Tere Pyaar Mein, Ho Jaoon Faana...Q&A!

What an irony of fate? Nishikant cursed Jai that he would never find the happiness of married life and that he will be always ill-fated in love! Well, Papa Dixit's Shrap did come true to some extent and Jai did find betrayal and bitterness in his past relationships, but no one could have imagined that Jai would find the deepest and most selfless kind of love from the most unlikely quarters?

That Jai would find love from a girl whom he barely knew, other than as a loyal and efficient employee in his Company, other than the sensible and quiet daughter of an old acquaintance who came to stay in his house, other than the sister of the girl Jai fell in love with…..who would one day, by a quirk of fate become his unwanted wife and even though Jai and the others tried their best to break Bani's spirit and soul, he not only found affection, respect, caring, concern, understanding, friendship, empathy, loyalty from her, but a love so deep, a love so profound, a love so unfathomable, that even death could not separate them in the end!

I am sure Jai would have never thought that he would end up falling in love with his young wife, who had handed over his freedom to him the very next day of their sudden marriage….a wife who bore the brunt of all his unfairness, of all his anger, of all his humiliations, of all his irrational temperamental outbursts, of all his hatred and bitterness, of all his rage, ire and fury, both justified and a lot of it unjustified…with a calm dignity and acceptance! And no, the acceptance was not a sign of weakness or defeat that Bani faced infront of a powerful man, but the acceptance was for the man, whom Bani felt had been wronged and heart-broken by her own sister!

For every ounce of anger and insults that Jai threw in Bani's way, she returned back with understanding and patience…with every bit of irrationality and senseless hatred that Jai gave to Bani, she gave only respect and caring to him….for every humiliation that Jai heaped on Bani, she stoically bore it and refused to react back…..for all of Jai's venomous hatred, all Bani had was love in return! I don't think anyone should be surprised why Jai ultimately fell in love with Bani….Tell me, who wouldn't?

But the high point of Kasamh Se came yesterday, when Jai risked his life to save Bani and tells her that she won't die, because he won't let her die…..For a man of few words, I think this was the final statement from Jai that he loves Bani like hell, like he has never loved anyone before, like he can never love anyone like this, like love was meant to be Bani in his life and no one else……

And what did Bani do…..Even after hearing that Jai had not only accidentally killed her Mother, but actually hidden this big a truth from her, she not only forgives a past mistake without blinking her eyelid, she just goes calmly towards Jai and embraces him and without saying a word, tells him that if she cannot live with him, they she cannot live without him also…..That Dying with the man who she has loved more than her life is preferable to living a life without him……This is true love, in all its splendid forms!

Posting question's after a very long time, have been pretty busy, barely able to take out time for Updates, hope you guys find time to answer them;

Do you think that Jai held any guilt of accidentally causing Kiran Dixit's death till the time Jai realized that he has fallen in love with Bani and can afford losing her, but cannot live to face her hatred and anger when she comes to know the truth? Does that say anything about Jai's character, that he is most affected by the people whom he loves and cherishes and acts in accordance to them rather than to his own conscience?

Do you think that Bani has actually forgiven Jai for what happened or do you think that it is only a momentary lapse of reason that Bani has, and once Jai and Bani are back in their normal circumstances, she won't be able to condone his crime, more for the fact that Jai hid such a big truth from her than the fact that he had accidentally killed her Mother?

If Bani has indeed forgiven Jai for his past, what do you think made Bani forgive Jai so instantly? Was it the thought of Jai's impending death that made Bani let go of bygones? Or was it her strong sense of justice that made Bani realized Jai had not committed the crime deliberately and hence she forgives him? Or was it purely the fact, that Bani has loved Jai so much, that for her nothing seems to matter now, infront of him?

Important Question : What do you think of Bani walking down calmly towards her death along with Jai and hugging him in a tight embrace to blow up into smatters in a matter of seconds? Does this finally prove that Love indeed is all conquering and that Bani's love for Jai is of the highest order which prefers death over separation?

Did Jai embracing Bani effectively conclude our long debate that Jai has not only realized and accepted his love for Bani, but actually acknowledged it to her by hugging her back and telling her that she is the last and only woman he ever truly loved and that by giving his life up and saving Bani, Jai has made his confession to Bani?

If Jai and Bani get saved today (which they will, rest assured) what do you think would be the next course of action? Do you think that either of them will be grievously injured or will both of them escape unhurt? Where do you think this incident is going to lead their relationship to from now onwards?

