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I have been a Koki fan right from the time I started watching SNS.. I love GoHem and GoKi.. But today I loved Gopi and Koki separately and together more even though the episode was sad... This is why...

Gopi - It is very difficult to look above our personal grief to identify issues around you in the family. Gopi is now experiencing the greatest sadness she has ever experienced in her life.. Her husband forgot their moments together. What more, unintentionally he just made the wound deeper today.. But even then, this girl is resilient enough to set aside that when it comes to her family. She took a blame for something she knew was not her mistake.
I personally do not know if this is correct or not.. But I think she did the best under the circumstances. She saw her Maaji defend her and she saw that the argument was going out of hand. With the intention to stop this from going towards something everyone would regret, she took the blame, knowing well that she was disappointing her Maaji.. 😭 She is brave, I give it to her and totally selfless.. If somebody is not able to see the pain behind those tears then it is really not her fault.. Truth always shines and it shone in Gopi's lie today. I loved her for what she did today. 👏👏
Especially when she first apologized to Koki. I think Koki understood, so did Aham that she was apologizing for lying and not for the mangoes. That was a subtle touch and it made me sad for this brave little girl😕

This girl is a true family person. She will always keep the family united whatever the circumstances. She will be strong, smart, and also brave.. She is Koki the younger.. Who can say that Gopi is stupid after this? She thought on her feet, found the situation going out of hand and salvaged it.. Maybe Koki would not have taken the blame, but she would have had the same smartness and strength to do what is necessary to diffuse the situation. She would have always put the family first before personal gratification and glory...

Koki - Her immediate defense of her bahu shows how much she loves her. It was pathetic to see Rashi blame Gopi.. More so when Hetal suggested that Gopi was lying. And the MIL-DIL ganged up against an innocent victim. Her quick defense and her quick thinking when Rashi jumped the gun by almost blurting out that she gave the mango to her mother was fantastic. Only the Hetal did not want to see the truth behind her words..
Still, the way she told Hetal her side of the things, warning her against Rashi again all showed the care she still has for Hetal.. What I most loved was her final words to Gopi. She proved how righteous she is.. She ordered Gopi to never repeat the mistake, I think she knew Gopi did not make it in the first place and the way she wanted Jigar to have mangoes next morning..
Hats off.. She really loves and cares for Jigar.. Her tears when Hetal gave the low blow that she would herself get the mangoes even after Koki asked Gopi to do it was proof enough as to how much this is hurting her.. There is no question.. Koki and Gopi love the family an everyone in it truly.. Even when people do not deserve it..

Hats off to this duo.⭐️. I should say that though it was sad to see UrShi again getting away without punishment, Hetal being more and more despicable.. It was a good episode to show where Gopi and Koki stand..

On a side note, I think Aham will not question Gopi, but will get the mangoes that night to help her tomorrow.. He is her saathiya and he will support her. He trusts her and does not need an explanation. She did and said something for a reason. He just has to be there for her and I think he will..😃

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Harini that was indeed a great post👏 and hats off ⭐️for coming up with this

- Me too love GoKi, GoHem and CBP unconditionally🤗


Gopi: Can there be any selfless soul as hers ? I wonder..

The girl who is heartbroken already her wounds are deepened unconsciously by her husband..but when it comes to her family ,... always her pain, her suffering, her misery, her disappointments are hidden and she takes up to be the peacemaker and dissolve the situation, which when not stopped, could be regretful for life

the way she remarked, that rashi and urmi were the last one in the kitchen was commendable...she was not ready to take what her rashi ben was telling that she might have used up all the mangoes...she defended herself saying she did not use it...

When hetal started her arrows towards gopi, what does she mean by saying rashi and urmi were the last ones to be seen in the kitchen... yet again she stood up to her self defense, but her words were not reaching HeShi

She saw her Maaji coming to defend her...now the heated words replaced the love, sweetness and respect which her Maaji and her Kaaki shared over the years...After many years she got a family, which she cherished, which should claim as her own family..the girl could not see it being on the verge of crumbling and took over the blame that she used up all the mangoes...

Here ...Gopi's words might be a lie...but her eyes and her voice was telling the truth,,,which unfortunately couldn't be seen by her once upon a time self declared mom...The other 2 ladies were standing with pride when their false ego is satisfied... Her Maaji could not believe her and she knows her Gopi vahu is lying to dissolve the situation...

Well said Harini...the apology she asked from koki was only for telling the lie and not for using up the mangoes...it needs great heart to ask forgiveness... when you never did any wrong... Gopi is such a selfless girl, she took the blame, this i refer as being brave... you need to be brave to own up a mistake which you never commited in the first place and seeking apology ' why did she do this? because of her selfish reason, yes gopi's selfish reason is she cannot see her family breaking up '. she can bear her hurt break but cannot bear to see when a family breaks... such an angel is gopi vahu. Hats' Off and bow down to your selflessness and bravery


Koki
Today Kokila once again proved that she is there for her gopi vahu , whenever she is in trouble...Koki was silent till then, but when once gopi was the target of Hetal and Rashi... she immediately jumped into rescue her Vahu...

