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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: riddhima-

i think we should not compare indira n rishi family...there is a vast difference between these two families.indira family is only greedy ,it does not mean that they r bad,they love her,remember when indira was missing her mom was praying for her,her family goes to the police station...
while rishi family is totally different,her father throws all his colours paintings,bechare ka hath bhandh diya ,his mom only believes sam just becoj he is doing all that things which they want...she never loves rishi becoj if she loves him then rishi never said"kash aapne apna beta samjha hota"


just becoj he did not take side of rapist , he becomes bad son for his family.we r questioning ki vo pyar karta hai ki nhi family se...common his brother is a rapist...he is a monster..
after that track we hve to discuss abt rishi selflessness but we r questioning abt his family love.its very sad.
everyone loves his family,chahe acchi ho ya buri but family ke liye bhi galat ka sath na dena bahut badi bat hai...watch his eyes carefully,there was the pain...


kaunsi selflessness...he become a lawyer out of herogiri...even indira dint wanted that...and he fought the case himself ...with his choice and he was never connected to his family that's why he remarked his mother like that...he has not sacrificed his love for family...because he never took them like family...and by winning this case...he has just got got...and got and lost nothing ...we all very well knew he did all this for indira...not for mandira...not for justice ...his attention / focus all was indira ...and he knew after this...their relationship will be fine...and he got that...than just tell me how and in what way he is selfless ...
and waise you got a misunderstanding...i am not comparing the two families...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i too thought in the similar way. I wish he should go to give his bell to his mother. and asked inder sharma not to file against his mother .initialy the relation between two brothers were healthy and suddendly sameer became villian . remeber, how he handles ricky's photo in D house. so lovingly.
his habit of cleanlyness was superb. sameer with handkercheif. this habit died afterward.
I too do not like the rape track but I like character of hitler didi and rati and sumit sandeep radhe so i contue to was as this is the only serial i am following. its different

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Showing the dream sequence right after such a serious issue was naturally wrong...on part of the makers that is! but guess they felt the need for some happiness after many months of constant tension...n more tensions which they have naturally planned for us in the future😆

the rest of this post is based on the assumption that rishi is still in SN & it isnt indiras dream! i will w8 for the episode on monday /tuesday before commenting on that part.

y rishi became lawyer...even indu didnt want it. usko herogiri dikhani thi😲😲 then he cud have done it in the first place! wen she wasnt getting any lawyer he cud have become the hero & said i will fight for mandira...but he did the right thing & took her to Rani. wen Rani backed out at the last moment he stepped in to save the day. n if indu has so much problem accepting help from rishi, she could have gone ahead & found another lawyer. she does believe in changing things which she doesnt like after all. u can change ur lawyer even in the middle of a case. what better way to once more show rishi his correct place in her life? wonder y she didnt do dat? lack of money? trust in rishi? lack of time? donno!

Sameer: whats wrong in calling an axe an axe? he is a monster. abt y he hugged him n all...dey were meeting after 2/8 yrs...n dats how guys usually meet. n being his bro he mite have also hoped that sam may have improved! y he didnt ask his bro...'did u do it'...bcoz that very same day rishi had foiled sams plan of kidnapping indira. sam did wish to marry indira i know...but then wudnt it have been the same for indira as for mandira as well? marital rapes arent uncommon...n just bcoz sam took saat pheras wid indu...dat too jabardasti...she wasnt going to be a willing wife! so wid such an incident behind him he wasnt going to sit & think...'mere bhai ne aisa kyun kiya? mera bhai aisa kar sakta hai kya?'

Mother: is dat lady even a mother? from day 1 she has blindly sided wid sam & supported him in all his dirty deeds. if sam is responsible simi is his constant support & hence equally responsible. n y does the need arise for rishi to say 'wat sam did was wrong & hence i had to have him punished!' as a woman she shud have said this & supported rishi! she is the same 'mother' who asked him to allow his brother to have a one nite stand wid his gf in CC, the same woman told him to his face that she was happy wen he was in US & had taken up drinking becoz he was back. Rishi is a realist & not misguided by emotions. its good if the brain thinks & the heart feels, mix this up & u end up confused! he feels pain wen his mother insults him, his love...but never once does he cross his limits. in the court wat he said was nothing wrong. if a mother cursing her own son is rite, a son replying back in the same tone is correct as well...especially wen he is correct!

