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-Sush-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Second episode in a row that I liked...The biggest reason...that the maturity in Khushi's character that CVs have recently stumbled upon seems to be here to stay...Welll at least it appears that way...It seems like the CVs are finally paying attention to her character and her feelings...rather than just be the receiving person of Arnie's story and his feelings...I really welcome this development.

What continued since yesterday was that Khushi...is reacting to Arnies irrational behavior (as far as she can tell) in a way a normal woman would react to it...

It seems like accusations keep coming...He keeps telling her that he hates her but does not feel he owes her an explanation beyond that. In fact he has told her that in so many words...again and again...He assumes the worst possible explanation as far as anything that has to do with Khushi is concerned...

Surprisingly...I actually think the CVs have found some footing with the hate angle...Beyond the initial...throwing her out of the room and other drama...now they have found a grip to show hate without it appearing like an abuse or beyond decent...Unfortunately...decent people react like this in marriages that are having issues...and sometimes in marraiges that do not have any serious issues either...So, finally this is a more real portrayal of dislike and hate...

What is also real ...that a real person feels the hurt after listening to the hurtful words...and they respond accordingly...They dont maintain their enthusiasm and run around with 100 ways to bother the other person...that is too childish ...for childish issues...There is nothing childish about this issue...

In terms of story telling...What I liked is that...they actually had a scene quite siwftly about Anj telling Arnie that she was the one who had asked Khushi and Shyam to go and get the medicine for her instead of keeping that as another MU...But unfortunately...people see and think what they want to see and what they want to think...even if the truth is right there in front of their eyes...

Khushi does not want to be treated like s***. She is tired of the Jekyll and Hyde behavior of Arnie...she refuses his softness on his terms, when he wants to give it and take it away when he decides to ...wthout explanation...She wants it on better terms...

That irks Arnie more and he jumps right into the worst assumptions again...As much as he wants to sound logical...he actually is a very emotional character...whose logic follows his emotions...So as soon as Khushi refuses to be the bechari victim that he now wants to turn soft to...and walks away ...without giving him a chance to offer softness...he reacts to that with more unkind words and more bitterness...

She reacts to the unkind words by avoiding him...

The best part...to see him react to Khushis avoiding him...Waiting for the day...when she will leave him for good...If the only way he would learn is the hard way...so be it...

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-Jamba-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey Sush!

Wondered where you got to! The evening just seems incomplete without this daily pilgrimage to IF! 😆

Today's milestone 225th episode did good - but was also dedicated to welcoming the newest Prakash - who probably got the most airtime and lines after BS. Jamba learned a valuable lesson today - never attempt to predict what will happen on a soap - you're just going to end up with lather all over your face. 😛

Despite that life lesson - I liked the epi as the story progressed a bit. She gives up on him, and is finally resigned to waiting out the 6 months. I'm finally resigned to the fact that the MU will drag until the next ME - whenever that is.

1. ASR gets the cold shoulder from his wife. There's a reason women are past masters at using this weapon - there isn't a guy on the planet who won't crumble like freshly baked pie crust when faced with the power of silence. Men just haven't learned how to combat it, and they never will - one of those soft skills that only comes wrapped up with the Y chromosome.

The hurtful stuff had to be said though 😕 - ASR needs to have a store of memories to flashback to when he's going through his "regret" phase. Due to popular demand - its bound to last longer than the MU (which lasted 2 months on the strength of just one FB), so they'll need plenty of scenes for when the wailing and teeth gnashing begins.

2. Another head fake. This time, on that thread that was supposed to be the clue that broke the camel's back (and that sentence takes the prize for mangled metaphors 😛). Why throw these out if there's no follow through intended? So the viewers do precisely what they did - focus on the diversion and give the writers some breathing room.

Note to CV's - sleight of hand for magicians? Necessary tool. On a daily TV show? Not so much. 😕

3. Heer - tum kahan ho? ASR misses his wife - but the giant ego won't allow him to ask anyone as to her whereabouts. First lesson for a happy married life - all women aren't as SLAVISHLY devoted as the ever lovin' Di, and when you tell someone to get lost, they just might take you up on it.

Unfortunately, I made the mistake of reading a spoiler for an upcoming segment where KSR apparently starts screaming like a banshee when she sees ASR. Kinda diluted the intensity of today's epi. (too much time on IF today! 😡)

4. The snake goes through an elaborate charade to find the key to ASR's closet, on his quest for the mysterious file. Another fakeout like the thread, the scorpion, the hanky, and countless others? Will the file eventually turn out to contain nothing more than BS's wardobe wishlist for the CV's? 😃

5. And speaking of wardrobe - 4 changes today!! BS pretty much went through his limited collection of clothing, does this mean he's finally getting some spanking new duds?

