Originally posted by: aerowana
My neighbour has adopted a girl when she was 3-4 months old inspite of having a boy child... She is 3 years old and i see no difference in treatment of both her kids... the older kid is in 6th std right now and loves her sister and am sure right now the girl doesnt know that she is adopted .. Husband wife are architect and both work ... But i see both taking care of the girl... Morning , the wife goes to her university as she is a professsor there, so husband takes care of the kid in the morning and takes her to office by 11pm.. the wife joins him in office by noon and she gets the girl home at 6pm in eve.. By that time the boy , who has gone to school also returns.. Husband comes home by 8.30pm...
And to add to all this, she as my thesis guide has done a lot for me... I cant beleive her , she is such a wonderful person .. i was running short of funds and has stopped taking help from my parents... i worked in between and simultaneously use to do my thesis, but than it was taking too much time, so she gave me a flat , where adjacent to her (Its of her mother and they are in US now) and i full time work on my thesis... uff, i just wish, i can be in future be somewhat like her..
Doods, you should go ahead with the idea of adopting a kid if you are financially stable... Or if you cant do that , than just help someone with the educations... You will achieve lots of happiness by doing so... take care...
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