I am a little confused~ - Page 2

maybe.....probably there is more to it....
Maybe after all it's won't be Jai's car killiing Bani's mom...like MT said..probably it's Ranviji who actually killed her ...probably Jai's car just hit her dead body

Originally posted by: dhruvie05

Afterall it was a raaz..like Jai said in one of the episodes "kuch mahine pehle Bani yeh raaz jaanti tho mujhe koi farak nahin padhta, but aaj mai use khona nahin chahta hoon, kyunki ab mai usse......."..

And even though it was an accident, even though he did'nt do it intentionally, Bani's mom still died under the car that he was driving..so he is drowned in that guilt..its called a "raaz" bcos nishikant said that night that i will never let my daughters know that their mom died in an accident..thats why Jai didnt want Bani to know abt it..

What I am confused about is, when Jai was supposedly "in love" with Pia, why did'nt this raaz thing come up ever? Was it bcos he had kind of buried it deep within, and it surfaced only after Roshni came back from London?? And in what way does this raaz affect only Bani and not the other sisters??

Is it bcos earlier (when Jai first met the sisters) he had come to terms with it saying this was just an accident, and then when he started getting closer to Bani, it hit him hard, that he caused the death of the mother of the most precious person to him, the person whom he loves so much!! 😕 😕

I don't know, many questions are still unanswered..but I guess thats how soaps work, huh?......

That part about Pia, I actually thing that he didn't really love Pia the way he loves Bani, so that guilty conscience never came up. But, he truly loves Bani,and is willing to die for her, so in that relation he feels more guilty.

And that second part it affected Bni the most, because she had to take the place of her mother and father, and therefore lost a big chunk of her life taking care of her sisters.

Thats just what I think though. I'm dying to see todays episode though.

Originally posted by: dhruvie05

Afterall it was a raaz..like Jai said in one of the episodes "kuch mahine pehle Bani yeh raaz jaanti tho mujhe koi farak nahin padhta, but aaj mai use khona nahin chahta hoon, kyunki ab mai usse......."..

And even though it was an accident, even though he did'nt do it intentionally, Bani's mom still died under the car that he was driving..so he is drowned in that guilt..its called a "raaz" bcos nishikant said that night that i will never let my daughters know that their mom died in an accident..thats why Jai didnt want Bani to know abt it..

What I am confused about is, when Jai was supposedly "in love" with Pia, why did'nt this raaz thing come up ever? Was it bcos he had kind of buried it deep within, and it surfaced only after Roshni came back from London?? And in what way does this raaz affect only Bani and not the other sisters??

Is it bcos earlier (when Jai first met the sisters) he had come to terms with it saying this was just an accident, and then when he started getting closer to Bani, it hit him hard, that he caused the death of the mother of the most precious person to him, the person whom he loves so much!! 😕 😕

I don't know, many questions are still unanswered..but I guess thats how soaps work, huh?......

Dhruvie tum yaar bahut zyaada sochti ho! 😛 I agree that JW was drowned in guilt for having run over a woman....I would be too...heck I feel terrible when I see road kill so imagine running over a person! 😕 So def Jai did have the guilt!
Now about Pia's thing.....I've said it before and I still stick to it....it's def not as complicated as we are all making it! I think Kekta mai just didn't think of this raaz thing at that time so there was no reason to bring it up. She must've thought of this raaz issue later i.e. after Jai and Bani's marriage and so she brought it up time and again in relation to Bani.
Now Deewane...I'm not entirely convinced that only Bani is related ot the raaz. I still think that all the sisters are affected by the raaz but at the time when Jai started feeling guilty and trying to hide it Bani was the most important person to him. She was slowly starting to mean something to him so they kept emphasizing her name and not the other 2. I don't think that the other 2 are unaffected by this raaz but to Jai Bani means the most so to him she will be affected the most. At least that's what I think!

I agree with Chickster and Piscean, that when the raaz thing came up, Bani was the most important person in Jai's life, thats why he was feeling so guilty and so he was trying his best to bury the raaz and never let bani know abt it bcos he knew how much it wud hurt her..

Arre yaar Piscean, mera dimaag tho bohot dur jaa chuka hai 😆 😃 koi kaam dhanda tho nahin hai..i have even weaved a theory about what might happen in future..wanna hear??

OK..here goes......Jai, 'cos he was standing directly above the bomb, will get paralysed or something..Bani will have fewer injuries..everybody at home will blame her that all this happened only bcos of her..ranveer will try to take over jai's business and do some gaplas in it..but bani will try to stop all evil and not pay heed to the hurtful talks of jiggy and anyone else, and her only goal is to take care of Jai..he understands everything whats going on, he speaks to her thru his eyes ('cos he cannot talk, he is paralysed)..and like the pandit had said, "HER HUSBAND'S LOVE WILL BE HER BIGGEST STRENGTH"...then after a year of episodes, he will get cured and come back to the normal dynamic Jai Walia!! 👏 👏
Kyu, kaisa laga?? 😆 😆 😃

😆 dhruvie..piscean is right...u r way ahead...a year? come on yaar.... 😆
but one thing, I do completely agree with u is that yes, bani will be facing lots of problem at home. Jigs would be blaming her all the time and so is Ranveer.
But like I said in my other post...I hope Ranveer is be kept busy by Rashi...We should really teach Rashi things so that she can handle Ranveer and keep him reallly really really busy.....I can send her some herbal medicine if she needs 😆

Originally posted by: Dewanee

...I hope Ranveer is be kept busy by Rashi...We should really teach Rashi things so that she can handle Ranveer and keep him reallly really really busy.....I can send her some herbal medicine if she needs 😆

Herbal medicines, eh, Dewanee??😆 U really crack me up!! 😛

Like u said, Bani will face many problems at home, and now Jai loves her to death! So he wud never allow Jiggy to behave the way she usually does with Bani..so the only way Jiggy can get her way, is if Jai is not in a position to stop her..that's only possible if he is not around, or is paralysed or something (god forbid!!!!)..kill him, that ekta will not..so paralysis seemed slightly better than not being around (gosh! can't imagine, no JW on the frame even in one episode, forget abt a month or two!!) 😕