wil sandhya say to remarry suraj??

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suvaaslondon

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Beleive me all the serials Cvs follow this .

They go around in circles.We viewers are woven in the middle of this.They will keep dishing this out For TRPs .we will be desperatley waiting and next Year HOLI ,scenes would be better .

MARK My words.

JUST FED UP.

U think one serial is better than another.They get u hooked and take u the same old path

I give up

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Fatima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: megumi
Whenever anyone talks about social service her face lights up like a 400 watt bulb but when bhabho and others talk about marriage, relationship her face becomes like a fused bulb. (for example today's episode)

Excellent point!

The reason why she took the 15 day test and turned down her brother's invitation was because she must have thought she could lead a life of only good daughter in law and that's all. like how she was with her parents as their good daughter. no more no less.

Plus she always took Bhabo's challenges as a challege against her parents' teaching, so in a way she's been fighting to prove she's had a good upbringing by her parents. If she refuses to go with her brother it''ll be because she hates him for dumping her in this mess of a sasural in the first place, and now doesn't want anything to do with him.

she has already made clear to sooraj not to touch her so she knows he won't do anything other than satisfying himself from putting his hands on her shoulder in the shadows. (she doesn't even allow that since she backs off) so she was pretty much set in that house to lead a life of only-good-daughter-in-law until bhabho revealed infront of everyone about their non consummation. now that this matter has become such a serious issue now it is getting inside her head that there is another side of marriage than just pleasing and winning everyone's hearts in the house.

I would be OK if she had said...I need some more time...But this really drove me crazy...I mean she yelled at Suraj for her discomfort at having to do the bathing rasam...as if she had to bathe naked or something...I mean come on...she only had to pour water on Suraj and vice versa...They barely touched each other. But then again she doesn't even let him touch her shadow...🤪

CV's, what the hell do you think you are doing? After seven months of wait what does Sooraj and the audience's get? Sandhya's declaration that she will never love and accept sooraj as a husband both physically and emotionally??? This is cruelty in it's glory. you are actually telling us that after everything he did for her she is still incapable of ATLEAST liking him. her heart hasn't moved even a millimeter bit??? what, is she even a human??? this girl can't even like the only person who for her happiness, went to extremes, understood her, loved her unconditionally.

Well said 👍🏼 Plus

scriptwriters, you guys have lost the plot along with your mind.

Exactly...

I agree with your post whole heartedly...my additional comments are in red.

Edited by ummesulaiman - 13 years ago

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Donno if every one will agree with me or not , even if its a love or arrange marriage, Marriage is a compromise , where one has to bend in to make things work for a relation and live it beautifully.

Sandhya had a dream and that dream didnot allow her to think about marriage in near future , but things happened in such a rush manner, she had to get married yet holding on to her dream thinking he will fulfill it , she would have blend in and adjusted with her marriage along with ful filling her dreams had she not know about how she was cheated and same with suraj, though there had been little interest in him it was never much ... rem never saying she should dump her dream, and accept her marriage and remain a loyal wife looking after kids and being home, one can fulfill their dream with doing other duties of a relation , sandhya had been shown trying to adjust and learn to accept other duties other than forming any bond of affection with suraj, as much as i say respect is the most imp and lucky emotion any relation can have from both sides, but one should also possess other emotions of love, sympathy, understanding, care and concern, suraj does that for her and she only looks at him for support thats it ... there is no friendship in btw them , he takes one step and she runs thousand steps back, she wants him to understand her (nothing wrong ) and help her in fulfilling her dream , but i dont see another side of that same from sandhya, not unless bhaboo did that exhibition she realized about his life and his desires and all , though she was trying to do that now , she had given enough reasons for others to make that path more difficult , had she shown little emotions of friendship and a proper understanding with him , she wouldnt have the think of the taunts much and may be think about his remarriage ...not blaming sandhya here , but putting her side as some where she is wrong as she gave them reasons to jump on her

not saying bhaboo and others are right, nope they are also wrong , but since this mean her thinking just saying wat i wanted to about her , i like sandhya as she keeps her point with out being rude, proudish or anything neither she opens her mouth just to cry buckets ,

Ufff said a lot , donno if it makes sense or not 😆

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xyyz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

She was hating that bathing ritual so much. when sooraj poured water on her she was holding on to that bucket so tightly as if she is disgusted. and when he touched her hands to clean the colours she hated that extremely. her whole attitude was like 'tolerate it sandhya, tolerate it.' for who's sake, i don't know. if she is really hating everything then she should just leave.

live and let others live.

