Guilt in punarvivah

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Why there is so much guilt in punarvivah.i mean look at yash, when he saw aarti playing with her son he felt goods out his decision for remarriage but the very next moment he is compelled to give the justification to his dead wife that it is only for his daughter. Same way aarti is reiterating again and again that she is doing it only for his son.her story is different her husband cheated on her still she feels guilty .why none of them looks at this marriage as also finding soulmates along with parent of their kids.is it because of the society mind set.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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in small towns though u are educated and independent people still are bound by certain age old complexs not so open like the metros. So thats the reason of Yashs guilt.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AaabbbCcc

Why there is so much guilt in punarvivah.i mean look at yash, when he saw aarti playing with her son he felt goods out his decision for remarriage but the very next moment he is compelled to give the justification to his dead wife that it is only for his daughter. Same way aarti is reiterating again and again that she is doing it only for his son.her story is different her husband cheated on her still she feels guilty .why none of them looks at this marriage as also finding soulmates along with parent of their kids.is it because of the society mind set.


Both of them r still in love with their ex husband and ex wife...in aarti's case, obviously, her being loyal even to her cheater husband acts as a deterrent, but for Yash, there is no social factor.its too simple- he is madly in love with arpita, and he does not want any soulmate becoz he believes arpita was his soulmate, and his guilt stemmed out of his love..also that momentary happiness which he felt on seeing aarti and her son, was not becoz he was getting aarti as his wife, but becoz he finally got a mother to his daughters which was the only thing he wanted.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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that is all OK , but what irks me is that atleast they should have the open mind.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AaabbbCcc

Why there is so much guilt in punarvivah.i mean look at yash, when he saw aarti playing with her son he felt goods out his decision for remarriage but the very next moment he is compelled to give the justification to his dead wife that it is only for his daughter. Same way aarti is reiterating again and again that she is doing it only for his son.her story is different her husband cheated on her still she feels guilty .why none of them looks at this marriage as also finding soulmates along with parent of their kids.is it because of the society mind set.


Doesn't understand what the writers & creatives have in their stores. Am totally confused with this track. Yash clearly knows that Aarti has a misunderstanding about him but he didn't open his mouth & try to clear her misunderstanding to some extent though he got lot more chances😡 & in today's episode also he realizes that instead of clearing Aarti misunderstanding he raised a lot. If he can think so much why can't he try to clear all her misunderstandings, which is not at all a big deal...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Doesn't understand what the writers & creatives have in their stores. Am totally confused with this track. Yash clearly knows that Aarti has a misunderstanding about him but he didn't open his mouth & try to clear her misunderstanding to some extent though he got lot more chances😡 & in today's episode also he realizes that instead of clearing Aarti misunderstanding he raised a lot. If he can think so much why can't he try to clear all her misunderstandings, which is not at all a big deal...


are wait for sm time, misunderstanding will get solved...tings cannot happen so fast in a show...they r introducing side tracks for all characters which is great...This is the mark of a good show...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AaabbbCcc

Why there is so much guilt in punarvivah.i mean look at yash, when he saw aarti playing with her son he felt goods out his decision for remarriage but the very next moment he is compelled to give the justification to his dead wife that it is only for his daughter. Same way aarti is reiterating again and again that she is doing it only for his son.her story is different her husband cheated on her still she feels guilty .why none of them looks at this marriage as also finding soulmates along with parent of their kids.is it because of the society mind set.


both of them still love their ex
though they want to start a new life but are scared and feel as if betraying their first wife/husband
hence they feel compelled to justify their acts
yash knows that aarti will be a great mom but wants and wishes that arpita was still there
aarti also knows taht yash will be a good father and never let her son loose but is still scared to start trusting him after the betrayal by prashant and wants to make herself believe that he is not a good man
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I guess it will be a really looong time before they start trusting and loving each other.i just wish that they start at least try to open a dialogue with each other. How you can enter another marriage with so much misunderstanding. Aartiatleast had a past bad experience she should be cautious understood but she should at least talk and find out about yash more. Isn't she Afraid of another bad marriage
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, both are obviously still in love with their first partner...remarriage is not like first marriage where a person goes into it happily and with full dreams...most of the time, it's done for family and children, especially in Indian society which gives more value to relationship bonds than western societies, where remarriages are not a big deal because people get divorced left and right.

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