What Bhaboo thinks Sandhya is? commodity?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I saw Maha episodes promo and after seeing todays and yesterdays episode i would like to ask what bhaboo thinks about sandhya?

Is sandhya a commodity jise uska beta 15 din use karke fek de? if they dont have physical relation also what is there to make bhaboo angry? she want sandhya to fail in exam and leave the home after 15 days and also she is scolding for sandhya for taking those tab.

Is sandhya not a women? being a women how can bhaboo treat her like this? is sandhya use and throw material? even though we know that sandhya was not using that tab and there is nothing in between suraj and sandhya. even if sandhya take the tab also why it should make bhaboo angry? what she want sandhya to do? leave her home with a baby in her womb?

If it was meant only about test to sandhya. bhaboo would have made suraj and sandhya sleep in diff room and would have cut the tread physical relationship with suraj and sandhya.

even through we know nothing is in between them, still being a women bhaboo would have thought abt this and done this. what bhaboo wants then? she want to take the test of sandhya and she badly want sandhya to leave the home and still she want her son to keep the husband wife relation in the room?

and more over when bhaboo found the tab what was necessity to doubt on sandhya? there is meenakshi who is married before sandhya and she too did not give birth to any child and nor she is pregnent. is bhaboo is so dumb to understand this after seeing the tab?

what a bad treatment of women by the women only. please bhaboo remember ur also a women and u too have a daughter agar aapki beti ko koi shaadi kar ke 15 din ghar me rakhe ussse pregnant karke aapki ghar bhej dethe tho kaisa feel hotha?

Totally wrong behaviour. please Cvs dont give such message to public. treat women respectfully.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay...I may be in the minority...but I don't think Bhabo is all bad.
First of all...you have to remember that Bhabo is a total illiterate, and got married at a very young age...and if you saw the environement at Maasa's...you get an idea of the limited thinking upbringing Bhabo had...still at least Bhabo never finger poked anyone. πŸ˜†
Also, If you remember...Bhabo did not always think ill of Sandhya. In fact she was quite pleased and full of praises for her initially...She could just look in Sandhya's eyes and see she was telling the truth. She even gave Sandhya her pushtani lota which belonged to her deceased saas (a big honor as far as Bhabo was concerned).
But the current Bhabo we see is a changed person because of many truths and falsehoods coming before her.
She's under the impression that an educated, English speaking Sandhya filed an FIR against her and had her arrested (no small offense). She already was concerned that Suraj would go through life with an inferiority complex, and now she suspects that Sandhya is on the pill, because she found the tablet right after Sandhya had exited the kitchen.
And now with the suggestion that Suraj and Sandhya don't have any pati patni relations...she probably thinks Sandhya is using sex or the lack of it as a weapon to control Suraj πŸ˜†. Sounds incredible I know...but you'll be amazed at the things that cross peoples minds.
Does this make her right? No, of course not πŸ˜†. But remember, we as viewers know the truth...but Bhabo does not.
You're right...Sandhya is not a commodity...and marriage is not a joke...it's a commitment. But believe it or not...women like Bhabo and Meena do actually exist.
We are not unrealistic in our demand for Sandhya to retaliate. But rememer...Sandhya will not create a commotion. She knows she's the underdog in this household, but is determined to win Bhabo's trust. She will deal with the matter in a resonable, well-thought out manner, with all the proofs in her hand...just like she will need to when she becomes and IPS officer.
Anyway, look on the bright side...the precap seemed promising. πŸ˜ƒ
Edited by ummesulaiman - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

Okay...I may be in the minority...but don't think Bhabo is all bad.
First of all...you have to remember that Bhabo is a total illiterate, and got married at a very young age...and if you saw the environement at Maasa's...you get an idea of the limited thinking upbringing Bhabo had...still at least Bhabo never finger poked anyone. πŸ˜†
Also, If you remember...Bhabo did not always think ill of Sandhya. In fact she was quite pleased and full of praises for her initially...She could just look in Sandhya's eyes and see she was telling the truth. She even gave Sandhya her pushtani lota which belonged to her deceased saas (a big honor as far as Bhabo was concerned).
But the current Bhabo we see is a changed person because of many truths and falsehoods coming before her.
She's under the impression that an educated, English speaking Sandhya filed an FIR against her and had her arrested (no small ofense). She already was concerned that Suraj would go through life with an inferiority complex, and now she suspects that Sandhya is on the pill, because she found the tablet right after Sandhya had exited the kitchen.
And now with the suggestion that Suraj and Sandhya don't have any pati patni relations...she probably thinks Sandhya is using sex or the lack of it as a weapon to control Suraj πŸ˜†. Sounds incredible I know...but you'll be amazed at the things that cross peoples minds.
Does this make her right? No, of course not πŸ˜†. But remember, we as viewers know the truth...but Bhabo does not.
You're right...Sandhya is not a commodity...and marriage is not a joke...it's a commitment. But believe it or not...women like Bhabo and Meena do actually exist.
We are not unrealistic in our demand for Sandhya to retaliate. But rememer...Sandhya will not create a commotion. She knows she's the underdog in this household, but is determined to win Bhabo's trust. She will deal with the matter in a resonable, well-thought out manner, with all the proofs in her hand...just like she will need to when she becomes and IPS officer.
Anyway, look on the bright side...the precap seemed promising. πŸ˜ƒ