Diwan Family
: it wud b wrong to say he didnt care for them. he did tell his mother well in advance that this time he will support indira & wont care of the consequences. he had made his intentions clear. abt him living off the diwan family money...nothing to this effect has been ever said in the serial. we know nothing of what he did in the US. so wont comment on it till its shown in the serial & neither will i assume things which support/ criticize rishi. i will just wait.

Indira: is it indiras fault that she didnt thank him? yes! he may or may not care for his family. dats his lookout but dat doesnt mean she starts assuming that it was easy for him to go against his own blood.n all dis is assuming rishi is really day dreaming wid indira. if its indiras dream alone...& rishi has gone off someplace to lick his wounds (for sending his mother & bro to jail) in private, well, then a different set of questions shud be asked to indira rt? the first & foremost being was it the time to dream wen ur love/ ur partner has just put his family behind the bars. dont go & support him. but then supportive silence & just being there r the best ways of showing 'i care & i understand' like rishi did wen munna tried to sell her for 5cr.

but again we shud w8 for the episode before coming to any conclusions on who is right & who is wrong, who is dreaming & who is not.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: iolahardy

Showing the dream sequence right after such a serious issue was naturally wrong...on part of the makers that is! but guess they felt the need for some happiness after many months of constant tension...n more tensions which they have naturally planned for us in the future😆

the rest of this post is based on the assumption that rishi is still in SN & it isnt indiras dream! i will w8 for the episode on monday /tuesday before commenting on that part.

y rishi became lawyer...even indu didnt want it. usko herogiri dikhani thi😲😲 then he cud have done it in the first place! wen she wasnt getting any lawyer he cud have become the hero & said i will fight for mandira...but he did the right thing & took her to Rani. wen Rani backed out at the last moment he stepped in to save the day. n if indu has so much problem accepting help from rishi, she could have gone ahead & found another lawyer. she does believe in changing things which she doesnt like after all. u can change ur lawyer even in the middle of a case. what better way to once more show rishi his correct place in her life? wonder y she didnt do dat? lack of money? trust in rishi? lack of time? donno!

Sameer: whats wrong in calling an axe an axe? he is a monster. abt y he hugged him n all...dey were meeting after 2/8 yrs...n dats how guys usually meet. n being his bro he mite have also hoped that sam may have improved! y he didnt ask his bro...'did u do it'...bcoz that very same day rishi had foiled sams plan of kidnapping indira. sam did wish to marry indira i know...but then wudnt it have been the same for indira as for mandira as well? marital rapes arent uncommon...n just bcoz sam took saat pheras wid indu...dat too jabardasti...she wasnt going to be a willing wife! so wid such an incident behind him he wasnt going to sit & think...'mere bhai ne aisa kyun kiya? mera bhai aisa kar sakta hai kya?'

Mother: is dat lady even a mother? from day 1 she has blindly sided wid sam & supported him in all his dirty deeds. if sam is responsible simi is his constant support & hence equally responsible. n y does the need arise for rishi to say 'wat sam did was wrong & hence i had to have him punished!' as a woman she shud have said this & supported rishi! she is the same 'mother' who asked him to allow his brother to have a one nite stand wid his gf in CC, the same woman told him to his face that she was happy wen he was in US & had taken up drinking becoz he was back. Rishi is a realist & not misguided by emotions. its good if the brain thinks & the heart feels, mix this up & u end up confused! he feels pain wen his mother insults him, his love...but never once does he cross his limits. in the court wat he said was nothing wrong. if a mother cursing her own son is rite, a son replying back in the same tone is correct as well...especially wen he is correct!

Diwan Family
: it wud b wrong to say he didnt care for them. he did tell his mother well in advance that this time he will support indira & wont care of the consequences. he had made his intentions clear. abt him living off the diwan family money...nothing to this effect has been ever said in the serial. we know nothing of what he did in the US. so wont comment on it till its shown in the serial & neither will i assume things which support/ criticize rishi. i will just wait.

