nai! It ain't Diwali yet, and holi is already gone, uska toh hangover bhi utre kaafi time ho gaya infact. Socho socho, there's no festival around the corner, yet, we feel like bursting with joy, aisa kyun?
Areh bhai, it's the time our dearest Karan Singh Grover aka Baby(bahut sari ladkiyon ke ), n his dearest (n ours too meri zyada) Jennifer Winget aka JJ, are going to get married.
Since the day, udte huye kabootar ye rumour (now well confirmed fact) lekar aaye hain, our hearts have become big time kabootar, fluttering their wings in ecstasy. Yu shift your gaze anywhere, KaJen wedding is splashing all around. Be it the internet like 'facebook', 'india-forums', '***keyword-removed***', 'tellychakkar', 'youtube', or the newspaper like the 'times of india', or the telivision like 'saas bahu aur saazish', 'saas bahu aur betiyaan', or the 'e-24'. Each one of these is flooded with the hot topic being KaJen ki shaadi. Facebook ki updates, IF ki siggies, Youtube ki VM's, its all about their marriage (no doubt other things co-exist, but my eyes tune in to only one topic - KaJen). Baby and JJ have planned to keep it a small ceremony, but have they any idea, that contradictory to their plan, the fans have already made it the biggest event we can think of. People are stalking for a piece of news about them, like anything. The happiness of the KaJenians, n the Ksgians cannot be put into words. Everyone's going gaga over the cuteness of this adorable couple, just dying to see them get united in one knot. On a serious note, i am short of words to actually describe what we people are feeling for this couple's most awaited union. If i could just show Karan and Jennifer how much love and happiness is stored in the hearts of their fans, i m sure they would be the happiest cosmic souls.
Karan and Jennifer have always complimented each other. The smile on one's face, automatically made the other smile. Such infectious is their smile for each other, and such is their connection. They make each other look really beautiful, and complete. If yu guys haven't missed the video of Aamir and Sanjeeda's sangeet, yu might remember the way Jennifer addressed Karan as 'Aap', portraying the respect and love she holds for him. Though she's referred to him with the same many times, but that day, they looked like a proper couple, yu know, husband-wife types, with Karan in that suit, n Jennifer in that saree. Another thing that moi dear friends have noticed about this couple, is the way Karan is always possessive and protective about Jennifer. The way they hold hands, the way his hand is always on her waist, just shows that the spark between them is so strong. All in all, they are the 'made for each other couple' we imagine about. And like every time, our heart goes out seeing them together, to pray for their togetherness, to request God to always keep them happy n smiling. Because more than the two of them, we fans have dreamed for their prosperous, successful and blissful future.
With the news of KaJen's wedding being a heart touching event for many, many others found it quite a rueful news. Fans who wanted Karan and Shilpa to come together, are disheartened by this news. Not all of them, obviously, but quite a few of them. Their view point also cannot be neglected, if they feel that KaSh won't come together if Karan marries Jennifer. But guys, i am sorry as i beg to differ along these lines. KaJen's wedding doesn't mean Karan can't do a project with Shilpa. Shilpa has never been, and will never be, a threat to KaJen's jodi. Shilpa's chemistry with Karan has its different equation. No doubt they both look good together, very appealing to the heart (dude! tabhi to dmg ne starting se hamare hearts pe rule kiya hai, because of our own KaSh). They also burn the show with their performance, the living proof are all the interviews, behind the scene masti, and of course, the reel life chemistry. But with Shilpa, Karan has an altogether different bonding, that of a very close n special friend. Shilpa has always been a very very good friend of Karan's, n his partner in crime, in reel as well as the real life. But Karan is marrying Jennifer, n Karan n Shilpa can still do a show together, both these facts co-exist, n we'll have to learn to accept this.
Another issue that is being raised these days, is the dislike for Karan, and Jennifer. People, if yu dislike either of them, then why bother fill your comments with it. Just stay away. It ain't as if any of them is inviting yu to go and attend their marriage. If yu so much of have a problem with any of their character, then why bother commenting rude things, and pick up a fight. I am sure yu can find much more entertaining couples in the tellywood. Why KaJen, whom yu don't like? Isn't it human nature to stay away from things we don't like? Calling Karan characterless, or Jennifer fake, won't change the fact that they both are getting married. If they don't have a problem with each other, then why do yu? Shraddha herself has no issues from her first marriage, she ain't crying or moaning, she's happily busy with someone else, then why shall Karan tolerate the burden of his first marriage. Relationships don't work for many of us, but there's always a second chance, and many more. Moreover, the truth is unknown to all, we cannot make judgement based on that. Yeah yeah! Yu may call me a fan who worships KaJen, but that won't change my perspective, will it? Everyone has their personal choices, i want to be happy with Karan n Jennifer's wedding, let me be. If yu guys want to be unhappy, rueful, n angry, yu can do that, but yu've no right to interfere in moi happiness, like i don't have to interfere in your issues. Let those who want to be happy with the wedding be happy, n yu can sulk without letting us know, fair enough?
Seriously guys, aren't we mature enough to co-exist with the choices of the others, even if they are different from ours. The basic point is, we are happy with the KaJen wedding, and some of yu aren't. So just ignore anything yu hear about them, and pay attention to something yu like, instead of wasting your resources in cursing them. KaJen won't change their minds because of us, but the only thing that will change, is the friendship we all share. Instead of deciding how long will Karan and Jennifer last as a couple, just leave them alone, if you don't approve of them being together. But at the end of the day, do pay a little attention to one thing. If your best friend loves someone, they won't listen to your advice if yu tell them that they've made a wrong choice. Aaj kal to children don't listen to their parents n take their own decisions. Then who are we, to give Karan and Jennifer any advise, suggestion, or criticism?
I hope i've given yu food for thought? Until then, sayonara...