Kokila was all the way trying to show Mota Bhabhi that she is siding with Rashi and was alerting her... Koki was doing this.. because she is concerned for her... in future when hetal comes to know of rashi's evilness, she will be heart broken,,, she wanted to save her Mota Bhabhi from future heartbreak

Kokila time and again said, she is right and her actions and thoughts are always truthful ' but today for the first time Hetal questioned Koki's integrity... and how come Mota Babhi you are seeing her differently only today ...because you have changed for the worst

Koki made gopi apologize to Hetal, indicating hetal that when they are wrong they do apologize to the intended party and was sending a message if she could do the same with her DIL...all along she never disrecpected her Mota Bhabhi

Koki knew her vahu did not use the mangoes, but was being the peacemaker, she knew about her vahu inside out, how couldn't she... she is her mom after all

and never thought i would see tears brimming in Koki's eyes... by the words which her mota bhabhi intentionally let out...
Bow down to you Kokiji and Hats off

Side Note: yes Ahem witnessed gopi taking up the blame...and i completely agree with you... he was very good by keeping himself away from this... he left it for the ladies to deal with.. in all this he is seeing once again, how selfless person his wife is... tomorrow he might help her get the mangoes, as his mom said mangoes should be here for jigar's breakfast

P.S: harini.. thank you for ur post 👏and letting me rant and sorry for the length... GoKi i can't stop ...but had to😛
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well said👍🏼

loved ur post.👏.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏Nice post Harini...well done and well written in all points...


Before I start to write my opinion I would like to say that after watching todays episode, I have officially lost all hope and respect for rashi and hetal. And in the process I have gained a million more tons of respect for Gopi and Koki. Now on with my ranting...

Gopi: As always she is trying to defuse the situation taking place in her home. She cannot stand to see her MIL insulted because of something rashi did. I know Gopi has figured out about who ate the mango. The stain on her mami's odhini, and the disappearance of mangos...Gopi is naive and innocent, but she is not stupid.

She is coming to terms with the fact that all is not what it seems with her mami and rashiben. For her first her husband forgets their love making all together, and second her mami and rashiben are evil to the core.

How can one person who has seen nothing but pain and hardship come to terms with all this? This is one girl who deserves more happiness than there is available in the whole world. I hope Ahem gives all this and more. I know he will, but still, I had to put it out there...My respect for her unwavering.

My hats are off for Gopi and her sacrificing ways to save her family. She knew if she took the blame, her MIL would be mad and upset with her, but she also knew her MIL would figure it out and understand...Just like the cooker khand incident among many others.

The only benefit I see from all this happening is that, Ahem overheard and he now knows how much his wife is willing to sacrifice for his family. He can see how this is hurting her and how the whole situation is also effecting his Mom.

Kokila: A MIL like no other. She looked at her DIL's face before answering and knew Gopi was innocent. She also knew the guilty party. Unfortunately for Kokila, her older sil is nothing but a hypocrite. Kokila has always stood for justice and truth.

She has even gone against her own children to set the truth straight...remember she was willing to face humiliation for Kinjal and Elesh fiasco. She would rather be dead than lie or even save face.

Kokila as a MIL stands up for her DIL because she knows her Gopi vau would never be able to do it or have the guts to do it. She is the protective shield that guides and shields Gopi from monsters like rashi.

When ever there is the truth she will even protect someone undeserving like rashi. Remember when they had that puja and a neighbor accused rashi of stealing her shoes, it was Kokila who stood up for rashi...where was brain dead at that time...

How about when Kinjal talked back to Gopi on several occasions, it was Kokila who stood by her DIL. What I am trying to say is it does not matter who it is, be it her own blood or her DIL's...I put that in plural, she has proved it by standing up for rashi...she is always the finder and fighter of truth and justice. She is a believer that the guilty should be punished and the innocent should be pardoned...and there is nothing wrong with her thinking.

I would be proud to have a Mother or MIL like Kokila Modi. At least I would be safe and know that as long as I am not lying and or cheating or deceiving anyone, she will always be on my side and will always fight for me till the end. Also I would like to add...I would make myself proud to be more like her.

And for the foot note, Harini, I agree. I also hope that is what Ahem does and he proves he is her true saathiya😃

p.s sorry for going on and on...but I had to get this off my chest. and also you will notice I did not use capital letters for rashi and hetal...they are after all undeserving 😡
Edited by Dhabu89 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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excellent post harini...!!!!!👏👏👏at the last part about ahem i too felt same...!😃😃i wish the same to happen...!!!! really hatsoff gopi👍🏼 koki👍🏼 for rashi and hetal👎🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post Harini! As a fan of Goki, I loved it:):) Both have similarities in their care for their family:) I too think Ahem wont ask Gopi (even if he asks she wont tell him anything)...so he'll find and hopefully discloses Urshi's kalakari in front of the whole family or atleast to Jigar:) lets see:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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fabulous analysis

Gopi loves her family dearly a united family not a separated one, i am glad that she diffused the situation, today for the first time i saw kokila with tears she had been hurt dearly but not by gopi but by hetal a person she looked upon as her elder.
i saw aham look at gopi for him i think he knew she was lying because she was the one who told him that those mangos were for devarji n his mangos were over on the other side so i am sure he will ask her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful analysis. We have always known how Gopi and Kokila are. They are the glue that keeps the family bound together. They are the true grah lakshmis who know how to cherish and nurture their families. It is sad that Hetal has become too blind to see their virtuous brightness. Dark days are ahead of her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great analysis Harini.
My first thought was Koki knows why Gopi is doing this and felt proud, but at the same time she hurt for Gopi also. She knows Gopi lied for her and Hetal's relation not because she wanted to save Rashi. She didn't jump into defend Rashi, in fact she voiced the fact that Rashi and Urmi were in the kitchen.
Also Gopi already suspected something when she came back down to kitchen as Urshi duo were leaving, so her realization has started to take shape.
I agree on your take on Ahem, he will stand by her and also buy the mangos himself. This will also show her that Ahem does care for her.
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fab post harini...gopi is slowly coming into her own...loved goki today...cant wait for hetal and urshi to get what they deserve...

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