Do you think that Jai and Bani were the unlikeliest pair to fall in love with one another, amongst all the couples on KS, but ended up being the Ideal Couple for everyone to emulate and idolize?

Question of the Day : How do you guys propose we kill Roshni and Sandy? 😡The more ghoulish and cruel the ideas, the better!😆

Would be awaiting your answers….

Lots of Love,

MT😃

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Question of the Day : How do you guys propose we kill Roshni and Sandy? 😡The more ghoulish and cruel the ideas, the better!😆

Would be awaiting your answers….

Lots of Love,

MT😃

Hi MT! Those were some lovely words used for our lovely couple! The most unwanted relationship has turned into bliss for them. Together, they have formed an ideal couple. How ironic life is! Bani's gesture in the last scene has to be the ultimate way of showing love! The depth is undescribable!

I have watched the hugging scene so many times, yet I am not content!

Since its too late here, I will only answer the last question!😈

I say, first we give Sandy a haircut to show him what could have been. Then we, together, can hold him by his hair, bang him against a wall/rock/whatever, hang him upside down in a cave in company of bats! Devoid of light, fresh air, and food, nature will take its own course😃

Now for Roshni: Well you see, Roshni has to be kept alive longer. We should lock Roshni in a tiny room with a TV. That TV has to be connected to the JB room. We can then give her live telecast of all romanctic lovey-dovey scenes. That will burn her up somewhat. Then we should wait for our munna to have a munna and show the product of love to Roshni. Then we should chop of her front hair so that she can never flick them again. uske baad.....we can use other ideas that the rest of IFians come up with😆

Jojo

Nice to hear from you after a long time. I enjoyed the last two episodes of KS simply bec it expressed J&B feelings in actions. Let's see what happens today.

Do you think that Jai held any guilt of accidentally causing Kiran Dixit's death till the time Jai realized that he has fallen in love with Bani and can afford losing her, but cannot live to face her hatred and anger when she comes to know the truth? Does that say anything about Jai's character, that he is most affected by the people whom he loves and cherishes and acts in accordance to them rather than to his own conscience?

I believe he did hold some guilt bec he took the three sisters in. He never expected them to find out about the raaz bec roshni, the only link to the accident was out of sight. Only when he realized that he liked and loved Bani did he try to keep it hidden at all cost by freeing her of this marriage(she would meet someone else and hence she would never find out) to the extent of sacrificing his love for her. JW is a passionate person once you are in his heart. His heart rules over his head. That is why he is ever in a confused state about his feelings for Bani. Flirting one moment divorce the next.

Do you think that Bani has actually forgiven Jai for what happened or do you think that it is only a momentary lapse of reason that Bani has, and once Jai and Bani are back in their normal circumstances, she won't be able to condone his crime, more for the fact that Jai hid such a big truth from her than the fact that he had accidentally killed her Mother?

I don't feel she can reason out his revealation in 4 mins. she perhaps just summarized it in her mind. He accidently killed my mom tried to save her even offered to help financially. Once he tells her he loves her i feel she can emphatize with him regarding keeping it a secret from her. remember the first person to hide the truth from her was actually her father. Jai was aware that her dad wouldn't tell them that her mom died in an accident. Bani is a sensible girt, she feels Jai repents his mistake I doubt she will want to punish him. but his diclosure will play in her mind. Somehow she will come to know that there was more to the accident than Jai thought. She will probably investigate further and free him from this guilt (ie Cobra hit and run) just like Saloni bailing out Nahar in Saat Phere.

If Bani has indeed forgiven Jai for his past, what do you think made Bani forgive Jai so instantly? Was it the thought of Jai's impending death that made Bani let go of bygones? Or was it her strong sense of justice that made Bani realized Jai had not committed the crime deliberately and hence she forgives him? Or was it purely the fact, that Bani has loved Jai so much, that for her nothing seems to matter now, infront of him?

Definately his impending death. Its a very stressful situation the person you love the most is about to die. Her heart is crying. He sacrificed his life for her. Actions speak louder than words. I believe her reaction would have been more cautious had the circumstances been different.

Important Question : What do you think of Bani walking down calmly towards her death along with Jai and hugging him in a tight embrace to blow up into smatters in a matter of seconds? Does this finally prove that Love indeed is all conquering and that Bani's love for Jai is of the highest order which prefers death over separation?

It is love of the highest order. Her kasamh to her father has been fulfilled and her life now is for Jai. He is her love and her life and without him there is nothing.

