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Dear Purethought,
I agree completely with everything you have said. Also, it was clever of you to have predicted so closely the way things would turn out yesterday.
Purvi is not just hard-hearted (i do not know how anyone could not be moved by the expression on Arjun's face when he stands at her doorstep), but she is inconsistent and self-centred.Plus she seems to have NO judgement of people at all, if she can forget all that Arjun did to look after her, boost her morale and be protective of her all these days, never making the slightest move that could be interpreted as improper, and she can now level such ugly and crude accusations at him. It was very cheap and makes one think poorly of her upbringing and the famous sanskar about which her family never tires of boasting.
I cannot understand all this attributing her awful behaviour to her 'middle class" values. NO sensible girl, middle class or not, would support her boss by putting her arm round him and his round her shoulders, and escort him to his flat late at night just because he had a twisted ankle. Or smile continuously at him while dancing in a gypsy costume, and then insist on being photographed standing close to him. Any man with less of a sense of honour than Arjun would have interpreted such behaviour only one way!
And now, after having no problems with hugging him and crying all over him, she suddenly starts behaving like the Hindi film heroines of the 1960s and 70s, with their pet phrases like "luchche lafange" and the like. All this time she had no qualms about any degree of closeness with him, and now suddenly she talks as though he was a serial molester. And that too without giving him the least opportunity explain himself.
What then is the difference between her and Vinay? Vinay thought ugly things about her and Arjun without any reason, and now she thinks and says ugly things about and to Arjun without any sense of proportion: she resented the first acutely, but she does not think anything of behaving in exactly the same way herself.
You are quite right, she does not deserve Arjun at all, but then the story being what it is, she will get him in the end, deserving or not. In any such relationship, there is one who loves and one who is loved, and it is quite clear here that Purvi will decidedly be the latter!
As for poor Arjun, what he desperately needs is a break from this girl. But I do not think he will feel the same way,and if he still insists on making a cake of himself and apologising endlessly for something he never intended, and still hankers after a patch-up, it would be best if he approached Archana. Manav is ruled out for obvious reasons, and DK must have gone back to Canada and in any case he would have no influence with Purvi.
And no, I do not see how the Teju accident is going to help resolve the Arjun-Purvi issue.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
I agree completely with everything you have said. Also, it was clever of you to have predicted so closely the way things would turn out yesterday.
Purvi is not just hard-hearted (i do not know how anyone could not be moved by the expression on Arjun's face when he stands at her doorstep), but she is inconsistent and self-centred.Plus she seems to have NO judgement of people at all, if she can forget all that Arjun did to look after her, boost her morale and be protective of her all these days, never making the slightest move that could be interpreted as improper, and she can now level such ugly and crude accusations at him. It was very cheap and makes one think poorly of her upbringing and the famous sanskar about which her family never tires of boasting.
I cannot understand all this attributing her awful behaviour to her 'middle class" values. NO sensible girl, middle class or not, would support her boss by putting her arm round him and his round her shoulders, and escort him to his flat late at night just because he had a twisted ankle. Or smile continuously at him while dancing in a gypsy costume, and then insist on being photographed standing close to him. Any man with less of a sense of honour than Arjun would have interpreted such behaviour only one way!
And now, after having no problems with hugging him and crying all over him, she suddenly starts behaving like the Hindi film heroines of the 1960s and 70s, with their pet phrases like "luchche lafange" and the like. All this time she had no qualms about any degree of closeness with him, and now suddenly she talks as though he was a serial molester. And that too without giving him the least opportunity explain himself.
What then is the difference between her and Vinay? Vinay thought ugly things about her and Arjun without any reason, and now she thinks and says ugly things about and to Arjun without any sense of proportion: she resented the first acutely, but she does not think anything of behaving in exactly the same way herself.
You are quite right, she does not deserve Arjun at all, but then the story being what it is, she will get him in the end, deserving or not. In any such relationship, there is one who loves and one who is loved, and it is quite clear here that Purvi will decidedly be the latter!
As for poor Arjun, what he desperately needs is a break from this girl. But I do not think he will feel the same way,and if he still insists on making a cake of himself and apologising endlessly for something he never intended, and still hankers after a patch-up, it would be best if he approached Archana. Manav is ruled out for obvious reasons, and DK must have gone back to Canada and in any case he would have no influence with Purvi.
And no, I do not see how the Teju accident is going to help resolve the Arjun-Purvi issue.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
Originally posted by: purethought
As per what I have seen today. My prediction for Purvi was right, she won't melt.
Thumbs down to Purvi, all the way
- For illtreating Arjun
- For thinking bad things about him
- For asking him to leave her house
- For resigning
-For telling him she feels unsafe with him
- For being extremely rude to him😡😡
I love you Purvi, but I had more expectations from you. I thought your behaviour was despicable today. Do you really deserve Arjun's love? after all this? Do you wanna go back to Vinay and marry him, you feel safe with him?? 😡100 cheers to Arjun😳😊
For calling up Ovi and telling her he loves someone else. Although she did not hear him-For trying to patch up with Purvi
-For not loosing his cool when Purvi went ad nauseum accusing him.
Please bring ARVI together. Don't separate them under such pathetic circumstances. 😡
Anupamaa
