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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MadihaH8

I find this EXTREMELY offensive- "She does not have that class to be in RM, she would be perfect to be the wife of some panipuri wale, or chana bechnewale and live in a "chawl"."


This is basically saying that people with low income or "small" jobs only deserve to marry girls with "no class" and not someone with a good education and from a wealthy family.

I come from a pretty well off family and attend uni, and would have absolutely no problem marrying a a "panipuri wala or chana bechnewala" or someone who lives in a "chawl"(not that you get them in the UK!).An honest days work is an honest days work whether you are a doctor or a doorman right?

Everyone work honestly but somehow in the subcontinent you do not find doctors marrying doormen . Life is not utopia.
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Posted: 14 years ago
What's with the negativity people! Let's all just enjoy the show. However, I do find you post a little insensitive. Arnav decided to marry Khushi, and she is living in RM as a consequence of that! It has nothing to do with deserving or non-deserving.

Arnav wasn't rich. He became rich through hard work and we have seen the and know that. His wealth does not necessarily mean he is 'high class' and Khushi's wealth does not mean she is 'low class'.

The distinction here is of personalities, not class. Khushi has a specific type of personality, and let's not forget, she' 18 years old!! She's still a bachi herself and married to such a difficult man!

Other than this, I don't know what to say. I will remain loyal to the show because I know it has potential and I bloody well enjoy it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
This is more for reinforcement purposes but education has little importance here.

Lack of education was NOT the reason behind Khushi interrupting Arnav's presentation likewise over-education or ASR being well-educated didn NOT prevent Arnav from blackmailing Khushi into marriage WITHOUT learning all the facts etc ... one does not become undeserving of another just because they don't have MBA, LLB and LLM on their CVS ... so I don't see the point being made in this topic at all.😊
Edited by Rabba-Ve-Delena - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Everyone work honestly but somehow in the subcontinent you do not find doctors marrying doormen . Life is not utopia.


Firstly, not everyone works honestly.Someone selling drugs isnt making an honest living are they?The subcontinent seems to have issues it needs to sort out then...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I think I uttered such words long time back ( in December precisely ) and had gone through bashing and thrashing of all Khushi fans .

But it seems I have been right from the begining comparing videsi chick with desi murgh 😆
Khushi has been made so insensitive that she doesnt bother to dishonour Anjalis words too, She does not know what respecting people actually means . For her most important thing is whether Arnav declares his love for her . Nothing else matters to her . Where her business in concerned she declares ASR as her husband and uses his status but does not have any respect for him or his business.
Wow. AND ASR HAS? IT'S BCAUSE SHE IS A DESI CHICK HE HAD THE GALL TO THROW HER TO THE POOLSIDE. REVEAL HER FOOTAGE TO ENTIRE LUCKNOW. WHAT HISBAND. HE WHO CAN'T EVEN GIVE HER A ROOF ABOVE HER HEAD?
Khushi fans will say - Arnav tortured and tormented her so he deserves to be disrespected . Fine - I agree, but then why use his name while doing business deals herself . It just shows how sly and mean they have made her character .
SHE CANNOT EVEN MATCH ASR IN MEANNESS. SO KHUSHI FANS DON'T HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING. FOR THAT MATTER THIS DESI CHICK CAN'T EVEN MATCH THE CLASSY SOPHISTICATED LA IN MEANNESS
Okay , ASR sent her out to sleep but also threw the blanket on her. khushi sleeps on bed comfortably and Arnav sleeps on couch and Khushi never gets the urge to put a blanket on him . That is how unconcerned she is about Arnavs well-being .
WOW. HAS ANYONE IN THIS FORUM BEEN SUBJECTED TO THIS. TOMORROW IF SOME MAN TREATS OUR DAUGHTERS OR SISTERS THIS WAY WILL YOU STILL SAY HE IS CONCERNED ABOUT HER
For her love means telling "I love you" and nothing else .
AND FOR HIM BEING INHUMAN AND NOTHING ELSE
Khushis character has been butchered to an extent that now I doubt whether the creatives, producers , etc ( incl. Nissar , GuL and whoever) are educated or not or they even realize how mean they have made Khushi to be.
I am more upset with the production house than with the character itself
If I were given a choice , I would rather be thrown out of the window or sent to spend the night in the garden than being jilted and insulted in front of my subordinates.
SO I WOULD LOVE TO SEE ASR THROWN OUT OF THE WINDOW AND THOWN TO THE POOLSIDE. AND WHAT INSULTED IN FRONT OF SUBORDINATES. BEING INSULTES IN FRONT OF WHOLE OF LUCKNOW AND HER FAMILY AND SOCIETY IN'T ENOUGH?
STATTEMENTS LIKE THESE MAKE KHUSHI SUPPORTERS BRING OUT MORE ANGER AGAINST ASR. MOST KHUSHI LOVERS ARE ASR LOVERS TOO. BUT ASR LOVERS JUST CAN'T SEE THE MOST BASIC FAIRNESS
My comments have nothing to do with Sanaya Irani - she is a great actress with a beauty that is rare in the subcontinent . According to me she deserves a lot better than Khush's role .

Edited by rima - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
You are right the difference education could make... and yet on ASR, it didn't make one ounce of a difference, considering he probably holds a MBA degree, from so and so. A pity for khushi really..

@TM ; i cannot even begin to describe how offensive this post is, whatever notion you wrote it with didn't come through, rather a prejudice of sort came through. Education is a privilege, sadly its not allowed to many, so those who have been deprived of this gift are suddenly unfit to stand up against the rest? A shame, we claim to live in the 21st century, yet our thoughts are so closed minded.
Edited by iwilldare - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

You're being quite harsh and offensive; Members are already attacking one another here. Thread to be reviewed.

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