Did Jai embracing Bani effectively conclude our long debate that Jai has not only realized and accepted his love for Bani, but actually acknowledged it to her by hugging her back and telling her that she is the last and only woman he ever truly loved and that by giving his life up and saving Bani, Jai has made his confession to Bani?

In terms of action YES! Action speaks louder than words. Sandy sang the song YA Ali from gangster. I find the lyrics apt for Jai's action. Yeh meri jah yeh zindagi ishq peh har mita du lutadu mein apni khudi.(Something like that my hindi's not too good)

If Jai and Bani get saved today (which they will, rest assured) what do you think would be the next course of action? Do you think that either of them will be grievously injured or will both of them escape unhurt? Where do you think this incident is going to lead their relationship to from now onwards?

Ya i feel Jai will be the one greviously injured and Bani will nurse him back. This way we will get more JB moments😳. Plus ram looks sick he needs bed rest.😕 Thus far their relationship has been growing stronger and I expect it to take the same course. Now with the trust issues sorted out I expect it to flourish.

Do you think that Jai and Bani were the unlikeliest pair to fall in love with one another, amongst all the couples on KS, but ended up being the Ideal Couple for everyone to emulate and idolize?

Nah, I always felt that they were for each other from day one.

Question of the Day : How do you guys propose we kill Roshni and Sandy?
I wouldn't be party to killing them as they are not worth the bad karma but they should be caught for trying to kill JB and punished for that. But role reversal with JB on the bomb would be a good start.

Thanks MT. I enjoyed your writeup and your updates. U are simply awesome.👏

Do you think that Jai held any guilt of accidentally causing Kiran Dixit's death till the time Jai realized that he has fallen in love with Bani and can afford losing her, but cannot live to face her hatred and anger when she comes to know the truth? Does that say anything about Jai's character, that he is most affected by the people whom he loves and cherishes and acts in accordance to them rather than to his own conscience?
I think Jai cherishes his relationships with his loved ones has he had accidentally killed mother not intentionally so his guit only showed when he fell in love Bani copletely and could not bare to seeher in pain so he hid the fact because now he loves her most and this show that he has true feelings and emotions for the person who are his beloved and would do anything to protect them has it was shown his risked his life for the sake of his lady love more than once. He is man of character principle and truly gentleman to the core 😳


Do you think that Bani has actually forgiven Jai for what happened or do you think that it is only a momentary lapse of reason that Bani has, and once Jai and Bani are back in their normal circumstances, she won't be able to condone his crime, more for the fact that Jai hid such a big truth from her than the fact that he had accidentally killed her Mother?
I feel Bani has comletely forgiven him it can been through emotions of running towards him and hugging after all we are talking about Bani epitome of selfless love and sacrifice. She has suffere a lot under Jai and sacrificed herself for her sisters and she change Jai walis from a hard hearted person to the most loving and romantic once again after Pia fiasco and she has nothing to loose by forgiving her man because now he is all hers and shehas seen his love for her by him rising his life for the sake of her and thersfore she wants to die with rather than live a lonely life without her love of her beloved man 😉


If Bani has indeed forgiven Jai for his past, what do you think made Bani forgive Jai so instantly? Was it the thought of Jai's impending death that made Bani let go of bygones? Or was it her strong sense of justice that made Bani realized Jai had not committed the crime deliberately and hence she forgives him? Or was, it purely the fact, that Bani has loved Jai so much that for her nothing seems to matter now, infront of him?
Bani has a forgiving nature after all Jai is love of her lif and she cannot live withot him and his love and she always wanted hs love and that what she saw in him during final crucial moments where he told her his innermost secret made her part of his life and now nothng else matters to her but to live with him or die with him and this called eternal love story 😳


Important Question : What do you think of Bani walking down calmly towards her death along with Jai and hugging him in a tight embrace to blow up into smatters in a matter of seconds? Does this finally prove that Love indeed is all conquering and that Bani's love for Jai is of the highest order which prefers death over separation?
I feel Bani slow walk towards Jai is similar to Jais walk has both loved each other so on love can be consider lesser than the other but her forgivness and her gesture to die with him is surely the highest order and I salute her courage and love for her man and her decision to be with him eternally 😛


Did Jai embracing Bani effectively conclude our long debate that Jai has not only realized and accepted his love for Bani, but actually acknowledged it to her by hugging her back and telling her that she is the last and only woman he ever truly loved and that by giving his life up and saving Bani, Jai has made his confession to Bani?
I think Jai gesture to die for Bani itself showed he loved to core of his heart and she is surely last and only woman truly loved and hug just ignified his love and sure this part of the confession. 😉


