Words do hurt Mota Bhabhi...(

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Speaking in such a way as to hurt another person's heart, out of carelessness, envy or ego is to cause violence by the mouth - By Radhanath Swamy

A knife-wound heals, but a tongue wound festers.

Hetal Modi, for once has crossed the line of decency, attacked Koki whom she called sister, attacked gopi whom she called daughter, verbally using her words - This is nothing but a case of violence by mouth '.the words were hurtful to hear, these were said out of envy, ego and pride of being the Elder Bahu of the Modis..

every word she said like, "tumhari bahu gopi" "even gopi can make mistake" "we will get mangoes for jigar" these are the words which are said not as a part of communication or a talk... these words were uttered with a sole aim of hurting the two ladies...she is questioning kokila's integrity .?? Now i ask what happened to your intelligence that you stooped so low and started talking about Kokila's integrity and her jugement...

Reason for hetal's harsh word is envy and jelousy - when koki proudly and confidently said My Gopi Vahu can't do any mistake... That is when hetal's envy came to picture... In her heart of heart she knows that , she can never be confident about Rashi's goodness... this is when envy and jealousy came to fore...

When your thought process is covered by terms like selfish, envy, jealousy and ego, that is when we use words to hurt others.. Mota Bhabhi did the same. she left not a single chance to hurt either koki or gopi, in all her senses and with full intentions to hurt them... her intention to hurt was much more evident when she said we will get mangoes for jigar...

this is when Kokila's eyes brimmed ...my eyes brimmed ,,, my throat choked... this post is the outcome of those feelings... we are used to see tears in gopi's eyes.. but tears in koki's eyes is which are not going down my throat...

"The language we use to communicate with one another is like a knife, In the hands of a careful and skilled surgeon, a knife can do a great good, but in the hands of careless and ignorant person, a knife can cause great harm. Exactly as it is with our word" - Unknown source
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Posted: 13 years ago
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😭 This is how I felt as well when hetal was insulting Kokila with that ugly mouth of hers. I cannot believe she would go against Kokila and then Gopi 😲

Isn't this the same woman who proclaimed Gopi as her daughter so what happened to that relationship 😡

This is a wonderful post Munni...thank you letting us all vent 👏
I could not bear to see Kokila like this today. She has always stood for right and if ever she is proven wrong she admits it...which is basically never. Because she always uses her brains before speaking. She doesn't go half cocked and brain dead and only listen to the words of others.

rashi and hetal deserve each other from now on and I am all too happy to see this split happening...And I want to see it soon. The sooner the split happens the sooner Koki and her family can move on and rebuild themselves. And when I say rebuild I mean pick up the pieces of their broken hearts 😭



Edited by Dhabu89 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni...I think this is the 1st time I have seen tears in Koki's eyes...Koki always took things in her stride to work on them...I do not think she was as hurt as today when her son's marriage was breaking in front of her...today her tears were of hurt, being hurted by someone who she considers as her own !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Res.. Will come back and comment 😃

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Munni.. There is a saying.. Words said can never be taken back.. However you try.. Whatever you say after that, a word said to hurt once can never be taken back..

Today was an all out Hetal - I-am-better-than-you-and-you-DIL day.. I wanted to shake her till her teeth rattled when I heard her speaking.. Now I do not want to waste my feelings on her..

Who is she siding to accuse Gopi and Kokila.. Her darling DIL right? Well just playback the conversation that happened today Mrs. Brainless and Heartless Modi and you will see who crossed the line and who showed restraint..
The truth did not matter today to Hetal.. You are so absolutely right.. All that mattered was her ego.. Her jealousy and her power.. She wanted to show Kokila that she had the better DIL.. A big Joke..

Whatever Hetal does or says.. Nothing is going to change the fact that Rashi can never ever measure up to Gopi like she can never ever measure up to Kokila..
Even going by past mistakes.. Rashi's sins are too many... And what did Hetal get after her performance today.. I think she lost a lot.. And gained nothing..

- She lost her SIL's love. Koki still loves her no doubt.. But it will take Koki a long time to forget what happened.
- She lost a daughter in Gopi.. The girl was so surprised by Hetal's behavior
- She lost the respect of being a Jethani..
- She lost a son's respect in Aham

All for satisfying her own ego and for Rashi's praise? I am glad.. She can take Rashi all she wants and the two can enjoy..
I am awaiting Gopi's new avatar.. When Gopi stops doing Rashi's jobs let us see how much she can be happy about her DIL.. That is what you wanted right MRs. Hetal Modi.? You will get it..

I hope she finds that it is too late when she realizes her mistake. .Koki and Gopi's tears were very hard for me to digest

Edited by Justlikethat1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hetal and her attitude just keeps getting uglier and uglier...today was just unbearable...poor gopi and koki...i dont know how the cvs are going to salvage her character after this though...she used to be the most likeable character...and she is fast turning into the most hated character...at times even worse than urshi...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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When Hetal learns her lesson, she will not know how to face Koki.🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Outstanding Munni!!!

Hetal is hitting out at the people who have supported her more than that so called DIL of hers, but it's always the ones who we are closest to us that cause us the most pain.

Gopi and Koki have wholehearted;y accepted these relationships and you can see the pain of the new developments reflected in their eyes.

Hetal was just seeing her own ego and Rashi can't see further than her own interests!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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just a suggestion for motabhabhi!!!!! plz always keep in mind this doha of rahim"rahiman dhaga prem ka mat todo chatkaye,jode se fir na jude,jude gaanth pad jaye"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

😭 This is how I felt as well when hetal was insulting Kokila with that ugly mouth of hers. I cannot believe she would go against Kokila and then Gopi 😲


Isn't this the same woman who proclaimed Gopi as her daughter so what happened to that relationship 😡

This is a wonderful post Munni...thank you letting us all vent 👏
I could not bear to see Kokila like this today. She has always stood for right and if ever she is proven wrong she admits it...which is basically never. Because she always uses her brains before speaking. She doesn't go half cocked and brain dead and only listen to the words of others.

rashi and hetal deserve each other from now on and I am all too happy to see this split happening...And I want to see it soon. The sooner the split happens the sooner Koki and her family can move on and rebuild themselves. And when I say rebuild I mean pick up the pieces of their broken hearts 😭


Thank you rupal...even my heart went out to GoKi ...we are atleast used to watch gopi in tears... but tears brimming in koki's eyes are just unbearable...and i hate hetal for that ...even if she changes , i can feel sorry for her🤢

@bold...i soo agree with you ..CBP will be most affected ... and GoKi will be heart-broken😭 but they will raise over this and strengthen their relations😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Munni...I think this is the 1st time I have seen tears in Koki's eyes...Koki always took things in her stride to work on them...I do not think she was as hurt as today when her son's marriage was breaking in front of her...today her tears were of hurt, being hurted by someone who she considers as her own !!!


yeah navya.. we have seen tears... when kinjal's wedding being called of ... yeah navya... today the tears and her eyes reflected so much pain and hurt... we are more hurt when our says something hurtful... if some outsider says anything we just tell him off then and there

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