Should Gopi confront Ahamji?

Should Gopi tell Ahamji about what happened? I don't think she will and I don't blame her.

Gopi thinks her Ahamji is just acting as if he forgot. She knows he is a straightforward person. If he is pretending not to know, there is a big reason behind it and the only reason can be he is regretting what happened (he will be acting differently if he was just being shy like after the kiss scene). If that's the case, why should she confront him? To add insult to injury? He may then tell her frankly that it was a mistake and he didn't want to embarrass them both by talking about it. All her fears will be confirmed and she will be even more broken.

Let's say Gopi knows Aham forgot. She doesn't know the reason but she is aware he doesn't remember. Again, should she tell him? Not necessarily. This girl was badly hurt by Ahamji. He is acting nicely to her now, but with him forgetting those moments, all the doubts, insecurities and uncertainties of the first year are bound to be back in her mind with full force. If she confronts him, what if he doesn't believe her? What if he says that's fine it happened, but he doesn't want it to happen again. After all, he hasn't made any conscious effort to be intimate so far. Should she invite that kind of embarrassment, humiliation, and heartache again?

Gopi is not one to put people on the spot. She always takes the blame for other people's misdeeds. In this case too, she is going to be quiet thinking that it was her bad destiny that played a game with her (she said as much to her kanhaji) and if she says something to Aham, she will just be putting herself out for more misery and pain. I know we want her to say something, but her defense mechanism has kicked in here. A confrontation is not consistent with her character and in the current circumstances.

It's against Gopi's nature to confront anyone, but I do think he'll confront her. As his wooing produces less effect, he'll wonder what is going on and he'll ask her. Then, if he forces it out of her, then she might tell him. I rather hope that it's shown delicately. It would be embarrassing to any woman to explain to her husband about their consummation. Maybe if she tells and then passes out (not because she's pregnant, but because she's exhausted). 🤔

Aris.. You are absolutely right.. I do not think Gopi ever confronts people.. She asks then meekly😊

nice post aris 👏

will be back later to answer...

aris...another one of ur wonderful posts...like u said gopi will never confront ahem...but in the process of just trying to be as hopeful as she can...she is kind of losing her sweet self...the gopi today looked like a shell of her former self...all her actions today were mechanical and it looked like she was without any emotion...i dont know what the cvs have planned for ahem and remembrance...some did suggest that accidental touches might bring him some snippets of memory...but that doesnt seem like its going to happen...and jigar conveniently is MIA...one has to wonder ...like some members here suggested if pregnancy is the only way the cvs are going to bring that afternoon in the open...i am so against it...but with the sns CVs anything is possible...

Sometimes I wish she would!!! 👍🏼

I wish she would but I know she won't

It's against Gopi's nature to confront anyone, but I do think he'll confront her. As his wooing produces less effect, he'll wonder what is going on and he'll ask her. Then, if he forces it out of her, then she might tell him. I rather hope that it's shown delicately. It would be embarrassing to any woman to explain to her husband about their consummation. Maybe if she tells and then passes out (not because she's pregnant, but because she's exhausted). 🤔 [/QUOTE

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aris.. You are absolutely right.. I do not think Gopi ever confronts people.. She asks then meekly😊

But this time she will not even do that because she is confused about Aham declaring that he does not remember the Holi afternoon. He mentioned that once. After that he has been talking about the day being wasted because of Holi and something similar which is just driving home the point that he does not want to talk about it..

Everytime Aham mentions Holi, Gopi's eyes showed a flicker of hope that died by his next sentence. And everytime her heart breaks more and more..

She is frightened poor thing.. Her world is Aham.. For Gopi uncertainty can be a boon.. She has been uncertain all through her marriage.. There was a time when she knew Aham hated her and she knew she may have to leave home soon.. But even then she held on to the outside chance that Aham would accept her..

I think even now she does not want to jeopardize that outside chance of staying his friend. She is convinced he does not love her.. But he is still her friend right? So she wants to keep that intact and not do something to worsen the situation..