A very sound advice

Wanted to comment on two important advices meted out in today's episode..
On the whole the episode had everything including a closure to the money bag track.. 😛

But two things stood out.. The need for an elder's advice to the younger generation and the need for a sound advice to reckless DILs..

First we had Baa advising Gopi on the need to understand and spend time with her husband. An elder in the house, Baa is one person who gets to see what others do. She loves Gopi a lot, no doubt and seems to be the person who explains to this girl about the intricacies of a married life. Poor Gopi would have never got such advice from her Maami but Baa made up for it.

Her words were wise from years of experience and a deep understanding of her grandson. The calm words gave confidence to Gopi that her husband may love her and like his granddad expresses the love differently. Gopi seems to have taken it to heart. Baa showed Gopi that Aham's dependency on her to do every small thing of his comes from his need to get his wife's attention. This is also a way to say that you mean the most to me and that I am nothing without you..
Gopi needed these words now. She needed to have someone tell her that, Aham may have forgotten the Bhang filled Holi, but he is still the husband who loves and needs her every second.. Gopi finally saw light and hope again shines in her eyes..
The shine became brighter when Aham, woken from his sleep decided that looking at his wife is the best thing to do in the morning. His smile and his childish action to bury himself into the comforter just made Gopi drool over him like we did..😛
Well done Baa👏

The second one... Of course, none other than Koki's advice to Rashi. What sound advice it was.. Never blame others before you think a thousand times, even if it is Savitha ben... Koki is just and fair. We know her neighbor Savitha ben is not her most favorite person in the world but still Koki made sure that Rashi did not go about throwing accusations of rabbits without proof. Well done Koki👏
It had no relevance, but if Hetal had just screwed on her brain for once and noticed, this advice can well be applied to the Mango incident where Rashi accused Gopi of using Jigar's mangoes without any proof..
Well that is too much to ask.. But Koki's advise and her just nature came to the fore today..

Well done both Baa and Koki.. Baa said Koki is fortunate to have Gopi as her bahu.. I totally agree.. I would day that Baa is lucky to have Koki as her Bahu..😃

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eldrs r an important part of our lives wether thay r mil or grand mothers or mothers they r the one who show us the right path to lead our lives and yup koki is very fortunate to have a bahu like gopi and so is baa that she has a bahu like koki.

👏 Harini, Tera jawaab nahi...That was a wonderful analysis of two of the most important scenes of today. I agree.

Wonderful post Harini and agree with your points. Baa was wonderful today and I hope it gave Gopi hope to move forward again as she always does, not that it is easy to forget something so special and profound, but hope soon things will clear up for her.

I doubt Hetal was paying attention to Koki's words, she was just thinking here she goes again yelling at my precious DIL, her face told it's own story.🤢

Oh well Koki will bring her around eventually.

Originally posted by: goody7775

eldrs r an important part of our lives wether thay r mil or grand mothers or mothers they r the one who show us the right path to lead our lives and yup koki is very fortunate to have a bahu like gopi and so is baa that she has a bahu like koki.

i would love a bahu like gopi for my elder son😆because he is way to innocent and would love a bahu like koki for my younger one because he is very naughty 😆a bahu like koki would staighten him out hahahaha but i would have to wait 20 to 25 yrs for this to happend😛

Elders are very important Goody.. At times of good and bad for they are the ones who give strength to all.. Their experience counts and they judge people quite correctly..

I hope you get good wives for your sons..😃 All the best😛

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

👏 Harini, Tera jawaab nahi...That was a wonderful analysis of two of the most important scenes of today. I agree.

I liked how Baa explained to Gopi about Ahem being like his granddad and that in itself made Gopi ❤️ open her eyes that all was not lost. There is still a ray of hope. Not just a ray...But a full blown sunshiny day...My hats off to you Baa...Tussi great ho 👍🏼

And the second was ofcousre the rabbit incident. I didn't care much for Rashi or Hetal being there..but how in the worlds name can Hetal not put two and two together. She should have immediately put Koki's sound advice to use for what happened the day before. But then I cannot expect for too many miracles in one day...😕

Over all a wonderful post and a wonder analysis and use of description. Harini as I said about Baa I say about you...Harini tussi great ho 😃

Thank you Rupal😳
I loved Baa today. She really told Gopi what I wanted someone to tell her.. That Aham may not confess in as many words but his actions should prove to her that he loves her.. Baa did exactly that.. By telling her exactly what Aham demands of her, she showed Gopi that Aham wants his wife to be with Gopi and spend time with her.. An advice Gopi now has taken to heart.. Baa is really wise.😃
Koki.. I loved her.. Savitha is her nemesis.. Still she adviced Rashi to show restraint before runnig around accusing people.. That needs a lot of fairness. Koki is nothing but fair.😃

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Wonderful post Harini and agree with your points. Baa was wonderful today and I hope it gave Gopi hope to move forward again as she always does, not that it is easy to forget something so special and profound, but hope soon things will clear up for her.

I doubt Hetal was paying attention to Koki's words, she was just thinking here she goes again yelling at my precious DIL, her face told it's own story.🤢

Oh well Koki will bring her around eventually.

Thank you Shilpa😛
What Baa did today was I think show Gopi the way to the future. She made Gopi realize that there are subtle ways in which a husband stakes his claim. His words mean a lot, yes.. But his actions mean a lot more and she told her exactly what Aham's actions mean...
I still feel for Gopi.. Aham has to remember... But now Gopi will have the strength to look forward without being pulled down.. That is wonderful😊
I am sure Hetal did not listen to anything that was said.. Her concentration was on putting Koki down and she did by asking Rashi to give Koki the gardener's number without answering Koki directly🤢 There is no putting sense into this woman😡

Tomorrow.. I am looking forward to.. It is going to be awesome with Koki..😛

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Elders are very important Goody.. At times of good and bad for they are the ones who give strength to all.. Their experience counts and they judge people quite correctly..

I hope you get good wives for your sons..😃 All the best😛

hopefully i would become a good saas to 😈