I agreed with you.. Look on the brighter side. 😊 We require to develop "alertness + awareness" to find out assertiveness in the negative outcomes during mundane life as well.πŸ‘πŸΌ
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am sure Sandya has something up her sleeve i mean she ripped up the receipt! the girls got guts, I just can't wait to see what suraj is going to do or say, hey at least now he will know why his wife is all upset! I just wish these two would talk to each other more, its so cute when there alone!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mina_T

I am sure Sandya has something up her sleeve i mean she ripped up the receipt! the girls got guts, I just can't wait to see what suraj is going to do or say, hey at least now he will know why his wife is all upset! I just wish these two would talk to each other more, its so cute when there alone!



YaY! SANDHYA is back to her gutsy nature. I loved it.
When You're right, No need to yell at anyone to prove yourself.πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸ˜›
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

Okay...I may be in the minority...but don't think Bhabo is all bad.
First of all...you have to remember that Bhabo is a total illiterate, and got married at a very young age...and if you saw the environement at Maasa's...you get an idea of the limited thinking upbringing Bhabo had...still at least Bhabo never finger poked anyone. πŸ˜†
Also, If you remember...Bhabo did not always think ill of Sandhya. In fact she was quite pleased and full of praises for her initially...She could just look in Sandhya's eyes and see she was telling the truth. She even gave Sandhya her pushtani lota which belonged to her deceased saas (a big honor as far as Bhabo was concerned).
But the current Bhabo we see is a changed person because of many truths and falsehoods coming before her.
She's under the impression that an educated, English speaking Sandhya filed an FIR against her and had her arrested (no small ofense). She already was concerned that Suraj would go through life with an inferiority complex, and now she suspects that Sandhya is on the pill, because she found the tablet right after Sandhya had exited the kitchen.
And now with the suggestion that Suraj and Sandhya don't have any pati patni relations...she probably thinks Sandhya is using sex or the lack of it as a weapon to control Suraj πŸ˜†. Sounds incredible I know...but you'll be amazed at the things that cross peoples minds.
Does this make her right? No, of course not πŸ˜†. But remember, we as viewers know the truth...but Bhabo does not.
You're right...Sandhya is not a commodity...and marriage is not a joke...it's a commitment. But believe it or not...women like Bhabo and Meena do actually exist.
We are not unrealistic in our demand for Sandhya to retaliate. But rememer...Sandhya will not create a commotion. She knows she's the underdog in this household, but is determined to win Bhabo's trust. She will deal with the matter in a resonable, well-thought out manner, with all the proofs in her hand...just like she will need to when she becomes and IPS officer.
Anyway, look on the bright side...the precap seemed promising. πŸ˜ƒ

Totally agree with you ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As a mother she has every right to be upset that theres no physical relations btwn her son and daughter in law. But on the other side, she shud have just spoken to them about it and not make such a huge fuzz and go all BBC news on them.πŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Babho has no respect for Sandhya.😭 She treats her badly and always suspects her for everything. The way she talked about Sandhya and Suraj's relation in front of everybody was disgusting.🀒 She has no respect for anyone or any "privacy". 😑

On top of that she doesn't even understand how her son is feeling as he is stuck between his wife and mother.😭 Babho has no right to judge Suraj and Sandhya's relation. Its their personal matter and she has no right to insult their relation like this in front of everyone. 🀒
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think we are expecting too much of bahbo remember she is the lady who spoke so ill about sandya being on her period in front of the entire family! we can't expect too much from her, and husband wife privacy! She doesn't know what that is to begin with! What surprises me is she talks about wanting a wife who has "sharam" in her eyes...well lady you have left NOTHING for her sharam about 😑
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I wouldnt say Suraj is stuck between mother and wife.
Sandhya never expects anything from him or from anyone else. She is a Giving person and walk on the path of truth and Honesty.
Suraj is definitly stuck with Bhabo, who is always expecting or deliberately misunderstanding the situation.
Suraj definitly has a choice its upto him what he chooses.

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