What will it take for Gauri to realise her fault?

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Bhavi

@bhavi2000

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Posted: 14 years ago

Guys,

What will it take Gauri to realize that she has wronged others?

When the promos came out with Shivangi finding out the truth, I thought Shivangi will put some sense into her but to my disappointment nothing like that happened. Than I thought Tai will put some sense into her but that did not happen either. Then Gauri finding out that Bhairon was behind her studies instead of bade papa, even then she did not appreciate the good in these people. What's wrong with her?

What will it take? It looks like she no longer has control of herself?

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Posted: 14 years ago

Gauri will not get any sense of ownership even when she loses the baby. This is a trait that has to be inculcated since childhood. She has been taught to always blame someone else for their misfortunes.

- First God makes them poor.

- Then Rich people provide lures and then back away.

- Education comes for free and no gratitude is taught.

Children learn from parents. Her mother takes no responsibilities. She happily plans and plots and schemes and shows no concern for right or wrong. So this is what Gauri has learnt.

Now the loss of baby also will be Anandi ka kaala jadu, or Jagya being angry or Haveli ties with Jagya. but what it will NOT be is - her not driving with concentration.

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Missesha

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Posted: 14 years ago

J has done lot of wrong things both to A and G, but that does not mean G cannot understand what is right and wrong for her.

If J can't give her the status of a wife, she must walk out of the relationship. she could have walked out long back.

G is no 'bechari' but she needs to take a moment to think, how she wants to lead her life.

Let's not blame J for G's thinking.

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Posted: 14 years ago

jagya aur gauri dono blame lagaane layak hain kisne kaha tha gauri se ki woh already shaadi shuda.. person se shaadi kare.jisne jaanbhujkar shaadi ki uske prati sympathy dikhana meri samajh se bahaar hai.ek samajhdaar ladki ko already understood ho jaata hai ki jis ladke ko anandi se 10 saal problem nahi hui usi achanak se anandi se kyon problem hone lagi.koi agar samajhdaar ladki hoti to yeh poochhti ki kyon jagat tumhe jub anandi se 10 saal problem nahi hui to tumhe achanak se anandi se kyon problem hone lagi aur jub tum anandi ko 10 saal ke baad acchanak se chod sakte ho to tumhari kya guarranty ki tum mujhe nahi chodoge

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bhavi2000
Guys,

What will it take Gauri to realize that she has wronged others?

When the promos came out with Shivangi finding out the truth, I thought Shivangi will put some sense into her but to my disappointment nothing like that happened. Than I thought Tai will put some sense into her but that did not happen either. Then Gauri finding out that Bhairon was behind her studies instead of bade papa, even then she did not appreciate the good in these people. What's wrong with her?

What will it take? It looks like she no longer has control of herself?

nice post...i too felt exactly the same...cant agree more with u...i was feeling she would realize now now and now, time went on but she did not realize...

infact i felt that she would realize immd the first day after learning from bhairav that their marriage is illegal...but i was disaapointed...later on many incidents i thot she will realize and leave J...but sadly it never happened...

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shaannn
its not she who realised her mistake..its time for jagia to think konsi patni usey chaiye...when you have broken alll the reation with anandi why you are calling her day night...if u r so careful ,lovable toward ur family where your love was when u married gauri...if i am not wrong it was jagia who was responsible for dadisa illness when he entered with gauri in singh family...ok if you love gauri try to give her proper right...making her pregnent ...spending her with 7 years of his life today he is saying that muje tumse nafrat ho rahi hai

in family there are so many elder people...if today is badi dadi,tomorow bade tausa,chacha sa. etc etc etc will come and when person in his old age he suffered from diseases ...for how long he will hide his relationship with gauri...

when it comes to anandi what i feel its very unreal character...if situation like her happens to someone other... shayd us ladke ko yeh umar quaid krwa deti coz she is sarpanch...but allowing her husband to do anything...coz dil k haatho majbur hai...

Initially he was in touch with A for the sake of funds. Then he wanted to plead his family cause he probably understood the importance of his family only after they started ignoring him. Now in the recent past, G was all for it!! She wanted him to be casual with his childhood friend without any hesitance. G started pretending that she loves his family, which J truly believed. So he started expressing all his hidden feelings on his family.

G has to fight for her rights! When i say fight for rights i don't mean she should scream on everyone around. She has to take her stand like a strong woman and wait till J divorces A before consummating with him. J didn't force her into this, she herself went for it. She never actually stood for her rights in an appropriate way.

Well, it's sad that despite being visibly pregnant she was introduced as a friend to her husband. But that's the man she chose to be with after being an adult! I wish she had made a better choice.

I don't find Anandi's character real. Neither do i find G's character real! Being such a brilliant student who was well appreciated for her work in the University..would u ever think she will end up being the pessimistic, screaming, nagging wife(actually a girlfriend still)...who degrades to the level of scheming. J hesitates to tell the whole world about their relation ,he never makes a genuine effort to make her the legal wife..while G is carrying his baby on the other hand! Of all this she still supports him and talks bad about his family!!!What's happening to her senses?This is what she has made out her life...which is so unreal!

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shaannn

but remember G wants her relation to b legal thats why J was compelled for divorce to anandi by gauri...

Yeah, that's what i was talking about...she compelled him, but not at the right time and in the right way. She tried to malign Anandi's character. By doing that she proved herself to be an unethical and inhumane person.She could simply have taken a stand before consummating with J that she would accept him completely only when he's able to divorce A. If he loves her so much as he states, he should be able to do that.
Just as she married him in a hurry without evaluating his genuinity levels, she consummated with him even after knowing her legal status. She never gave him a chance to move out of his comfort zone and ask A for divorce.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shaannn

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CoffeeCake

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Posted: 14 years ago

Realise is nt there in gauri's dictionary. Sometimes i really feel that she is behaving so arrogently nt becoz she is insecure but she is enjoying. Insulting others gives her great satisfaction. If she is really insecure than she should visit lawyer instead of wasting money on jetsar picnic. And insecure wife has right to shout and bark on husband nt on others. But here if she finds out even single hint of jagya and anandi. Before asking her own true love she directly jump into jestsar to give her pravachan to anandi. Why? Kya anandi ne uski shaadi ka theka leke rakha hain???

Some1 said jagat talking with anandi on phone day and night. He was nt calling her to say that i luv u or i miss u. They were discussing abt money and family. Even if gauri gets any doubt without any hesitation she dials anandi's no. Does it mean even she is in love with anandi?

Coz of her insecurity she dnt see whether it is public or private place and starts her pravachan of mukhota. But when anandi faced reality of gauri and jagat affair at that time she didnt behaved so weirdly with gaury or any of her family member? Why? Even she is a wife. Now dnt call her mahaan.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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The explanation given for Anandi's attitude is that she's mahaan you see. Either that - Anandi is too mahaan to shout back or she is too much of a doormat to react. But the fact that Anandi has received a huge shock by knowing that J was in another relationship and cheated on her for so long and yet she feels too attached to him and his family to consider another way of life - seems abnormal.

But Gauri is considered normal no matter what outrageous thing she does. All G's impromptu "Jaitser picnics" and "pravachans" are forced out of her by her undying love for J and her insecurity and her childhood trauma.

I have often said that G screams coz she has no manners and no sense of judgement and no faith in Jagya. But now G is going to get her come- uppance. Her famous temper that is most justified is going to be her biggest downfall. It has already lost her any understanding or sympathy with Jaitser or Jagya and has also contributed in fuelling the Dean's anger towards J's already tardy record. And now it will cost her - her baby. Hope after this HUGE loss, she will finally take stock of her life and wonder why all this happening.

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