How could gauri have handled it better?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I really didnt understand this conversation between gauri and her mom.. I understood the words I mean, but not the nuance.
What should gauri have done exactly? How did she ruin his career?
She told the dean that a) she has told him several times and b) she went personally and told him.
After that, Jagat has not indicated any willingness to come back...and she doesnt know when he is coming back...whether he will continue to stay in Jayetsar for another three months...
Not only does he not handle his absences himself, he also does not have the courtesy to give gauri a time frame.
So for how long can gauri keep covering for him ? and how long can she beg and plead the dean for him?
I believe the matter is out of her hands now... so I dont understand what her mother feels that she has destroyed kanwarsaa's career.
And if she kept defending him and his absence, after a while, this would indeed destroy her career and her own good reputation with the dean and professors? Why should she take this burden of Jagat on her head any longer?
Were there ways of handling it better as her mother said? and if yes how?
I honestly dont see what gauri could have done.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The point is not that Gauri should have covered for Jagya, the point is Gauri did not need to play a proactive role in punishing Jagya.

Gauri's move was totally prompted by a vindictive rage. Since she is mad at Jagya, she wanted Jagya to be punished no matter what, hence such instigative words like---he does not care about his own career, I have told him repeatedly but her prefers his village etc etc. Agreed she did not want to a part of this anymore. Fair enough. Then let Jagya handle the situation himself. She could have lied to the Dean that she could not communicate with Jagya. Bas that's all.

She could have washed off her hands from the whole matter and let the Dean to contact Jagat himself. Let Jagya himself handle the situation with the Dean, why does she need to come in between any way? Instead she just fueled the Dean's anger by badmouthing Jagya. That was unnecessary.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think what triggered gauri's mom's anger was when gauri told the dean "tab tak mein apnke samne haath pair jodd ke request karu" or something like that..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: richavyastuning

I think what triggered gauri's mom's anger was when gauri told the dean "tab tak mein apnke samne haath pair jodd ke request karu" or something like that..

yes, that sentence was a little tacky and not in good taste.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: woman11

The point is not that Gauri should have covered for Jagya, the point is Gauri did not need to play a proactive role in punishing Jagya.

Instead she just fueled the Dean's anger by badmouthing Jagya. That was unnecessary.


Okay, I see what the issue was!! Yes, fueling the dean's anger was not necessary.
She could have just been courteous and humble and said "I have done whatever I can do sir... I cant provide you any more answers, I request you to do whatever you see fit, and we will just have to accept the consequences"...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This too is probably going to be THE big reason why J will have no option but to be nice to Lal Singh and come share a seat at the hospi.

But if G keeps coming to visit him at Jaitser - any guesses where she will want to stay ? 😔. Oh - I so wish Makhan will shoo her away before she can enter.

Her kid may just end up getting born at Jaitser hospi 😉. Coz despite the 10+ page topic on G losing her baby - I doubt she'll lose it. Have this gut feeling that that whole thread was started on a hypothesis. They'll never kill a baby like that. After all, they will eventually want to do a generation leap sometime Right ?

The CV's can't chop their hands off like this. The CV's will keep the baby and J and G and for some time, teach G to lay low.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

This too is probably going to be THE big reason why J will have no option but to be nice to Lal Singh and come share a seat at the hospi.


But if G keeps coming to visit him at Jaitser - any guesses where she will want to stay ? 😔. Oh - I so wish Makhan will shoo her away before she can enter.

Well, today Lal singh put his hand on J's shoulder and was comforting him... so that storyline has also been pre-paved. 😆😆
Anyway, I think J was fast losing interest in the Bombay life ... life just became altogether difficult with too many hassles once kundatai kicked them out, and once bade papa stopped money and now he has had a taste of the good life in Jayetsar ... and the good food without doing anything.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes. Jagya is a member of the hospital on his own right. He is not given a post there as Gauri's spouse---he is liable to the Dean on his own grounds. So let the Dean handle the matter with Jagya himself. Gauri can totally wash off her hands and not come in between. Instead she is just fanning the Dean's anger against one of his employees, that too for her own vindictive purpose. And then she does a 360 turn and starts playing the ideal wife. 🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Let the kid be born in Jetsar. At least the kid will have some people to save it when its mother goes into a tandav mode😆 I don't want the baby to be harmed when Gauri loses her mind in her maddening anger fits😭

The way Gauri loses all her senses in her anger and attacks even her own parents and Jagya---she might just throw the baby in the pond in a fit of anger and then regret her actions later. Baby needs to be saved from its mad mother, perhaps Jetsar is the best place for the baby.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Who dares to talk to dean like tht !!!
Gauri was just putting out alll her pent up frustation at Jagya...shw should have just said...Jagya is busy with some family problem..its better u directly talk to him.Thats all...why all this ranting.

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