If Jai and Bani get saved today (which they will, rest assured) what do you think would be the next course of action? Do you think that either of them will be grievously injured or will both of them escape unhurt? Where do you think this incident is going to lead their relationship to from now onwards?
I think if they are saved their relationship it will become stronger than before and next course wouldbe to start a family for sure😉


Do you think that Jai and Bani were the unlikeliest pair to fall in love with one another, amongst all the couples on KS, but ended up being the Ideal Couple for everyone to emulate and idolize?
Jai and Bani were most striking pair from the beginning because I always beleived that two strong individuals can make a relationship work and both were perfect example of that an proved me right by falling inlove and becomeing an ideal couple to be emulated by all of us 😛

Question of the Day : How do you guys propose we kill Roshni and Sandy? The more ghoulish and cruel the ideas, the better!
I feel Roshini and Sandy should be sent to Jail to be tortured lifelong and for Roshini must be specially send videos and photos of Jai and Bani happy family life and honeymoon photos and also baby photos of their kids so that Roshini suffers in jealousy😈 😆 😆 and Sandy could also be send to a mental aslylum because surely he is a crazy man a rock star turned murderer 😡 and his locks of hair should be cut and make him bald 😆 😆 just like Salman was made in Tere Liye hope his state is like that in the end 😈

Question of the Day : How do you guys propose we kill Roshni and Sandy? 😡The more ghoulish and cruel the ideas, the better!😆

hey MT....nice to meet you here on QnA Section after long long time....

on today's question i would suggest to kill Sandy by a big and hard rock,first,we should tie his hair first so he can see exactly what is going to happen and he should see his death too.

Then,we should take the acid and put on his entire body and finally we all have a great time,with our couples while we dance eat and enjoy seeing sandy dying softly.....😆😆

NOW ROSHNI.....😡

for this cruel woman on earth,we better send her to african jungle and we keep her without food for years....i guess we better not kill her as she gonna give us some hint and tips for how we can deal with jiggy too....😆

I hope you guys liked my idea......😆

very lovely words MT , u have described their love in a very beautiful way .. n i always enjoy this QnA topic .. i like to share my views , so here they goes ..

Do you think that Jai held any guilt of accidentally causing Kiran Dixit's death till the time Jai realized that he has fallen in love with Bani and can afford losing her, but cannot live to face her hatred and anger when she comes to know the truth? Does that say anything about Jai's character, that he is most affected by the people whom he loves and cherishes and acts in accordance to them rather than to his own conscience?

yes , i dont think jai at the point when he had the accident felt guilt might be soo much little , as we saw that he tried to give money to nishikant , n i dont think he was giving him thinking that he was a poor man in need , but i think it was a bit like a reshwaat to make him shut , n when he was getting cursed his expressions were saying that he was afraid of what will happen to him after all these bad duaas , not thinking oh poor man i killed his wife n the mother of his kids , no he was thinking a bit selfishly .... so i think that jai's guilt feeling start to raise when he first met those 3 sisters , but it was just a feeling of being sorry for what had been done by him , but his intense guilt feeling n the fear of wanting no one to know the raaz , n the way he wanted bani to know nothing about it , was started when he was feeling for her , as in any kind of feeling , care , appreciate , friendship or even love as he realised later , n as u said jai's feeling is more depending on people whom r close to him .. as i think most human beings r , they get affected more n care more when things r related to their love ones than related to strangers ..
i hope i wasnt long 😕 , n cleared the point 😊 ..

Do you think that Bani has actually forgiven Jai for what happened or do you think that it is only a momentary lapse of reason that Bani has, and once Jai and Bani are back in their normal circumstances, she won't be able to condone his crime, more for the fact that Jai hid such a big truth from her than the fact that he had accidentally killed her Mother?

i think bani is a very fair and wise person , n as what happened in 06-07-06 episode which video unfortunatly was missing , but from the updates i read that after bani discovered that jai had accidently killed a woman , she went to him saying or refering in her words that he has no sin in it as it was an accident , n he shouldnt have been afraid to tell , as he hadnt done anything wrong intendly , it was an accident .. so i think bani was prepared mentally about the fact that jai had killed some1 n she had forgiven him for that n she has no problems with it , so what is left on the table is just knowing that that woman was her own mother , so if she can forgive him killing some1 elses mother , y not hers , i think she is fair enough not to take another opposite reaction after knowing that the woman was her mother , n plus that she loves him n he was standing on the face of death , so she had no other way but to forget everything n react for what is happening at the moment not what happened years ago ... n even if the event was else , i think bani would have also forgive jai , but maybe after a deep thinking but she certainly would have forgiven him anyways , bcoz she had done that since 06-07 episode , n about she getting angry that he hid this truth from her , am sure she will understand y he did that , as he had told her before that if she knew the raaz this will be the last time she would want to c his face , so she already know the reason behind the delay ...