PS: Honorable mention - the background score was PERFECT today - especially for the BS only scenes 👏 👏👏

Happy Friday all! 🥳

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--Sari--

@--Sari--

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Posted: 13 years ago

Best part of today; we traveled through time faster than we normally do👏 Goodies in the Easter basket- ASR in change of clothes 3times & a near shave Onto mission no-gel hair...The greasy mess is as bad Khushi's hair extension w/those ugly clips. Nope, I haven't taken over Jamba's wardrobe critique; she still has the job😆

Anjali eating papaya, strange! No 1^st time mother would take a chance knowing papaya could lead to a miscarriage. Yes, it is just green papaya but even so. Is she pregnant or not? The Daaga scene was the first time my prediction came true😲 Before I pat myself, predicting Anjali's move isn't rocket science! Yes, I knew Anjali would find it & dismiss it w/exactly the same excuse😆 It never meant anything or Anjali is covering for her philandering woh and maybe trying to create situations to grope her bhabhi. Anjali's motive - a serious cause of concern or is she plain stupid?😕

Khushi needs a hug after yest...🤗She is seriously hurt. She took it to heart & rightfully so. So not Khushi but understandable when someone tramples on your basic rights! Some of his anger was justified but not to that degree. To see him go soft on everyone else just made her hurt even more, why me? She wasn't hurt he loves his sis; she hurt because she saw she was on the other end of extreme

In an effort to drag this one out, she didn't reflect on their conversation, strange for someone who is so hurt. Her resolve is strengthened; she will not expect anything from this relationship. Walk away, with her head held high, with dignity👍🏼 For her own sanity, she would oblige with his every wish, leave him alone but she isn't answerable to him. She has drawn the line, she is not going to let him crush her or be a doormat. Bravo...👏

There was no reflection on the incident w/Shyam either😕 He is a real cause for concern but she doesn't seem to understand the seriousness of his advances😕 Does she have a strategy to deal w/Shyam? The Khushi we know would gather evidence and call the cops on him just like she did w/the Sethi bros as weird as that was. Yes, she is a victim here but most often it is the victims who fight their fight. Am I to conclude, Khushi fights for everybody's cause but not her own? She will take all the humiliation from Shyam to protect the R's? What about her self-respect?

Talking to anyone in the family will not achieve anything, some are spineless, some will possibly blame her & ASR could go either way.This I say because an independent ASR would sympathize w/her but as Anjali's bro, I am not so sure. I have very low expectations from a guy who goes giddy over her pregnancy giddiness...If I were Khushi I am not so sure I would trust him enough to confide in him or help me out...Remember, I am didi ki saut? Btw, I am not liking the over protective ASR they portrayed today; if Anjali turns on Khushi; God help Khushi...

He doesn't want to see her at AR CV's going on another comedy streak w/another new venture other than the KKGSR-DS? Not appealing to me🤢 Looks like more comedy to come; I am not looking forward to any more comedy unless they fired the last comic writer😆

Was this enough to go soft on ASR? Try harder dude...😳

ASR misses her. Nope, I didn't go aww...You reap what you sow...Yes, she gave you what you wanted; shanti! He didn't go looking for her on the street s this time or think she was with Shyam. So he really does trust her but when he sees them together all hell breaks loose...Understandable for any lover especially with a super possessive streak...He wouldn't let Aman talk to Khushi bhabi...🤣He is jealous of Khushi's popularity?😆😆😆

Lakshmiji's clothes now match Khushi's...🤣

They really do make a cute picture but enough talk with mutton...Give her a real friend!

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savvy05

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Posted: 13 years ago

One more good episode, what a nice way to end a good week in IPK. @Jamba your musings for episode 225 were spot on and the CV's did good.

Arnav had a precursor as to what his road to redemption will look like. Now add this + (guilt * 100) + mistake of walking over an innocent girl's heart and we are going to see one hell and glorious road to redemption. I am really looking forward to that!
Khushi's hurt would be the other end when that happens and I am sure Barun and Sanaya would be amazing in those scenes.

The scenes today were well etched with lovely FB's and great background score.

Khushi's thoughts as to how a man could love his sister so much and hate her to the extreme was heartbreaking to watch. She giving the silent treatment to him was just the right medicine to Arnav. I am liking the way her character is growing this week.

I am very glad the the CV's quickly closed out the reason for the Gupta sisters giving up the prize and the reason for Khushi going out with Shyam this week rather that extending it to next week.

Overall a much better week in recent times and am looking forward to next week.

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Mandy

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I loved this episode, so happy the track continues to progress instead of going in reverse. I felt bad for Khushi when she looked on and asked how Arnav could have so much love for his Di and for her so much hatred.

