn't squirm his way back in her life some how.

Originally posted by: madhusidh

What a pain. I can't watch Ananti's tear. Gouri damage both jag, Ananti's life. Good people affected always by others. I don't like the divorce. In our culture, not easy to accept divorce. Why Ananti move to another life? Jagatise must realize his mistake. He must cut the wrong relationship with Gouri. Then only Gouri can realize the Ananti pain. Ananti can't accept another man in her life easily. Because she loves him from childhood. Why Gouri will try another guy? Already she had married a married man. It's very easy for Gouri . Gouri please try another selfish man. Otherwise, it provides wrong message to youngsters. 🤔

Agree with u .

it is better to cut such part rather infection spreads dadisa truly knows pain of anandi luv her she is bone of show but very hearty one

Originally posted by: madhusidh

What a pain. I can't watch Ananti's tear. Gouri damage both jag, Ananti's life. Good people affected always by others. I don't like the divorce. In our culture, not easy to accept divorce. Why Ananti move to another life? Jagatise must realize his mistake. He must cut the wrong relationship with Gouri. Then only Gouri can realize the Ananti pain. Ananti can't accept another man in her life easily. Because she loves him from childhood. Why Gouri will try another guy? Already she had married a married man. It's very easy for Gouri . Gouri please try another selfish man. Otherwise, it provides wrong message to youngsters. 🤔

When did this story become about Anandi vs Gauri? Jagya is not a prize they are competing for, he is a full-grown man who chose to cheat on his wife. So you think a good message to youngsters would be to tell them to accept a man who has cheated and lied to his wife? Both Jagya and Gauri need to repent, and they will, but Anandi needs to move on. Why should she hang on to a man who neither respects her nor loves her?

i understand that its not easy for A to accept someone else. when someone is dumped or cheated on, that person always have a hard time to accept and recover from. but i have a few questions. just bc A loves him so much, should she really be waiting for him? is that fair to her? that J can leave her any time and come back any time? and lets say, she does stay, and J and A get back together. will A ever be able to trust J. would you if you were in her place?

Gauri knows what its like to be Anandi already. She faced it her entire childhood. However unlike Anandi she is very emotionally weak.

I agree that Jagya is the one who did all that and Gauri was not at fault. But after marriage, the way Gauri bashed Anandi just because she was there makes Gauri at fault too.

Good point...Gauri will always be happy with second hand maal...so no problem leaving Jagat...she can always get some married fellow...she likes experienced (bhola bhala!?) guys...

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Gauri knows what its like to be Anandi already. She faced it her entire childhood. However unlike Anandi she is very emotionally weak.

childhood trauma is not equal to the trauma what anandi is facing now. Gawari never knew what it feels like. Does the little girls know what it is to when the husband cheats and sleep with some other and get her preggo ?. No. How would that trauma relate with the trauma anandi is going through????

gawari was into studies and was busy casing her dream with bade papa help. She was just scared about the whole fiasco. Her own parents made it worst for her by keeping the nightmare alive.She choose to act like victim. She came out of the victim shade when she became what she dreamed to be and has her choice of life.

By the way, how many memories do you have from your 6th or 5th class. Everyone has their own set of traumas in life, but they do forget it with time and get along with the flow. I know a friend of mine was molested as a child but that didn't stop her or made her insecure. She never acts like a victim. She did let it go and is happy with her life now. She never sits down and cribs. How bad is child marriage compared to child molesting case???. It all depends on how we change with our learning, not only academically but also environmentally. In gawari's case she reached a city, became a doctor but her mindset is still worst than that of the illiterate arrogant woman