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Mina_T

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

I understand what you guys are saying and at point i'm just like sandy JUMP the man already he's too hot and nice!😉

THEN I think SERIOUSLY, I am a women who is educated (i don't mean to boast) , i have my undergrad from a big uni, i have HUGE dreams, if i was TRAPed and cornered into this marriage and my loving parents (the only family I have, i don't count her brother as family) were gone. Under those circumstances yah i would say yes to marriage cuz i would be in a weak position, but my dreams my food for live, NOTHING and NO ONE gets in the way of my dreams. ⭐️

Also she grew up her entire life with the mentality that she will marry someone smarter more educated then her 😍 which is our cultural norm, just like it is normal for a guy to marry someone less educated then him...at the end of the day that eats out at u, because you think, can i DEPEND on (survival instinct here, the most FIT man wins) someone who isn't up to par , heck below me? Its hard to escape something that has been drilled into you.

And i dont know what it is in India but here if you just completed grade 9 , ur considered a high school drop out ( a BIG social NO NO🤢), can you imagine and undergraduate or even in there third year married to a high school drop out (and In Toronto you HAVE to complete grade 10) .

What I am saying these real facts will stop any girl in her tracks. No matter how great suraj is. And I am glad they are showing her conflict and turmoil instead of her falling in love like a simpleton cuz a guy is "nice" to her. I'm sure lots of guys were nice to her 😉

I'm saying this with so much passion because i was in a similar boat i felt really pressured to get married and i still had my dreams, and i was sooo close to saying yes i was going to cave under the pressure even though i didn't want to, its a tough situation and it takes a toll on you psychologically even the strong ones quake and shake, BUT thank god for friends a i had lots of family ,( mama's )and friends to support me.
ANd i watched like 120 epi in one go so it doesn't feel like forever to me😃 But i know when you watch epi by epi waiting months, it can seem a long time.
So i stand by Sandy through thick and thin! 👏
Hang in there you will figure out what to do.👍🏼 ANd she has no where else to go, back with her traitorous brother who she will never trust?

Edited by Mina_T - 13 years ago

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Shreya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

I really like Sandhya's character a lot but I do agree that her behaviour is turning out to be confusing!

She did have many chances to end her marriage. Why is she choosing to stay on if her relationship with Suraj is turning out to be so unbearable.

I guess she can't trust her brother anymore but I did like how she was frank with Suraj with no pretenses but I did think she had started developing feelings for him.

Poor Suraj. I don't think he can move on now as he is already too involved with her. As we have seen the thought of her leaving is pain to him.

I guess Sandhya should give him the freedom to leave her pr remarry. It is only fair. After all how much can you expect from one person?

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.Ami.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

@Mina_T:- I completely agreed with you to favor Sandhya in every thick and thin shades of life; I've been also gone through similar situations like you thus can understand both state of mind.👍🏼

Sandhya tried her level best to adjust in that family by losing her self-esteem and pride but as Bhabhasa said once to Suraj that It's impossible to keep two swords in one sheath similarly You can't make two women happy at a time if both them are strong and prideful like Bhabho and Sandhya.😕

Suraj is just getting pissed off in between them; Indeed, It's real nightmare for any man to go through such a situation.😔

If Sandhya even ask Suraj to get remarry then damn she'll insult Suraj's love for her. It'll be so embarrassed for Suraj.😭 I just hope that Sandhya won't ask this.

Edited by ami1987 - 13 years ago

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xyyz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: breezy

Hope they take this route because unless sandhya loses sooraj in her life she wouldn't understand what she has lost and how good of a person sooraj is.

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