The CVs continue to shock me, yet another MU out in the open. Arnav continues to learn how wrong he was about Khushi first with the competition and now this. I like that his first reaction is to go talk to Khushi especially after having FB to how he treated her. In his own way he did try to apologize to Khushi but she didn't want to hear it which is understandable

I just love when Khushi gives the silent treatment, from the moment he told her you will do as I say in the last episode she became silent which irked him to no end. Arnav doesn't want her to be a puppet in his hands like asked, he wants her to be the fiesty Khushi he fell in love with who never backed down from challenging him. When all failed Arnav decided to deliver yet another blow to Khushi which in turn was the final straw for her.

Khushi has finally reached the end of her rope, she can no longer brush off Arnav's hot and cold behavior in hopes of his love for her. His words have pierced her heart and hurt her deeply so she grants his wish, she stays out of his way and sight which I couldn't be happier about! Arnav needed to be taught a lesson here, he has taken her for granted too long and now needs to start repenting for that.

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fj08

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Posted: 13 years ago

khushi is so heart broken in the first two scenes of the day, the way the episode progressed was really great

i have seen the episode a few times already but i cant put it into words yet

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-Sush-

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am really happy that the CVs have listened to the viewers cry for developing Khushis character rather than making her just so inconsistent more recenly...it was discontiuous ...all over the place...

Finally there is continuity in her character...Let us just hope the grip they are finding now is here to stay...

Now if only they can pay more attention to her looks...avoid that hair style...and give her better clothes to wear...we will actually enjoy watching these FBs when Arnie realizes his mistakes...😊

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dramebaaz.af

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Posted: 13 years ago

I like ur view today Sush!

Check out my reply in my post for today! It's with the subject of 'the beginning of losing-symbolizations for 4/06/12'

Dunno how to post a link on a blackberry!

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-Vee05-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Today's episode what do I say about it...I really Loved everything about it.

- Khushi was phenomenal. She is hurt and shattered and is tired of this mind f**king from Arnie and has decided screw it he hates me and doesn't want to see me so be it so. Yup love can do that to you. Whatever makes him happy I will do because he hates me but I love him I will respect what he wants and six months later I will disappear! 👏 I am ok with this adult mature thinking this character has developed in the last few days. I actually feel I am watching the beginning of the show her character is more consistent with her old character so I am happy.

- Arnie Arnie Arnie boy you are crazy! The good thing was 4 wardrobe changes and he's progressed from Rugby to Calvin Klein Jeans! Woohoo Armani Exchange will surely show up soon! He misses the girl...his wife...his soul mate...his heart beat...in 2 days he's so wrestles one can only imagine what happens after the six months is up! 😍

-Anjali is an idiot! Total freaking idiot!😡

-The Shyam thing confused me didn't he know the key was in Arnies wallet already? Like didn't he waste time looking for the wallet earlier this week or was that just my imagination? 😕

- this Prakash brother is fairly bold he actually speaks and asks questions too funny 🤣

- the SBB video shows a new outfit on Khushi! Maybe the PH won the Mega Million?😆

Now the SATYANASH Moment:

-Anjali's chakkar bhagao medication is Digene!!! How is an antacid going to help her is beyond me but ok director you couldn't find a better packaged medicine?????🤣

- that entire sequence with nani and temple was weird.🤢

What I loved Moment's:

- Arnie waking up and turning towards Khushi's side of the bed in the hope of a slight glance. Hai soo cute!😍

-3 days in 1 episode this is a new thing for these folks.

- 4 wardrobe changes for Arnie woohoo!🥳

-the background score was fantastic and fitting today.

Now onto waiting for Monday!!!!! And obviously enjoying this weekend 😛I am actually kinda excited about what comes ahead it'll move and the TRP fall wasperfectly timed to give the CVs a nice little hit on the head and shakeup to get this moving.

Lady Universe this is what the show needs to be like! Btw the yard is blue but just outside the main door they have green carpet I give up with these ppl!

Sari and Jamba you 2 have me in splits! Completely hilarious and I agree Payal is good for nothing in this show! Both these sisters Payal and Anjali will take this couple's situation to hell and beyond I am convinced now! Sari i did think the same thing about Khushi's outfit and the bakeri's outfit! It was kinda weirdly cute hehe.

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DiamondLife

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Sush:

the more posts i am reading and more i watch todays episode..i am not liking this silent khushi..i can't see her pain..Dont know what happen to me..

I am all teary since afternoon..Arnie really spoke hard words to her..He is digging his own grave!!! I have fear that once khushi is gone out of his life, her heart will turn stone😕

I am really hoping that CVs will show his redemption for 3 months..If khushi gives in easily than it will be no good!!!

Still Arnie's EGO is at same place..