You shouldn't take everything lying down

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Posted: 13 years ago
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So today Hetal got a taste of the Koki medicine.. I can see people cheering for her..😃 I can hear others who complain that Koki is just too much.. It was just one dinner missed.. So what? So here is my take on why she did what she did.

Koki believes in instant justice. All work Gopi and she did on Holi to make dinner for the family went a complete waste because certain wise people did not think it was necessary to inform before they went for dinner. Fine it was an impromptu dinner. But then it requires an apology to the hard workers at home.. Take it from me. It is the most annoying thing when you make a large spread and people just do not care to even inform you.šŸ˜•

And what more, these wise people, after coming back, did not have the decency to apologize to the small girl who Hetal said she considered her 'daughter' for making all her work go to waste on a tiring holiday.

The root cause of the above is neither Hetal nor her DIL know the meaning of hard work. Both just take the work others do and enjoy being carefree.

Now if I were Gopi, I would have taken all this with a smile and would have allowed Hetal to walk over me again and again. Hetal and Rashi will gleefully do it and then they will also have the audacity to talk about 'your family' and 'mine'.

But this is Kokila. She does not take slights and mistakes lying down. Kokila knows something is wrong. She also knows that you have to be straightforward to make relations work. So the Thepla hint today. What a way to remind Hetal that she still owes an apology for the previous night!!!

As usual everything went over that pea brain of Hetal. She considers this to be another of Koki's 'evil' intentions.

But actually is it? Kokila just made sure that she made the point. A family dinner is what it is, A family dinner. She does not care that she was not invited to dine out or not. She only wants to be informed in advance so that her hardworking bahu does not work in vain. Kokila knows the hardwork Gopi put in for Holi. It was Gopi and Koki who retired last to bed yesterday while Hetal slept with an excuse of a headache. Rashi was nowhere in the scene after taunting Gopi..

It is time that Hetal took responsibility of her actions. This is how Kokila reminded her today. Well done KokijišŸ‘

If Hetal does not see it the right way then it is her fault. She wants to be stupid.. She can. As a lot of you opined, I want the split to happen already so that Hetal can get the 'fruits' of her stupidity... She is going way too much and now showing her insensible behavior to Gopi. That is not done. Gopi has other battles to fight. She does not need Hetal's brainlessness to bog her down now..

At times you have to have Koki's courage to speak the truth. Truth is always bitter. But medicine usually is and it cures you of your illness.. I think Hetal needs a larger dose to even clear her mind a bit..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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harini that was an awesome post and goes without saying...šŸ‘ā­ļø

- Prevention is better than cure and one more
Only when a plant is young and we are sincerely watching it, we can train the plant to grow straight. A plant can be trained but not a tree. If the tree has got a bend, it has got a bend - full stop! (Chinmaya mission)


here the problem is in early stages and kokila is trying to fix the problem or straighten the bend plant before it outgrows into a tree...

people who never work, hetal and rashi, does not appreciate, hard work which went into it by making the dinner by gopi and koki...only when u cook a meal all by yourself... you would have known what the hell it takes into making such a spread for dinner

and does Mota Bhabhi owe no sorry directly to koki or gopi - No - she doesn't because now she is covered with false ego.. i am the elder .. why should i apologize to my devrani

what a shot kokiji šŸ‘this is what i love most about Kokiji... if you have a point make it... don't think of the repercussions what so ever... her point was to let the other people know that they are wrong...she made it known...being straightforward always is being termed as rude and is offensive to others , be it hetal or rashi...

Koki is a rock starā­ļøšŸ‘

"Being stupid is my birth right " by Hetal Modi " '
" No one can save me from my stupidity " - Hetal Modi
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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koki speaks like my husband direct catch them right then and there instead of cooling down and say ja vede šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamzin43

koki speaks like my husband direct catch them right then and there instead of cooling down and say ja vede šŸ‘


Perfectly correct. When you are direct and outspoken you do not have to worry about getting your point across.. Kokila does not like mistakes and whoever does it she makes it known. If it is hers she apologizes.. She did good today.šŸ˜›
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And you should just blow it right across that person's face with the same force as he or she smiles or pretends!šŸ˜†

šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼ to Kokila Modi!

I am wonderstuck at how Hetal is slighting her like this at each and every turn.🤢What a pity on such a character!

And Rashi was gloating secretly but little does she know that she has to cook and serve once she is on her own and even if she doesn't cook for as lazy as she is, she would finally end up being back with Kokila after split and God save her then! I am already visualizing her fate then.🤣

Because once Hetal is shown the dust, she would not say a word again. But I have realized that Kokila would never keep quiet whatever the case maybe! So if Rashi comes back after split and joins the family, she would forget how to gloat permanently!šŸ˜ˆšŸ˜†

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i remember i had invited some people over to dinner as hubby kept bugging me about it so i cooked up a feast, samosa, pakora for starter(not store brought made from scratch the same day) dalh sabzi rice salad raita, nan etc n for desert i made kheer, well these people called up my hubby saying they could not make it at the 11th hour boy was i peeved, Gopi spent the morning cooking n cleaning, then the party then have to see to her hubbys needs 😳 then come back clear up make dinner only to be told that her other family ate out. i agree with kokila loved when she gave hetal a whats what her family etc she needed to be slapped in the face.
Back to my house my hubby got it in the neck n i invited all my girlfriends to have dinner with me oh n hubby was in dog house for a good few days he was the one insisting on inviting these 🤬holes told him if he wanted to invite people for business he can take them to a restaurant 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post harini , couldn't agree wud you more abt hetal and kokis personalities. Koki is the hardworking , honest and to the point woman we love , hetal is a coward and as fake as they come . Koki s attitude of dealing wud a situation on the spot is what is benifical in a joint family unlike hetals bottling up and it festering inside her like a sore and slowly releasing the poison. U r rite it is irratating to prepare for ppl who have no consideration or manners for those who put in the hard work. To me it is just bloody rude to request jigars favourite meal and not turn up for it. Oh I rub my hands in glee waiting for the spilt to see hetal suffer .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: suk19

i remember i had invited some people over to dinner as hubby kept bugging me about it so i cooked up a feast, samosa, pakora for starter(not store brought made from scratch the same day) dalh sabzi rice salad raita, nan etc n for desert i made kheer, well these people called up my hubby saying they could not make it at the 11th hour boy was i peeved, Gopi spent the morning cooking n cleaning, then the party then have to see to her hubbys needs 😳 then come back clear up make dinner only to be told that her other family ate out. i agree with kokila loved when she gave hetal a whats what her family etc she needed to be slapped in the face.
Back to my house my hubby got it in the neck n i invited all my girlfriends to have dinner with me oh n hubby was in dog house for a good few days he was the one insisting on inviting these 🤬holes told him if he wanted to invite people for business he can take them to a restaurant 😃


suk loved it.
it is our usual way to inform home if we are going out for food.
i m happy koki gave back to hetal
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Posted: 13 years ago
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šŸ‘ Great post Harini. Loved Koki today.

My question again is who eats dessert before dinner? In my household we eat ice cream or any dessert after the main meal. I guess this is same as making Roti's before the sabzi.

Glad Koki didn't stay quiet.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Harini!!loved evry word you wrote!!
i just loved koki's dialogue...hetal deserves it!

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