Bungoli relationship analysis

First of all..good analysis..
Brij said he will tell Pooja but in his own way explaining everything as pooja will misunderstand him..(he kinda implied wht we r saying tht pooja is still a kid..and immaturred)...and our briji is still da same brij..baas he doesnt want to loose pooja at any cost..its human nature i guess..but he deo isnt planning to hv a secret relationship... 😆

Agreed alphabeta...

Originally posted by: alphabeta_22

First of all..good analysis..
Brij said he will tell Pooja but in his own way explaining everything pooja will misunderstand him..he also implied wht we r saying..pooja is still a kid..and immaturred...and my briji is still da same brij..baas he doesnt want to loose pooja at any cost..its human nature i guess..but he deo isnt planning to hv a secret relationship... 😆

Originally posted by: Rons

Now that we know Brij Is married to a shrew, who is none other than the daughter of his adoptive father, political guru and party head...hence his boss, some of our questions we had posed earlier gets answered.

Rons, I am glad you put this thread up!!

- I think people are aware that BBP is married but Rangoli has been AWOL for over a year...and yes, the fault might be entirely Rangoli's (did she run away with someone?)...people are aware of the estrangement but know that BBP is not at fault hence sympathies lie with him. Rangoli definitely has some strange psychotic behavior. She is mentally unstable. BBP and Daddaji's relationship is one of mutual co-dependence. Only if BBP becomes a minister will Rangoli's future be secure. Rangoli's relationship with her dad is weird to say the least.

- BBP plays his political cards very close to his chest - he never lets daddaji into any of his political ruses...so he does not trust Daddaji.

- I am waiting for the CVs to reveal why such an intelligent man married this psycho. Knowing that their daughter is in the wrong is in the major reason why daddaji and ammaji do not plead with BBP. I am curious too to know how an arrogant snob like her agreed to marry an auto mechanic. She treats him more like property than a partner.

- Nevertheless, there is something in the haveli that makes BBP be on guard. Rangoli is his only protection and his most dangerous adversary. And what is up with Giridhar's arm as well as his neurotic behavior towards BBP?

- Bhavna was never able to bring up the issue with Pooja because pooja cut her off. The marriage issue is important but Bhavna might also know that BBP is in a grey zone as far as his marriage...hence it might be the secondary unsaid piece in the conversation.. If the wife has been missing ofr so long why would Aparajita even bring up the unsavory past? If BBP is the person whom the youth of India identify with (episode 1) - divorce from a bad marriage for his love will be a non issue in the long run especially if she embarrasses him in public...I wont be surprised if that is indeed the direction he has moved in (possibly an angst ridden hidden BRIJA relationship) and hence Pooja's shooting - to make him feel the consequences of "nuksaan".

- Even though BBP is shrewd, right from the Dargah shootout, I have maintained that he has some serious abandonment issues. I have also maintained that the inequality between BBP and pooja is created by the circumstances under which they were nurtured...she surrounded by love, he by uncertainty, abandonment and discontent.

- And he does care about the Tiwaris. He knows they have something invaluable - a stable, sane and loving family. He is definitely in love with Pooja; he tried to push her away but unsuccessfully. Now he is worried about losing her - even his poolside confession came after he realized that he could have lost her (oh they shot and edited that scene so badly! even though KR/RS did a great job). He had an opportunity to tell her about his marriage at the breakfast in Mauritius. But he did not - he was afraid that she too might abandon him. He realizes that she has a streak of self respect and that (in her current state), material things do not matter to her - even her talent is something that she has been self deprecatory about. I suspect that it will be this streak of self respect that Pooja will resort to initially when she finds out about Bangoli. For her it is simple. For him "it is complicated" 😆. Pooja might try and move away from him (towards our brattish Krish).

- On the day of holi, I think he was more afraid that Pooja would be further tortured by the psycho-sadistic Rangoli. During the phone conversation with Pooja when it seemed that she might know about Bungoli, he was relieved but seemed disappointed that she did not know the truth after all. If Pooja had burst into tears, she would have been torn to shreds by the Psycho...

- BBP might be getting a bit reckless about controlling his feelings for Pooja. In the phone conversation today he was the one who kept the chatting going. Keep in mind he used the word "sailaab"...jealousy will play a part in the BRIJA situation and it will be on BBP's part, not Pooja's. BBP will not let Pooja go - she is the only good thing in his life. He has admitted that when he does not see or hear her he feels "bechain" - restless. But what will be trade off that BBP will make? Will he give up Daddaji?
...let us see...😃

EXCELLENT!!! FABULOSLY written DURUM...agree with every bit of what you've said!!!!

Rons,

Agree-- fully with durum. BRIJ's is a genuine person & his feelins are genuine , self developed from scrach and his love for pooja is pure , he considers POOJa's family as his own , he call them his "Parivar" . He does his best to help and comfort POOJA's family .

Originally posted by: Rons

When did he say that?...I've no idea

How cud I have missed such important piece of information.

Yesterday epi...these r not the exact replica of wht hesaid..but listen to shamsher and his convo..