If Bani has indeed forgiven Jai for his past, what do you think made Bani forgive Jai so instantly? Was it the thought of Jai's impending death that made Bani let go of bygones? Or was it her strong sense of justice that made Bani realized Jai had not committed the crime deliberately and hence she forgives him? Or was it purely the fact, that Bani has loved Jai so much, that for her nothing seems to matter now, infront of him?

well.. i think bani's instant forgivness was bcoz of a blend of these 3 elements as i mentioned in the pre A , that she had already forgiven jai for killing a person , so she didnt really need much time to re-forgive him , just the fact that she was her mother needed like 2 minutes as he told her befor he gets started the whole story , so this was counted under the headline of bani's sense of justice .. n after he finished the whole story telling the thing that let her take those few steps forward to him was the fact that he was facing death n these were the last seconds left for her n him , so without much or rather with no thinking at all she hugged him n forgived him n this count under the fact that jai was going away for ever .. n last but not the least her love for him , which was shown before , when she had that conversation with him after knowing that he killed a woman accidently , n this love was also the lead to this hug n this forgivness too .. so its all mixed , but frankly i think the most powerful thing was her wise mature mind n thinking ...

Important Question : What do you think of Bani walking down calmly towards her death along with Jai and hugging him in a tight embrace to blow up into smatters in a matter of seconds? Does this finally prove that Love indeed is all conquering and that Bani's love for Jai is of the highest order which prefers death over separation?

well.. where is love ?!! if its not about loving to live n die with ur loved pair .. i mean it was pure love , n bani could do nothing else in that situation , she has no other choice to do , she cant stay at her place seeing her love vanishing , n she cant go krissh also n save her love , so had to go n save herself , her happiness , her aim of living , to be in even the last moments of her life in the arms of the person she loves to death , n what a better death than dying in the arms of ur love , i mean she must be so happy n lucky to get this chance ..it just reminds me of dil se as SRK is my fav actor n dil se is 1 of my fav movies of him ..

Did Jai embracing Bani effectively conclude our long debate that Jai has not only realized and accepted his love for Bani, but actually acknowledged it to her by hugging her back and telling her that she is the last and only woman he ever truly loved and that by giving his life up and saving Bani, Jai has made his confession to Bani?

i think yes though i think they will mention it also after wards but for now , as u mention in the Q 😳 i have no better words 😉

If Jai and Bani get saved today (which they will, rest assured) what do you think would be the next course of action? Do you think that either of them will be grievously injured or will both of them escape unhurt? Where do you think this incident is going to lead their relationship to from now onwards?

in this am really confused , how will ekta get it all set ?..
but my prediction r that they werent the ones whom got blasted , as i mean that the bomb which was under them was fake n the actual blast happened some where near them , bcoz this will be the only way to get them out alive , else no one can escap such a blast believe me even superman cant , so if ekta want them alive there is no other way but to make the bomb fake , at least the one under their feet , but if she want to kill them then i dont wanna write any predictions as i wont be watching the soap ... n about them being injured i think there is no way that one gets injured n the other dont bcoz they were as one , so they must be equaly hurt by the bomb , but if there were other thing leading to getting injured then i cant really say .. but i just hope 3 thing , 1st that they dont get killed , 2nd no plastic surgery as this has bcome a fantasy for ekta in each soap , n 3rd no loss of memories as this also has been a mantra for ekta ..
n about how this incident will lead their relation , i just have one words , to the BETTER , if i start will more words i wont end , so i will leave this to our KS experts , like u 👏 ..

Do you think that Jai and Bani were the unlikeliest pair to fall in love with one another, amongst all the couples on KS, but ended up being the Ideal Couple for everyone to emulate and idolize?

no not at all , in fact i had them as the most likely pair to be together from the start .. since the first episode n the first time i saw the title showing the 3 sisters n jai looking at bani , since then i knew or rather i was dead sure that those two awesomes will end up together in LOVE , i just felt it 😳 .. n even when bani was attracted to pushkar i knew that pushkar was not for her .. n the only one whoes hers is JAI , so i was not surprised about that rather i was waiting for that ..

i hope i didnt bore u with my A .. but i really enjoyed Aing them .. thnx 😃