Well It Is Sandhya's Fault In A Way

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Avidfan

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Posted: 13 years ago

Actually Sooraj is right, Sandhya keeps making mistakes and there is a point at which it becomes unbearable.

I mean this girl is so absent minded and stupid and creates so many "jhamelas", so can she really blame any one but herself.

I mean why did she put that stupid divorce paper in her bag to begin with. Even if she had, she should have kept it carefully and destroyed it.

But no our confused, lost cow has even forgotten about it!

It is similar to all other silly things she has done which have created confusion.

If she has no presence of mind then how is she going to be able to be an IPS officer (but given the level of cleverness of our police force, she will be a rocket scientist amongst them!)

I think the real problem is the one I have always debated, Sandhya is a nerd, bookish but totally clueless about anything practical.

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apkavishwa

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Posted: 13 years ago

yes you have a point... Sooraj never misunderstood her from the begining he always said not to hide anything... even after the last outburst he dint say anything to her he evn went console her and she stoped telling dont help me... now poor guy wht to do... N this D paper again he is think she hide it from and now its beyond his control to stand with her he soul has broken with her...

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Posted: 13 years ago

hope sandhya will understand suraj soon be4 it 2 late

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RJMbi

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Posted: 13 years ago

No I dont think its her fault . I Hope Suraj will understand his Misbehaviour at sandhya is Pointless , He know shes a Trusty Wife .

I can say this D Drama is to make him realise that his Wife is completely trusting him and commited to him , He has to gain this Long Lasting Marital Life ,Confidence with her , there is a chance in Future his Family may Pollute his Mind , saying if u support her for Further Studies , U will be made to sit at her feet a Flithy substance or something like that and create Irrational Feelings between .There are many Chances of Misguidence from his Family

He has to Trust her Fully , B4 they make him Goat to deir words , He understands the real faces of his Family at that Point of time ...

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navyaalex8

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes, yes, it's always someone else's fault eh?

Everyone is responsible and has ownership of their own feelings and actions.

@Avidfan- I respect and like your style of writing but kindly be careful/ refrain from making blanket statements about the IPS etc... Being sarcastic and funny is alright but the tone of your post is a different matter...Some of us actually have loved ones who do a great job despite obstacles in this field... So tread lightly my friend...

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Minty Kapur

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Posted: 13 years ago

Easy to pick on a 19 yr old fresh outta college on not having any experience in a certain field, forget about life.

So your reasoning is that in order to get into the IPS she needs to have experience first.

Ummm then why do they train after they get in?? hmmm😕

You live, you learn...that's what I've heard.

And for Suraj, a bit of food for thought - "While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, another is busy making mistakes and becoming superior."

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Avidfan

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: navyaalex8
Yes, yes, it's always someone else's fault eh?

Everyone is responsible and has ownership of their own feelings and actions.

@Avidfan- I respect and like your style of writing but kindly be careful/ refrain from making blanket statements about the IPS etc... Being sarcastic and funny is alright but the tone of your post is a different matter...Some of us actually have loved ones who do a great job despite obstacles in this field... So tread lightly my friend...

My apologies, it was not intended to insult IPS officers! It is a general statement and should be taken in the same spirit, just as jokes are made about lawyers, teachers (I am one!), doctors and every profession on the planet.

Also, and this is does not detract from my apology, my view remains that you do not need to possess the mental prowess at the level of a rocket scientist to be a police officer. In my view average intelligence, above average integrity and immense courage are the criteria required to serve in the police force.

There was no intention to be insulting or derogatory.

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Ashwatha

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well even i feel its sandy's mistake bcoz she s never free with him... U rightly said she s kind of bookish.. Cant think anything practical... I understand tat her dream s important but she has some responsibility towards her family.. also Wen a person supports u so much u need to understand him atleast a bit.. Jus my pov.. Jo bhi ho hume to bas jaldi se jaldi ye track khatam ho jaye aur surya mil jaye

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Avidfan

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Posted: 13 years ago

Easy to pick on a 19 yr old fresh outta college on not having any experience in a certain field, forget about life.

So your reasoning is that in order to get into the IPS she needs to have experience first.

Ummm then why do they train after they get in?? hmmm😕

You live, you learn...that's what I've heard.

And for Suraj, a bit of food for thought - "While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, another is busy making mistakes and becoming superior."

She does behave older than an average 19 year old and is shown to be very bright, intelligent and problem solver.

How could she forget that she had the divorce petition in her bag and if you have just told your friend that you have decided not to even think about divorce, would you not want to find/destroy the petition.

Its not an electricity bill. Its a rather heavy thing emotionally to be carrying around.

As to IPS officer, I think that you need to have practical solutions/aptitude teste etc.

Any way, my comments were light hearted and jocular. No deep meanings.

Good comment.

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Minty Kapur

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Posted: 13 years ago

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We have our moments Avid. I know you mean well! 😊

I think I see Sandhya as trying to do the right and matured thing. I remember that when I was 17yrs of age then a lot of people used to comment on how mature I was for my age.

But I was still afterall 17. Hence, in the same vein I see a 19yr Sandhya using her parents high ideals and trying to do the right thing yet still making the silly forgetful and careless mistakes of a teen.

I do get irritated with a few of her habits...the slow mo actions at times drives me mad especially.

Still I think she needs to be given a bit of leeway as she is still learning.

All said...Your jokes and phunnies are always welcome!