Indira: is it indiras fault that she didnt thank him? yes! he may or may not care for his family. dats his lookout but dat doesnt mean she starts assuming that it was easy for him to go against his own blood.n all dis is assuming rishi is really day dreaming wid indira. if its indiras dream alone...& rishi has gone off someplace to lick his wounds (for sending his mother & bro to jail) in private, well, then a different set of questions shud be asked to indira rt? the first & foremost being was it the time to dream wen ur love/ ur partner has just put his family behind the bars. dont go & support him. but then supportive silence & just being there r the best ways of showing 'i care & i understand' like rishi did wen munna tried to sell her for 5cr.

but again we shud w8 for the episode before coming to any conclusions on who is right & who is wrong, who is dreaming & who is not.

i agree thoda wait karwa lete future ko...kya jaata ???😆
about indira...
assume nahi...aakhon se dekha hain...ki apni maa ko usne kaise jawap diya...even sangeet mein he dint wanter her...remember...and is poore case mein usne ek baar yeh nahi kaha ki sameer aisa kaise kar sakta and stuffs ek normal family member kehta...atleast apni family ke paas ek baar jaakar to jawap jaroor maangta...
and about dream being indira's...woh meri indira hain...aise situation mein aise dream...bhool jao...kabhi nahi...and humaisa ek sequence pehle bhi dekh chuke hain...just before confession...and that was reality...and indira court mein itni guilty thi ki woh ek minute sab kuch bhool kar yeh nahi dekh sakti...itna toh main jaanti hoon. indira ko...and waise just assumption ke basis ke indira ko blame karna sahi hain ?????,...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry but Rishi's mom and Sam are joke in the name of family.Where was Sam's so called love when he beat up Rishi on the day of marriage? The way he was beating him, Rishi could have been killed.
And his mom, it wasnt his fault that she suffered in all this. His fight was against the rapist not against his mom.
And inspite of saying all this , I still maintain that he feels for his family. He may not voice it out in the open , he masks it very well. If only someone cared enough to unmask the real Ricky Diwan who is very carefully hidden under the carefree Rishi Kumar. Sadly there is none.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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And he didnt go to his family for confirmation because he is fully aware of his mahaan bhai's talents🤢. If he can paralyse Vidit and ruin his entire life(its another part that he miraculously recovered), then what's rape for him?😛
Who knows how many lives Sameer has ruined before Mandira?🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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only 1 point i want make here.

now for rishi --indira is only his parivaar.
he going to take care of her only --no one else.

sameer and simi truly did bad things to indira and mandira.


this only shows his unquestionable love towards indira.

sameer or simi--he will teach them lesson if indira gets hurt.

thats all.


Edited by 100raj - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Everyone has got some good analysis going on... but you know, its a case of wait and watch. Somehow, I have the feeling that Rishi will be going away (maybe dealing with the Diwan issue finally) and giving Indira some time to really absorb what has happen and to get back to some sense of normalcy. Rishi senses that Indira is perhaps not ready to take that next step together and that by allowing Indira some space to gather her thoughts, feelings, she will come to realize her true feelings for him without any fear or hesistation .
But, hey, who knows, tomorrow could prove us all wrong :)
It's a heartbreaker to think this because I really like to see Inshi, but like some are saying "how will the story continue if they marry now?"...i don't have any answers, just guesses and hopes...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ill say one thing, a mother who can support her son who is proven to have raped a girl doesnt deserve respect...and thats topping every other un-motherly thing she has done...and also she encouraged sameer in his psychotic rampage saying that "uski zidd poori karlo" or whatever...such a woman deserves no respect

and about the matter of supporting sameer, its his own fault that rishi never supported him one bit...he already proved himself to have a horrendous image, like putting a camera in indira's room and making vidit's condition worse

i find it funny that just because sameer is now proven to be bad, people go out and search for every little wrong thing in rishi...it just doesnt make sense to me...rishi has his own bad things he has done and at the time, i thought he should never be forgiven...but i guess his repentance for all these years and his good intentions absolves him to a great degree

and let me note one thing, providing for someone financially doesnt make you a family...being a family is much more than that...and i would hope that at least after watching indira's side of the story people would have known that...if she just provided money and went on that rant about being the bread earner for the family, she would've just been "hitler"...but she became "didi" because she genuinely, emotionally cares for her family too!
Edited by sumonetolub - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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../.I am great Rishi Fan , but this behaviour of him (complete apathy) even for his mother , is really beyond my comprehension. At least for a moment he could have felt sad.

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